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writes:A couple of months ago I went out with some friends. We got drunk and so I asked for a ride home to this guy I thought was my friend. Everything was pretty normal at the time. When we got home he started saying things to me like: "I´ve always liked you" and such. He dated a friend of mine for a while but were no longer dating. He started kissing me and I told him to stop because I knew my friend still had feelings for him. Actually, things went a bit far but didn't have sexual intercourse. I regret it because I know I did wrong and for a fact he only used me, but didn't do much to stop what we were doing because I was too drunk to think clearly, even lost a friend because she already found out what happend. Lately, when I get drunk I transform in this other person which sometimes scares me and I don't know how to control myself. What does this stage I'm going tru means?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 If you "transform" into another person when you drink then it's not a "stage" it's a warning sign. You have a real danger of becoming an alcoholic. Some people just cannot tolerate alcohol so lay off the sauce and you will be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): You ask the question; what does this stage you are going through mean?
It means you need to grow up and drink less.
Don't beat yourself up over this incident, just learn from it, and don't do it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Have you thought of laying of the alcohol for a while?? If you carry on like this you will continue to lose friends, if that happens u r likely to turn to drink for answers, that will lead to terrible consequences. Take a step back and look at ur life, don't leave it till it's too late xx
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