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Do you believe in kindred spirits?

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12 June 2007 (M - Do you believe in kindred spirits? For anyone who saw the Anne of Green Gables movies you will know what I mean by this term. For others, the closest but less accurate term is soul tribe. I ponder the kindred spirit concept quite often. If you do as well, I'd like to h... (73 words

My ex-girlfriend wants to get back together... but we have no sex life together!

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend wants to get back together, which is great, we get along perfect except one thing... we have no sex life together. We dated for a couple years and it began to break down when it felt like it was going to be a long term commitment. We were off and on for some ... (170 words

Was/is he interested in me? If not, how am I to move on? If so, what should be my next move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - So I've had a crush on this guy from school for about a year and a half, beginning last Spring semester. We talked from time to time then, nothing big. Over summer we emailed each other all the time, hung out a couple of times, again nothing too special. Then this past fall ... (419 words

My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene

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12 June 2007 (F age - My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene and is quite happy to have only one shower a day in the morning regardless of what activities he has been doing during the day and only cleans his teeth in the morning too. I am the opposite and always have a couple of ... (203 words

Do you think this is boarder line stalking?? Should I try to adjust my driving time to sync up with her again and see if I can chat at the gas stations?

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12 June 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hello, my name is Rob. I’m a guy, who needs a woman's opinion and advice. I know this might sound crazy but I met this woman while driving to work. We both travel a major roadway for about a 40-mile drive. We have been waving and saying good morning to each other for the past ... (375 words

I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so jealous and I don't know why. ... (215 words

I like him but I don't think he feels the same way about me?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt. This year a new boy came into my school. At first I saw nothing on him but as he joined my drama group I began to realize there was something special about him. It was only on our last night performing that I realized how much I liked him. The problem is th... (151 words

I'm worried about his depression and want to be there for him but I can't handle being his 'soul mate' while he is with someone else.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - It has been 2 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. We were together for 3.5 years and the break up came totally out of the blue. The reason was that despite being great together we had drifted apart and had different drives in life. We were friends for a long time before ... (329 words

What should I do? I've been shying away from telling her some of the "baggage" that I have, knowing this will cause a lot of tension in the relationship

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship for 4 months. We were never friends before we started dating, and became physical quickly. 3 weeks ago I broke it off because I didn't feel we were connecting on an emotional level (that's what i told her... I was also concerned that I was just ... (243 words

I need to know how to break my boyfriend down.

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need to know how to break my boyfriend down. He does the silliest things and always expects me to go along with them. Im talking about stuff like riding halfway across town with a spitwad of gas in the tank or go to sit down and eat at a restaurant 10 mins. before I have to ... (158 words

How can I be less needy, and more sensitive to her independence?

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for a little less than a year. In most ways, our relationship has been happy and strong. But over the past few weeks, I've found myself more and more needy. Since we've come home from school, and haven't been able to see each other nearly as often, I ... (211 words

I really need some advice. I'm so confused right now and it's driving me nuts because I can't think of anything else.

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really need some advice. I'm so confused right now and it's driving me nuts because I can't think of anything else... I am in love with this boy, and have been since september. He's all I think about but, this is where it gets complicated... After a couple of months I trie... (417 words

I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship?

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship? Im 17 and have I do have a really clear understanding of love. I took a girl to homecoming this year and it was not to great. We were both immature and not interested in ea... (239 words

I've practically been disowned by my family.

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - So I've practically been disowned by my family. You would think that I did something horrible, and in their eyes I did. The reality of it...I cussed. Now let me explain, I only ever use profanity with close friends, the ones I know don't care. Also, I rarely use profanity in ... (182 words

What should I do, do I move away without saying goodbye or do I bump into her and invite her for a coffee and a farewell chat to tell her my regret?

