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writes: i had unprotected sex 7 days ago which was 11 or 12 days after my last period had stopped. i also had unprtected sex 3 days before that. he pulled out both times but he had visible cum on his fingers the last time and he fingered me with it. yesterday, i slept alllll day long, kept falling asleep in school, came home and went straight to bed. i woke up at 8:30 this morning because of my alarm clock but could have easily kept sleeping. today im even more tired and my boobs hurt a lot and are bigger than usual (visibly). what are the realistic chances that i am pregnant even tho it was only a little semen. please helppp! i googled this and wasnt able to find any answers.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (10 January 2010):
There's millions of sperm in just a tiny bit, so it doesn't really matter. We can't give you a percentage of what your chances are, not every single woman ovulates at the exact same time. Some women ovulate right after their period, right in the middle, toward the end, and some women even get pregnant while on their period.
It sounds like you're having some pregnancy symptoms, BUT they are probably just in your head because you wouldn't be that exhausted or having breast tenderness 7-10 after conception. So wait until you get your period, if you get it then you're more than likely not pregnant, if you don't get it: time to take a test.
Also, save yourself some stress and get on some sort of contraception and use condoms. The pull out method isn't a very good method, it's how a lot of women wind up pregnant not to mention you're with a dope who fingers you when he has cum on his fingers.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Its too late for the Emergency contraception pill. You normally have to take this the latest 3 days after unprotected sex. Not sure if you are trying to become pregnant but if you do the risks you have taken are more than likely to allow you to become pregnant. Midway throught the cycle you start ovulating so there are eggs available to be fertilised.
You are rather young. I would wait for your next period ad take it from there. If you miss it you need to see a doctor straight away.
Good luck.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 There is a good chance that you may indeed be pregnant. The only way to know for certain is to take a home pregnancy test - though I'm not sure how early you can test and get an accurate result.
If in fact you are, what will you do? How would your parents react to such news? You'll need to give it a lot of thought as to what your options are........if it turns out that you are not pregnant, I strongly urge you to start taking birth control pills if you are going to continue sleeping with your boyfriend. You should avoid having sex with him again until you can be absolutely certain you are both fully protected.......at the very least you need to INSIST he wears a condom and doesn't finger you if he's got cum on his hands.....pulling out is extremely unreliable - no protection at all. But you probably know that now.
Anyway, what's done is done, and hopefully you have dodged the bullet this time........
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reader, laura585 +, writes (10 January 2010):
Even without the fingering part - it's possible to get pregnant even though he "pulled out" anytime you have unprotected sex your chances of getting pregnant are a lot higher than they would be if a condom were used. There is precum and small traces of semen that excrete throughout sexual intercourse. Only one way to know for sure - pregnancy test! Either at home or at clinic. If you are worried and don't want to be pregnant - if you're not you better count your lucky stars and get on birth control.
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reader, megan1378 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 well let me just tell you i was in that same position.. it happened to me my frist time having sex. so i just figured wen i was late on my period that it was okay it was just from me having sex. but boy was i wrong. you need to go get checked and hurry up and find out what your going to do about it. i slept all the time. i ate all the time but i couldnt stand the smell of food in the morning but i never got sick.. i hope this helps
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