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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She treats me nice one minute and ignores me the next...move on or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey, i am in a quite a hurtful situation and need some other help. My G/f of 4 years and I went on a break at her request. However i feel this break is a break up as she has no desire to get back with me anytime soon. I can accept this but she is giving me really mixed signals. ... (132 words)

Does this guy really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, i really like this guy but he is 2 years older than me and i know that he likes sum1 else in his year. He asks if we want t go out, and when we do, we always hav a gd time and get really close. He touches me and once we nearly ended up kissing. He always looks at my lips ... (91 words)

The signs are there but does he like me and just is afraid to say or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i relly lik this lad but not sure if he likes me.im 15 yrs old and in 3rd year and iv loved him ever since 1st year! he kinda knows i like him but does'nt beleave anyone that tells him. on last holloween night he text me he said he was drunk but i dont think he was and he said ... (137 words)

How long does it take for you to get pregnant and how will I know if my boyfriend will be there for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I'm afraid that i may be pregnant and i don't know what to do. I don't know how to tell my parents. How long does it take for you to get pregnant? How will i know if my boyfriend will be there for me? HELP!... (52 words)

I want her to be more direct in what she wants from me. Does she just like me a good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 49 and she is 50. I like her very much but I can't read the signs.....Typical male I guess We spend hours on the phone practically every day. We go for lunch and to the pub on an evening. She tells me everything about herself. About her private financial matters, her fam... (166 words)

Is blonde pubic hair a turn off for most women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am just wondering is blonde pubic hair a turn-off for women?!?!?!?and where can u buy condoms???... (17 words)

What body type do men like most on women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, this is just a general question. What body type do men like most on women? Is it true that curves are better in a man's eyes? ... (35 words)

I bumped into my ex at a bar and he gave me mixed messages! What should my next move be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - What should my next step be??? Ahhh! i bumped into my ex (of 8 months) last night at the bar/dance club! it was very awkard for him, and a little 'Ahhh crap' for me!! He hadnt contacted me for the past 2 months since he dumped me....and of course i am not fully over him! i p... (226 words)

He talks about how he loves his ex gf, but he likes me...should I just forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (?) age 16-17 - i really like this boy. he is 16 and i am 15 and i really like him in fact i think i might love him. he is all i think about and he says he likes me and he calls me cute but then in the same conversation he is saying how much he misses his ex and loves his ex and might be ... (93 words)

I gave her a precise date amd time to decide whether she wants to get back with me..am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I posted a question earlier, and things have changed a bit, and I would like to hear some advice from you all. I will recap the roots of my problems. I was sent an email saying my girlfriend was cheating on me. The email said I could find evidence in her myspace inbox in... (371 words)

Dating a co-worker but her ex is back. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I work with a girl who first told me she liked me about two months ago. We've been on a few dates since but recently her posessive ex has come back into the picture and I think she is really confused as to what she wants. I've never really told her how I really feel as I didn't ... (169 words)

She has apologized to me and said she will change her bad ways! What should I do? Dump her or stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

8 June 2007 (M) age 18-21 - ive been dating this girl for a month, but we became serious 2 weeks ago. shes different from anyone else ive dated (good and bad), but somehow we ended up becoming close. within the last 2 weeks, she has threatened to to harm to a relative, which has been bothering me for a ... (178 words)

I don't like him anymore but am afraid to break his heart. How do I let him down easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I totally loved a guy in my homerun, then we went out twice, and i started to fall away, and now i don't feel like i really...like him anymore...I don't know...i want to break up, but know i will just break his heart...what should i do???... (46 words)

I'm paranoid that my bf is bored with me! How do I get that spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - me n mi bf have been together nearly 2 years now, n ium so paraniod that hes bored of me. I went on the pill resently so we didnt have to worry about anything. But we hang about with a lot of ppl, a lot of girls n he opens up more n has a laugh with them more then he does with ... (112 words)

She said I was unaffectionate. So when I began showing her more love, she lost her attraction for me! How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I recently got out of a relationship that I didn't want to end. The girl left me because she said we were fighting too much and she said she lost faith in me and was tired of giving me chances. The only thing we ever really fought about was what I felt was a lack of affection ... (178 words)

He has two jobs and I am feeling neglected because I don't see him! Am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok am i just being selfish? my boyfriend is working two jobs, though i'm pretty sure he only really needs to be doing one, and he works about 60 hours a week. but when he comes home he does more work. all week, all weekend. he has no time for me at all. i know he loves me but ... (66 words)

I'm pregnant but I have to see the ex bf, about making arrangements for the abortion. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - In march my boyfriend and i broke up because it was too hard being apart after he transfered to another school, but up until then we had a great relationship. The week after we broke up, i found out he was seeing someone else, but only a week after that he told me they weren't ... (318 words)

I am depressed and my life seems worthless since we broke up, 9 months ago! Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend left me nine months ago we were together just under 3years and since i have been put on anti depressents and ended up in hospital due to an overdose. still feel i cant cope and love him so much, my life just feels worthless without him and dont know what to do ... (57 words)

