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Is he trying to bluff me off?

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Question - (10 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2010)
A female Argentina age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a friend thats not bff but you know we hang out clubbing and social things. we have a strong phisical attraction... we flirt but honestly he is a player, a kind of guy who has any girl he wants or buys LOL he is rich so is a spoild daddys son! so i never take him seriously or anything , i like to flirt because he is hot.... other than that I pass.

we have met for 2 years and i have seen him dating a bunch of hot girls since we met. (like HOT huge boobs and fake everything ). but he always finds the way to flirt with me every time he can...

well actually in the las year ignored him and really just whatever him not flirting back or anything whatsoever... the other day I was cleaning my msg friends and I found him blocked... i didnt even remember at that time that I used to talk with him and had good times together just being silly. so i decided to unblock him , just to see if he would talk to me.... and within a minute he said hi...hahaha i was actually happy to talt to him and we were chatting like an hour and then he ask me out that same day (yesterday) with the line of "so we can catch up"... i told that i had plans, so he says what about tomorrow?... i answered i have plans at night with my family. soooo he said ok i am going to pick u up at 9 am , we are going to have breakfast together , after that I am going to take you to my new place that its awesome... and you can see the hole city from there(his dad just gave him a penhouse in a gorgeous building downtown)and later we are going to have lunch and then a walk on the riverwalk. dont worry i'll drop u off before 6pm so u can go out with your family. I stated laughing and told him: ok see you at 9am. He was so suprise and got really excited ... was funny!

OMG I knew that this would endup in bed...

I call my 3 best friends and told them everything and they told me " go for it, anyways if he things that its something serious is gonna be his problem not yours" and I was like ok , but the things is a dont do fuck buddies thing', so i dont want him to think that i was a slut or something... so my friends were like "hello you haven't done anything with him in the 2 year friendship or whatever this its called"

So now i was with this dilemma of go or not to go?... i dint want him to think that this was going anywhere more than just a one time sexy time LOL and at the same time dint want him to think that i was like one of those freaking sluts girls that he is used to go out with...

well today at morning he was at 9am at my door, I wasnt sure what to wear , because i love to dress to impress when is about going on a date, but this wasn't a date as he said "so we can hang out and catch up"... thats not a date right?

anyways i couldn't help my self and dressed like it was a date.. LOL whatever.

we went breakfast he took me to a very nice coffeeBar downtown it was a nice time , we catched up and laughed , flirted ...

then we went to his place ... wow greta view of the city and actually i was pretty scared because it was so high and im scared of hights... O_O

he show me the hole place including an huge bed!!! huge!!! hahaha i was like ok , ( should i be worried??i thought LOL) we went to the living room and we were just talking and laughing and then he grabbed my hand and star talking to me very close... I was acting like whatever... but actually i was feeling my heart in my mouth LOL.

we ended up kissing and then in his huge bed...

so it ended up as I thought since the begining, I dint felt used or slut ... i felt ok . But ok like "it was nice but is only a one time thing".

Later he drooped me off and he said : do u wnat me to call u later? I told him : no , we text later if u are online... and he answered : ok , but call if u need anything or want to talk later._ I said: sure, take care!

note: i told him that my cellphone was broken and he said: ok keep mine and I have another one at home, so we can talk later... i will call u.(i freak out inside and told him: i dont think thats a good idea that my parents see me with a ramdom cellphone, becuse they for sure would ask me things.. So i said let me call you in a bit , ok? he said ok.

so like half an hour later, i was feeling bad... and i called him.

He answered : hey hottie!... i said : hey , whats going on?... he said: buying food and drinks to the party that i told you to come with me tonite but u

bluff me off...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010):

What's your question?????

You slept with a guy that is obviously very good at hooking up with girls. Congrats. You're another number for him. Good work.

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