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12 June 2007 (M age 51-59 - My problem is more a regret or if only, I met a girl at our local May fair 19 years ago. We dated for three months before a combination of work and immaturity (on my behalf) brought it to a premature end on my 19th birthday. Work as being away from home and immaturity as not ... (432 words

He got someone pregnant before we met and says he wants to stick by her but doesn't want to lose me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - hiya.. ive been in a relationship 4 some time now, and recently found out that my boyfriend made somebody pregnant.. which isnt a big deal as it was before i met him..he was only recently told himself and has made the desicion 2 stick by her..again which isnt a problem as he ... (146 words

We were much more intimate a few months ago. Should I ask him about it? and how?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year. He's really shy and doesn't often act like a boyfriend around others. We were much more intimate a few months ago. Should I ask him about it? and how?... (39 words

I have somewhat recently started having feeling for a fairly good friend.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have somewhat recently started having feeling for a fairly good friend. I have known her for about a year through our church group. I would really like to go out with her, but I also don't want to hurt our friendship. The real problem however, comes in the fact she is going ... (140 words

I am so unhappy with my life we moved to this desert and I absolutely hate it, my husband insisted on buying a house we can never afford so now what?

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12 June 2007 (F age - don't know what to do, I am so unhappy with my life we moved to this desert and I absolutely hate it, my husband insisted on buying a house we can never afford so now what?... (36 words

Help I feel like a fool but can't stop wanting him.

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12 June 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am 30 and have a 9 year old daughter. I was with her dad for 10 years. I was treated badly by him. It's been 5 years and I've been alone and feel ready to date. I meet a Lebonese man he's so hot. He lives in the same complex. He came over when my kid was away and we did'nt ... (275 words

The woman I am crazy on has just found out she's pregnant with her ex's baby.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi i am looking for advice about the situation i find myself in. I have recently been sleeping with a 22 year old woman {i am 17} and i have fell in love with her. It started off as a bit of fun but over time my feelings have changed. The problem is she has only just split with ... (96 words

Firstly, is it normal to live with 2 roomates while in a serious relationship?

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok I have quite a few issues with my boyfriend of 4 years. Firstly, is it normal to live with 2 roomates while in a serious relationship? We could not afford a place of our own so we live with 2 (almost) complete strangers, and I don't see an end to this! I am not happy wit... (221 words

What are the percentage of people who engage in oral and anal sex?

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - hello everyone. i have been noticing a dramtic increase in anal and oral sex among teens. being an adolescent i see alot of my peers engaging in these activities. i know that the percentage is probably higher in adults. being a total virgin (in every respect) and considering ... (89 words

Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one? i am 14 and have only had one boyfriend and that was in primary school so i have never had a proper one my friends say i am pretty and look like barbie but i am the only one that has neve... (73 words

Things were going great but now he seems to be giving me the cold shoulder, is he going off me?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, now things were going great but now he seems to be giving me the cold shoulder. we have been going the caravan these past weeks an all the wanted to do was fish play snooker and do a crossword. he isnt textin me any more or phoning ... (73 words

I really want to ask her out, should I "accidently" be working outside the school when she comes out (she works there) or what?

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi im 23 and have been going through a very weird problem. Well me and this girl had been friends since we were 3 and when we were 15 we became boyfriend and girlfriend and loved each other very much. My mum never liked it and about a year n a half later decided to move and ... (320 words

I love sex... is this a problem?!

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay, this is going to sound very stupid to some people but, urm... I think I might be a bit mad about sex, you know? I always think about doing it, and I mean ALWAYS. I'm not really worried about, but is it normal? Also, I was sat down on the sofa with my boyfriend, and when ... (79 words

I am not good looking and have very little confidence. Is there any hope of me dating?

