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Should I be concerned with her past intimacy with a certain friend?

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Question - (24 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Im a young girl who's been in a relationship with another girl for about 6 weeks now. I recently met her "Best Friend" who she hadn't seen in months.

I learned that her and her best friend were messing around quite a bit a few months before we got together. When I met the girl I tried to be relaxed about it and give them a bit of time to catch up, but it really bugged my girlfriend just having us in the same building. Her best friend is still attracted to her, and although they were never in an official relationship, my girlfriend says she used to be in love with her.

She admitted to still caring about her, but due to issues with them before, she doesnt want to get involved with her friend again. Her feelings towards her best friend show, though.

My girlfriend tells me she loves me and I believe her, but Im just a little nervous about having her best friend with a past like that around a lot. Should I be worried, or do I need to calm down and be thankful that it's me that's with her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010):

wow, this sounds super familiar oh yah wait ive been in this situation lol. listen mamaz its like this with lesbians its sooo weird, they hookup,date, breakup, reamin friends.... however there the few that try to rekindle the relationship. I say pay attention to your girlfriends body language, attitude and overall mode when her bestfriend is around, actions speak louder than words. ( My x gf said the same to me she loved me not her blah blah, needless to say she was sleeping her and lying to me about it,) so be cautious, but dont make your girlfriend feel guilty or bad that her bestfriend is here, you will c what she wants if u pay attention.

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A female reader, girl from bristol United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2010):

i dont think you have anything to worry about the girl clearly likes you

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