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writes:Hi, I am a little confused at the moment. I'm 14, nearly 15 in a couple of months, and I've been with my boyfriend who has just turned 15 for about 1 month and a half now, and we get on really well. We've never argued and he's always telling me he loves me and I love him back. We have done mutual masturbation already and he has performed oral sex on me, but my problem is that I'm thinking about going further with him but I have no idea how to tell him or when it's the right time to. When and how should I tell him?Also, I'm unsure about contraception. I know that he has condoms but I'm not taking any contraception at the moment and I don't want to tell my mum because I would need her to come with me to see a doctor in order to get some. I can't go on the pill because I find them hard to swallow and is there any other safe and easy contraception for girls out there that I wouldn't need to go and see a doctor for?
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Getting the teeny tiny slippery coated birth controls pills down will be a walk in the park compared to getting a baby out.
Besides condoms anything worth using will require a visit to the doc's. You should not need to take your mum to go to the doctors. As I understand it, like Australia, you can get free healthcare in the UK. If you have some sort of medical care card there, you would only need to note the number down.
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reader, Lillia +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Hi, i know you probably wont want to hear what im gonna say because when people have said it too me in the past i never listened but... if i was you i would wait! i regret not waiting until i was a bit older. At 14 your young and theres plenty of things to be going and doing and enjoying yourself instead of having sex.Wait till you have both matured a bit, then talk about it with him.You can get contraception from clinics such as connections and places like that, or they can refer you to somewere were they can give you contaception such as condoms and the pill. I have trouble swallowing pills but the contraceptive pill is very small and is easy to swallow. They could also prehaps offer you advice on talking to your boyfriend about having sex. Dont worry these places are all confidental and you dont have to be with a parent or somone over 18xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): just tell him when your ready to but make sure he is the right guy or you just may end up regreting it but be sure to use protection
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