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I think im not good looking, so i have very little confidence in asking out any girl that i like.... what do i do? are looks important to women? im not good looking AT ALL... do i have any hope?... (40 words

How do I tell my friend I am crazy about him?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - hiya there is this lad that i really like and all my mates say to tell him how i feel i have liked him since i was in year 7 on and off. We are really good friends and we have just left school but going back for exams and i want to tell him how I feel but I am really scared ... (137 words

He wants to give me oral but I'm a bit self conscious about how I look down there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to do oral on me (ive done it to him) and i want him to but I'm just a bit self concious about how I look! I know im probably worrying about nothing but i cant help it! i do shave but not right down there coz i dont wanna cut myself! any advice?... (57 words

My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it. I love to give and receive. I told her that I didnt want her to do it out of an ... (121 words

How can you tell if you love someone and how can I get over the fact she kissed him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - A few days ago my friend kissed the guy I liked. It hurt so much but I can't hate her. Everyones asking me why I'm being so stupid because it's "just a guy" and that made me think, what if he isn't? How can you tell if you love someone and how can I get over the fact she ... (67 words

Cheating on my boyfriend, now I'm pregnant by the other guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I will try to make this quick ,I been with my Man for 8 and half years , We are suppose to get married this year, I love him to death and a part of me is so ready. Problem is for the first 5 years he was unfaithful, loving him so much I settle for that and started cheating ... (192 words

He still looked at porn after we had sex. Is he addicted or something because he said that when we don't have sex he is horny and needs porn, but we did have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need some major advice from all you guys out there. Please just give me your opinion on this subject. I live with my boyfriend of 9 months. We are very happy together and a few months ago I noticed that he had been to porn websites. I asked him about it and he said that the... (316 words

This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day?

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12 June 2007 (F age 26-29 - This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day? Please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Answer my questions.... (30 words

His behaviour has changed and everyone is telling me to break it off with him... but I can't!!

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with my boyfriend. I would do anything for him. Over the last 8 months or so he has been under house arrest while attending college 2 hours away. I spent every weekend driving to see him even though I myself have a very hectic schedule between ... (255 words

I am in a relationship that my family is not OK with. How can I stay on good terms with my family, but not have to leave my boyfriend?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am in a relationship that my family is not OK with. How can I stay on good terms with my family, but not have to leave my boyfriend? A few years ago I moved to the USA, and I began a relationship with an illegal immigrant. We've been together for 3 years, and he is a grea... (116 words

Am I too needy? Does she maybe not understand my emotions? What?

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm horribly confused. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. At the end of both our leases were planning on moving out together. I'm really happy with our situation and finally feel comfortable being near someone so much. But lately things have been... (298 words

I found out he was married so I've backed right off, how do I get over him when I see him all the time?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - What should I do - I always seem to go out with a certain 'type' of guy. They are always ones who have nothing really going for them except their looks and who are generally bad for me who end up treating me badly - so I guess they are badboy types. But now I've met someone who ... (152 words

Since we have been married sex has become an afterthought and we are lucky to do it once a week...

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my wife for almost 4 years. We got married last year and are quickly approaching our one year anniversary. Before we got married we would have sex on a daily basis and sometimes twice a day! We would do it everywhere we could (including on th... (209 words

I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - Can someone please help me with this tough situation. I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.... i could be wrong. She only calls me when she wants to go out! I do enjoy going ... (158 words

She won't have sex with me and I'm getting very bored.

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12 June 2007 (? age 36-40 - i have a girl friend but she won't do anything with me and i love her lots and i want to have sex fun with her but she just walks away and i am getting very bored with her what shall i do????... (43 words

I'm a virgin and he's not... any tips for our relationship?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and we are thinking about having sex but i'm kinda worried because i'm a virgin and he's not what if he breaks up with me because i can't full feel his needs?... (42 words

How can I get my boyfirnd to pay more attention to me and not push me away all the time?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - How can I get my boyfirnd to pay more attention to me and not push me away all the time?... (20 words

How can I get him to stop being such a mamas boy and grow up and realize he has a family?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - my ex would spend his money on other things instead of getting us a place for our family and would listen to everything his mother said how can I get him to stop being such a mamas boy and grow up and realize he has a family..... (47 words

My best guy friend is always holding and touching me, do you think he likes me MORE than a friend?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - my best guy friend *john* is always holding me, touching me, and ALWAYS around me. all of our friends say that he likes me, but he denies it. and so do i. but then he goes and does something so romantic and sweet. like this one time at a carnival, i had to leave early, but my ... (85 words

how can I help our relationship and mend it back together for our child's sake?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up because we were always fighting about the fact that he was always working when he did not have to and instead of coming home to me and his daughter he would go out afterwards, how can I help our relationship and mend it back together for our child sake?... (55 words

I'm in love with my best friend, would it freak him out if I told him this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

12 June 2007 (F - Hey, I'm in love with my best friend. We've recently got a lot closer, but only in a friendly way. Would it ruin our friendship or freak him out if i told him this? thanks x... (37 words

How do I conquer my jealousy?

