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writes: Hey, I'm in love with my best friend. We've recently got a lot closer, but only in a friendly way. Would it ruin our friendship or freak him out if i told him this?thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Im in the same exact situation, I came on here to look for advice. I sent him a text on his phone earlier saying that I wished he was "here with me". I got a text back, saying that we should to talk face to face an hour later. So we are going to talk tonight when he gets home (we are housemates). Wish me luck, it will be hard, but knowing is more relaxing than not knowing. Even if its a terrifying journey to the answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I've been in the same situation as you, I loved and still love my best friend. I felt like this for a couple of month before I realised that it was tearing me apart not knowing. So I took a deep breath and told him (actually I took a deep breath and that freaked out and ran off before actually saying it the first time, then the second time I did tell him. and I asked him how he felt about me... he said that he only liked me as a mate but know we are even closer so its better for me...
Me advice would be to take the plunge and see what happens. It'll be weird and difficult at first but then you should be able to work around it...
Good luck hun.
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