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writes:I think I'm getting too jealous in my relationship with my boyfriend. This morning I went on his myspace, and saw he was talking to this girl. It seemed that he was really enjoying the talk. Well, I went to ask him about it and all he said was that he was using her and I shouldn't mind about it. Of course I asked him using her for what.. all he told me was using her for some information. Now, a couple of hours ago I went back on and I found that all of the messages were deleted, I mean, all of it. Should I be worried that he's hiding something? Or am I way too jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe been together for 7 months now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Its hard to let it go but its better to get out now then to keep it going its only going to get worse. And if he is saying that then you should be worried, he is now turning it around and you and asking you why you would think something like that- and that is a clear sign hes trying to make it seem like its YOUR FAULT for thinking those things but its not. Its his because he wont just be upfront about it. He wouldnt have deleted it if there was nothing to hide. How long have you been together? Thats a tell tale sign. If its only been a short time (maybe a couple of months) then he is being shady and you need to let him go, its hard but you can find someone better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, when I ask him about it, he sometimes blow it off and say that I have nothing to worry about. Or that I should stop worrying and he wouldn't do anything to disrespect me. And at other times, he gets mad saying why would I jump to conclusions of him doing something with another girl. I mean, I probably should tell him that it's over but it's very hard to just let it go..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): Trust your gut on this... I had the same feelings when my husband did the same sort of thing.. He said I was a jealous control freak, turns out he was and is a cheating rat!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): From a male point of you he is definately hiding something guys just dont do that unless they have something to hide, heres the other things if hes hiding such small things as messages on myspace then he has probably lied to your face about a lot of other things.You shouldn't let him get away with stuff like that he is definately hiding something and if you tell me you dont like it and it gets overly defensive about it or he is saying that your over reacting your not. Thats just what guys use so that girls think its "their over reactions" When its really not, if you know the girl talk to the girl, but it most likely isnt the only thing he is hiding from you if theres one thing theres multiple things and he is definately hiding something.
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