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12 June 2007 (F age - How do I conquer my jealousy? Or stop the inner boiling up? It's not that I'm possessive, it's just that my bf is extremely social. He has many friends who are women, and when he talks to them by telephone, he rarely even mentions me, and I sort of hover in the backgrou... (183 words

what do I do or tell her?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - My best friend is making me mad she always ask me if I'm seeing anybody and I'm afraid to tell her I am because she always wants there numbers then she will call them and it feels weird what do I do or tell her?... (45 words

How can I prove to her how much she means to me?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am a lesbian and i have just split up with my girlfriend. we only went out for 6 months but it was my first real relatonship. i think she wants to get back with her ex, although she says she will not. she says she is not ready for a serious relationship. i want to get back ... (80 words

What do you think I should do?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with this guy and we've been together for like almost 18 months. On his birth day I gave this friend (a girl) of mine his email address just to wish him happy bday(that was in April. Lately this friend of mine has been emailing him you know one of those... (186 words

I cannot leave the military... It's the way of my life but I dont want to lose her either..

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm in the military and I've been to Iraq twice now and am being sent for the 3rd time. This has taken a great toll on my relationship with my girlfriend. I love her to bits and couldn't have imagined doing my time in Iraq without a picture of her somewhere with me... B... (160 words

I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but didn't mention how she felt ... (244 words

I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi. I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love..ya see my problem is I seem to love alot of lads and don no why or who to go for so that were i need your help so plez help me... theres this lad i wrk wit recently i never used to fancy him bu sence started wrkin wit ... (277 words

He won't even be friends with me and he seemed so sweet and genuine previously.

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy for a few months, he was very quiet and shy and very awkward and nervous around girls, but I persisted as I thought he just needed a bit of confidence and experience. He told people he liked me and I liked him, yet when we met we could never really ... (211 words

I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get laid and find someone ?... (64 words

Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me?

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me? Telling me that she would be happier with me but she can't leave her current relationship is what is really stopping me from moving on. I would ... (181 words

Why would I fear rejection when entering in to an argument with someone?

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - Why would I fear rejection when entering in to an argument with someone? Often this is the same reason i try to keep my mouth shut or avoid conflicts with people i am close to or get along well. The issue that are sensitive include, loss of respect in eyes of partner for making ... (105 words

I told him that with over 100 women on his phone it was taking the pee.

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12 June 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have been with my man for 5 years. we have had our ups and downs like everyone else. he is 10 years older than me. i found out a few years ago that he was using chat rooms. i didnt mind him having conversations with other people at first, but then he was staying up late and ... (826 words

I have fallen into deep depression and cry every day and night over the man who left me for his maby momma

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have fallen into deep depression and cry every day and night over the man who left me for his maby momma. I guess i just cant accept that he is gone because everything was so perfrct and this one thing spoiled everything. He is moving on as though i never existed and that ... (120 words

I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok I'm 14 going 15 this December 2, I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???... (25 words

A guy made a pass at me at a party but it's the OTHER guy I like!

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was at a party last weekend and the guy I fancy ended up kissing one of my friends whilst I was sitting right next to him. I went upstairs and, having had too much to drink, started sobbing. My other friend's boyfriend came to comfort me and he made a pass at me. Nothing h... (96 words

I have the biggest crush on my son's primary school teacher

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have the biggest crush on my son's primary school teacher. I've not done anything about because i don't know if it's allowed. Is a teacher allowed to get involved with one of their students parents? If so what is the best way for me to approach the subject? Than... (57 words

Help! I don't know which one to choose?