I was inconsiderate to her in the past. How do I show her I am changing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have lied and done the wrong thing in the past ie.. being inconsiderate. I realize what I am losing if I dont change. How do I change and show her from a distance, I am deployed in the army, that I am changing because I love her?... (48 words)

He shaves his balls! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

- my bf shaves his pubes and balls! is this normal? he says he does it for me, which i think is sweet, but do any guys out their do it too?... (31 words)

I want my ex back but he doesn't answer my calls. Should I stop chasing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

8 June 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a long term relationship for about 5 years now and me and my ex have broke up 3 weeks ago I have tried to be back with him I have wrote him 3 times and even called him but he doesn't answer my phone calls and I never hear from him but just last we... (236 words)

How can I test his sexual boundaries without permanently doing harm in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

- My bf is a bit on the proud and manly side. There’s one time we were being intimate and he multi-fingered me. I was surprised because it wasn’t like the usual so I made a comment of how good that is. Then we had sex. The next day, he asked me if I liked the finger more than the ... (242 words)

She married to my Uncle and they're moving. What am I going to when she goes! I love her..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - OK, to some of you this may sound like a real "Jerry Springer" moment, but in actual fact, iam going through hell in a hand basket at the moment. Ok, my question is what am i to do? Now u are thinking, do what? Well let me tell you, ive met a woman who changed my life so m... (333 words)

All the signs are there..so does this guy really, fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F) age 13-15 - Hi, i really like this guy but there is 1 problem! he is 2 years older than me. He likes this girl, in his year but i think he fancies me. When we go out we always have a laugh and have a great time. i always catch him looking at me and he always touches me. When he hugs me ... (78 words)

I am in love with my best mates ex and unsure how to handle the situation..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best mates ex and unsure how to handle the situation. They split about 6 weeks ago and I have tried to be there for both of them as a friend, however I have feelings for this girl and I now know that she feels the same way about me.We have been seeing e... (130 words)

I'm obsessed with my 30 year old teacher! I can't go on like this--what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm so desperate to end this misery! Firstly, it was a crush... then it got a lil stronger and now it's just got out of control - I'm mad about him!!! He's 30, i'm 15 - big age difference! you see, he's a teacher at my school! Sometimes i cry myself to sleep, just thinking ho... (167 words)

He mistreats me badly and I need to know how to deal with it. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 1/2 year doesn't treat me right. He's never laid a finger on me, but he's really possessive and gets angry at me. I know that he's like this because he's insecure, and in the past I haven't exactly been the best person. I have NEVER cheated on him, but he ... (406 words)

Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Can you get pregnant by putting it in and pulling it out once.... (13 words)

Is he a Mommy's Boy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some urgent advice. I have been dating a guy for 2 months. He is 40 years old and his mother is living with him. We have different backgrounds in the sense that I grew up middle class where he is an only child in a rich family. We are intellectually well matched and ... (202 words)

A past traumatic experience makes me dread my b'day! I need advice on how to cop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (?) age 16-17 - hi. im gonna go straight into my question n then i will explain. i am turning 15 tomorrow and i am dreading it because for the past 2 years i have been petrified of this one day!! last year i couldnt even bring my self to get out of bed and from like 2 or 3 days before my ... (521 words)

He doesn't want a relationship over the summer! I'm so upset--what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey there people,im in a bit of a dilemma :0( iv met what i thought was the perfect guy at uni. He has a lways been with lots of girls but always liked me apparantly. Normally when he goes out, he kisses loads of girls but al hisf friends say that since he met me he isnt ... (162 words)

Read her msn conversations with another guy! Is she cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I recently read up on a msn conversation my girlfriend had with another guy. It was very intriging. How do I get over it. How do I know if she is cheating. I need help... (35 words)

His uni work seem sto take priority over me and it's driving me mad! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi ya, what can i say apart from im driving myself demented with worry and insecurity. I have been seeing a lovely bloke for 2 months he lives 80 miles away but we get on great. Unfortunately at the moment he is in his last 10 weeks of a 3 year course at uni. I visited him ... (275 words)

I am constantly upset and in tears and feel like my self esteem is shot and very insecure.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am constantly upset and in tears and feel like my self esteem is shot and very insecure. First of all let me explain that I never used to be like this before, that is until in the last few months I have just started to feel like my boyfriend really does not care about me or ... (458 words)

I am due to go through a major event in my life and it's worrying me sick...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M) - I am due to go through a major event in my life, though most of you would think it is nothing if I said. I have been worrying about this event that I have blown everything out of proportion and gained a deep anxiety from it which has affected my week. The anxiety is worse... (152 words)

We didn't have actual intercourse but I'm terrified because my period is late.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I know this might sound ridiculous, but its worrying me and that's why I'm asking for help. I have never had intercourse sex and just once my fiance and I just kinda made out...He rubbed his penis outside my vagina instead of having intercourse, u know what I mean...But anywa... (185 words)

How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit of hair on the vagina??? plz ... (61 words)

