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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with this girl for 3 or 4 months. We had not yet disclosed our relationship to anyone. Then suddenly her mother found out. Now I am in a situation where I don't want her to risk her relationship with her family but I dont really want to end US as well.What options, if any, do i have? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I think there is more to this than you are saying. Why does the relationship have to be a secret? I don't know, I just think that it shouldn't have to end between you two. If you are 22-25, I assume that your girlfriend is too. Therefore, her mom really shouldn't have that much of a say in the relationship. I don't see why you two have to break up. Just be nice to her mom and try to work it out with all of you.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 This situation is a trouble, yes.
I understand why you ask it here.
"don't want her to risk her relationship with her family"
Unless there are obstacles, you are supposed to marry her.
Other options are less reasonable and will lead to the END.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Why is it a problem that her mum has found out? If you have nothing to hide and you really like this girl then there's no reason it has to end because her family knows.
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