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have to make a choice between a crazy anime-obsessed girl my age who dropped out of high school and doesn't wear her shoes when she works behind the counter at Borders, and the valedictorian a year younger than me who is a little bit taller and thinks I'm funny and smart.. ... (133 words

Over the years I have noticed that when it comes to getting what she wants she is ruthless, as well as demanding and self-obsessed.

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12 June 2007 (F - I have a friend that I have known for 9 years. During that time we have been through a lot together and our children have been great friends although they don't see each other much. The problem is that over the years I have noticed that when it comes to getting what she wants ... (278 words

How do I convince my boyfriend to get married?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - How do I convince my boyfriend to get married?... (9 words

My girlfriend and I are in our first proper relationship we've been going out for 4 months now and things were going really well but within the space of week everything's gone pear shaped.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are in our first proper relationship we've been going out for 4 months now and things were going really well but within the space of week everything's gone pear shaped. she said that it was all due to exams and she's stressed out etc she doesn't know what's ... (186 words

Why does my boyfriend get an erection at the slightest thing?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets an erection very easily and we both dont know why... he doesent feel horny or turned on but he gets an erection! when i say very easily i mean very very easily :S we think it might have something to do with high blood pressure but if there is anything he can ... (71 words

I'm currently pursuing a divorce because of his lies and the fact he wont cut off ties with this woman even though they dont work together anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - please could someone tell me im being paranoid.ive been married 8 years a few months ago i was in the shopping mall and a woman stopped to say hi to my husband.i asked him who was that and he told me she was a co worker and that was the end of discussion and then a few months ... (295 words

I found out my husband was having an affair for 6 months

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12 June 2007 (F age 51-59 - I emailed a couple of weeks ago that i found out my husband had been haveing an affair for 6 months.we are talking and that does seem to help but it doesnt,im confused as i am still sleeping with my husband and telling him i love him is all of this normal,as i dont know i still ... (106 words

I miss the way we were, the way he was towards me when we first started dating.

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - HEY.. Me and my boyfriend have been together quite a while. i fell for who he was and he fell for who i was. More i got into the relationship i kind of got really attached . I'm always pissed at him for little things, like little things that don't matter. These little ... (190 words

When I have sex I can't get an erection and it will not work can you please help me to sort me out.

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12 June 2007 (? age 36-40 - When I have sex I can't get an erection and it will not work can you please help me to sort me out.... (23 words

How do I work out how I really feel about him so I can put it into words and tell him?

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12 June 2007 (F - this question is going to sound really stupid but i really really need some help. iv been going through a really rough time lately. mostly its down to having a baby and being on maternity leave for 6 months. not being at work has affected me much worse than i thought it would... (249 words

I have just had sex with my boyfriend's best friend.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have just had sex with my boyfriend's best friend. i really like my boyfriend and i know you are thinking that if i really like why did i sleep with the best friend? i only understand it now that i am in the situation. should i tell my boyfriend? but i know that i will lose ... (77 words

Does he still love me or is he completely indifferent? Which one is the real him?

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was wondering whether men act more like themselves when they are drunk. There's a saying in Spanish that says that only small children and drunks tell the truth. When people are drunk it seems they are more likely to tell the truth (or they are more likely to just let it ... (122 words

All I wanted is for my boyfriend to move here to live with me because we live so far apart.

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - All I wanted is for my boyfriend to move here to live with me because we live so far apart. However after researching into it there's just no way its going to happen. Then talking to him about it yesterday he confesses that he won't move away from his family for another one or ... (198 words

I am in a situation where I don't want her to risk her relationship with her family but I don't really want to end US as well.

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12 June 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been with this girl for 3 or 4 months. We had not yet disclosed our relationship to anyone. Then suddenly her mother found out. Now I am in a situation where I don't want her to risk her relationship with her family but I dont really want to end US as well. What options,... (62 words

I'm madly in love with a man who is 23 and I'm almost 17.