What should I do, cancel the wedding. Go through with it and possibly regret it or see if the grass is greener with the other woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Please help me. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 nearly 7 years and we are due to be married in August. We live together with a dog and mortgage and the wedding is all paid for and the guests are invited. Before christmas she found photgraphs on my computer of ex g... (242 words)

Should I leave my fiance for this other guy I met online??? I don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F) - hi i have been with my fiancee for nearly 2 years and i think i am fallin out of love with him i cant stop texting this bloke i met off the internet i fancy him like mad and he says he likes me to but wem cant get together as we live 3 hours apart from each other i dont know if ... (87 words)

My husband of 23 years came home 6 weeks ago and told me was leaving in the morning as there was another woman...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 23 years came home 6 weeks ago and told me was leaving in the morning as there was another woman, 20 years younger than me and ten years younger than him. After six weeks of living at his brother's house, and a lot of tears from me, he has decided/agreed t... (199 words)

I feel as if my husband doesn't love me any more...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for nearly 4 years and in Feb this year i fell and broke my foot and it has took til june for it to repair, All this time my husband and i have been under stress with money etc, as i can go back to my job until it is fixed. Anyways i feel like my hubby is ... (237 words)

How long will it take until my foreskin pulls make more easily ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - My foreskin doesnt retreact easily, so basically i went to the docters a few weeks ago and he told me that if i pulled back my foreskin when my penis was its smallest it would generally pull back easier, but i havnt been able to do this as i keep forgetting or get worried, im ... (78 words)

Do you think I should let him see the "real" me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm currently living and working in another country. I moved to another country for various reasons (travel, find myself etc...) I met a great guy. We have been "together" for almost 6 months, although we never have officially called each other boyfriend/girlfriend. The ma... (163 words)

We got back together after his cheating, but he still continues to chat sexily with others!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

8 June 2007 (F) - I have gotten back with my boyfriend of two years. We went through a hard stage of cheating. He says he wants to be with me but behind my back he is messaging other women asking to 'start talking' with them. I even caught him telling his ex she was sexy. He says these ... (79 words)

Did I ruin this by taking the lead, when generally men dont like it if women do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

- Male opinion needed....do men really not like it when women make the first move to ask them out? I am so depressed, there is this guy that I met in a 9 week training class, he always made the effort to talk to me and sort of single me out to do that with, I got the strong f... (456 words)

..."don't worry, I will fix myself first and after this we will try to fix our problem" What does he mean by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..me and my boyfriend had a misunderstanding over his making up with his past girlfriend and so i made a false confession to him that i texted a guy friend to go out with me but i realized that i cant do it to him so it never happened..so my boyfriend will be hurt and feel ... (219 words)

How am I supposed to go about giving him a BJ with braces and a small mouth!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend and i have been together for some time now... we hold hands, kiss, cuddle, and have gone a little bit farther than that but not much farther because i told him i was not yet comfortable with the whole idea. Anyways, i'm finally ready to go to the next level... i'm ... (225 words)

Worried my insecurities will ruin what we have!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a wonderfall retionship with my partner of 7months but i have a problem with jealousy, because of past relationships were i have been cheated on, I trust my girl and i no she would not hurt me but i fear my insecurities mite ruin what we have.... (51 words)

My bf cant make the trip with me, and hes cross at me for going alone, should I feel guilty ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I have been with my bf for four years. This summer I had been thinking about going to the east coast to visit my sister. My bf said he didnt want me going by myself and that he would come with me. He didnt invite himself - he was invited by my sister and her fiance ... (174 words)

I don't have a house or a family to support, so I send money to my ex to help her out, after all it IS my money to do with as I want!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, heres the situation. I am still in touch with my first girlfriend from 25 years ago. She lives in another country and we see each other every couple years or so. She is divorced and has 2 kids. I dated her before she married and had the kids, not after. I still love her ... (695 words)

Her moods are all over the place and its not just because shes pregnant! I want to help her but how!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 months has been pregnant for about 1 month now (we found out about 1.5 weeks ago). She keeps getting these mood swings, which really eat at me. I finally snapped today and told her I can't stand it and to stop treating me like shit, I've been doing the best I ... (305 words)

How would I ever know if he is lying to me? I really want to trust him, but with everything that has happened to me, I'm just not sure how to trust guys anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. I really need to talk to someone, but I can't see a counselor or a psychologist right now, so please help me. I'll give you my story, sorry it's so long. It all started last summer, when I was seventeen. I met this great guy and went out with him for a few months. I found ... (337 words)

Could my mate have got her pregnant in this way ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My mate has asked me to post this question. He took a girl out about 3 weeks ago, he had masturbated earlier about 5 hours befre things got physical with this girl (yeah thanks for telling me that mate was my reaction..), apparantly the cum was on his hands, although he had ... (157 words)

I have a hang up on my penis size due to what the ex said, should I mention this to my new girl ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

8 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Right, straight talking on penis size.. It's 4.75 inches in girth and length, - I was with my ex for four years and during this time we had some break ups, although she did never sleep with anyone else,she did get intermit with a guy with a "thicker" scholong, this w... (174 words)