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm madly in love with a man who is 23 and I'm almost 17. We've never had sex, but we plan to on my 18th birthday. I just need to know if he's doing something illegal, and if so what are the consequences. I would hate to get him into trouble, because I truly care about him. ... (74 words

my girlfriend has never found it easy to orgasam with her partners but has done so on several occasions with me. However, what upsets me is that she never fails to when she is using a vibrator.

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12 June 2007 (M age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, my girlfriend has never found it easy to orgasam with her partners but has done so on several occasions with me. However, what upsets me is that she never fails to when she is using a vibrator. Is this normal, should we be able to work on this together or is there ... (80 words

Lately, when I get drunk I transform in this other person which sometimes scares me and I don't know how to control myself.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - A couple of months ago I went out with some friends. We got drunk and so I asked for a ride home to this guy I thought was my friend. Everything was pretty normal at the time. When we got home he started saying things to me like: "I´ve always liked you" and such. He dated a ... (181 words

He seems to prefer his computer games to me! It's sooooo frustrating!!!!

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - Alright I dont know if this is normal but... my boyfriend loves computer games and plays like 8 hours a night. whenever I ask him a question he wont answer because he is so involved in the stupid game. I call him and it is like he isnt even there. I find it so rude, should I ... (74 words

My ex husband wants me back and my ex boyfriend wants me. Do I settle for security with my husband, or excitement with my boyfriend?

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12 June 2007 (F age - My ex husband wants me back and my ex boyfriend wants me. Do I settle for security with my husband, or excitement with my boyfriend? They are both great guys! How do I break up and hurt one of them? I am so tormented!... (45 words

Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ... (22 words

Why is my ex suddenly contacting me?

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12 June 2007 (M age 36-40 - So, now my ex and I are at a point where I've tried getting over her and i was slightly successful (very recent breakup). But out of no where she begins to contact me once or twice a day for about 6 days straight. I'm here thinking, oh my god, maybe she feels something for me ... (164 words

My family does not like my boyfriend. Could it be that I'm blinded by love and they are right?

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - So I've been dating this guy for 8 months. He's wonderful, and treats me like a queen. Problem is, when I introduced him to my family, my sister did not like him. That, in turn caused a couple of my other family members and friends to question his character. He has been around ... (104 words

He is giving mixed signals. Is he attracted to me?

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is he attracted to me? I really feel like a goofy teenager again. I started a new job and have developed a crush on one of my colleagues. Its started off as a few harmless pranks I played on him, but under the laughter I realized I fancied him. He seems to really appreciate my ... (220 words

I've been whoring it up so bad and now I'm getting a reputation and my friends all hate me now.

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12 June 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive been single for two months now and have felt kinda lost without my ex. Im normally a really good girl that doesnt do anything wrong, thinks things through, and never makes mistakes. But lately Ive been drinking a lot with my frinds and making bad decisions. I've had two one ... (109 words

How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old female and I thought I met the man of my dreams. How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him. I want him to be "the one" more than any man I've ever dated. How do I know if he's the right one? I'm worried the spark is gone. ... (64 words

I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around.

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12 June 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone I've been with this girl for 11 months now, I'm very much in love with her and for the most part things are great. However lately I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around. She says shes in love with me and from... (310 words

Why does he never get back to me when I text him?

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have this one guy i have liked him so much (18yo), for 2 years this september! but early this year i gave up and went out with a guy which lasted 3 weeks. I had finally forgotten about this guy i have liked for so long and when i was dumped i was so upset!! Now im back to ... (171 words

I think I am being bullied by my female boss, and I am not sure how to deal with it.

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12 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - I think I am being bullied by my female boss, and I am not sure how to deal with it. I have never really gelled with her like I have with other colleagues, although we do get on to a degree. She insinuated today that I had misfiled some reports, although I would say that h... (316 words

It's a classic case of being in a relationship, but liking someone else

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12 June 2007 (F age 30-35 - It's a classic case of being in a relationship, but liking someone else. It all started nearly a year and a half ago now, I realised I liked one of my best male friends, let's call him Tom. We became quite close and talked a lot and the feelings grew. But he obviously didn't... (451 words

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