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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not attracted to my husband any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 5 yrs and I'm not attracted to him anymore and get angry being around him and he's a good person can you help me understand why I feel this way.... (36 words)

Should I trust her alone with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this girl at a job that i had and we became cool. i also met a guy there who became my boyfriend. One day me and my boyfriend went out and he said that she was going to open up her own business and gave her number to him. She never mentioned anything to me about the ... (192 words)

He keeps giving me mixed signals, should I forget him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - theres a boy who i really like hes 2 years older than me and he keeps on giving me mixed signals and recently i had a dream and it was about a different boy and he was full on and snogged me and it made me realise that i can't keep on waiting around for the real boy.but i don't ... (64 words)

Do I take my ex back or give it a go with this other guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with a guy for 22 years which produced two beautiful children. I left him recently because i was abused and embarrassed in front of people at times. I have a new boyfriend, but i just hate to know that my ex is crying a... (122 words)

Does anyone else get treated like crap from their boyfriend's family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Any other girls get treated like crap from their boyfriends family,even when you did nothing wrong?... (16 words)

I'm not attracted to him physically, is that something that could change with time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with a guy once, and I wasn't really attracted to him. He's called me a few times since then, and we had great conversations on the phone. He has many good qualities--he's intelligent, has a good job, he's friendly, he actually seems to like me...but I just don't ... (90 words)

I gave him my cell number but he still hasn't text me in 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy I've been friends with for a couple of years now, and I really like him, and recently I got a cell phone and I gave him my number. But the problem is, he never calls or texts me, and it's been almost two weeks! Why is that?... (50 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30. This is my first serious relationship, but he's had lots of girlfriends before, but he's hardly ever been faithful. At the beginning of our relationship he was still texting ... (183 words)

His mom doesn't want him to leave the house because she doesn't like to be by herself...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This is going to blow your mind.... What should a girl do when she has a boyfriend of many many years that still lives at home. His mom doesn't want to be by herself ever since her husband died 30 years ago and she is inviting a "friend" over that is her sons age (who wants to... (245 words)

I'm gay but I don't think my mum believes me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this girl and she says she likes me i know im a lesbian but she doest know that trouble is i dont really want to be a lesbian because i feel like im the only one round here cus i dont know any and it seems wrong but i guess im guna have to face it i am what i am ... (229 words)

I'm a virgin and have a brown discharge, do you think I'll have to have a smear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - if your a virgin and the doctor wants to do a smear on you for some reason is there a different way they do it so they don't hurt you or break you hymen cuz i didn't think you cud get up there if that was there. Please help i haven't got to have one yet but i'm really scared in ... (111 words)

Can anyone help me with my masturbating problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im just curious here. When u masturbate and then try and put a finger in i can only get it so far then i feel it won't go any further and it hurts, y is this? I've never really done this before but i here of many virgins doing this and it isn't painful but really pleasurable ... (108 words)

I think my husband cheated when he was on a business trip to Thailand six months ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age - I think my husband cheated when he was on a business trip to Thailand six months ago...he lost his sex drive years ago when he came back from thailand he wanted sex all the time which is very unusual but it only lasted for two months and now he has gone off sex again. when i ... (127 words)

I found out my boyfriend is going to a strip club. Does this mean he doesn't find me attractive any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is saying he is going to a strip club but i wasnt meant to know. is this because he doesnt find me attractive or is bored in anyway? ... (30 words)

My boyfriend watches porn when I'm asleep.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend watches porn when i am asleep! i feel like i am not good enough for him or i am not satisfying him. i feel like i cant be as good as porn stars so he will want to finish me!! please help!!... (44 words)

He drinks too much and I hate it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with my boyfriend about 6 months now and i stay at his every weekend. every weekend he drinks too much (like lads do) but he always tends to upset me. i don't think he does it intentionally and he says he loves me but i dont feel like he takes me ... (100 words)

What can I do to improve this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys, my boyfriend and i have been going out a year he works away a lot. recently we decided to go on holiday we argued a lot on holiday as we real we have grown apart a bit and have decided to give it a go still and try harder but i noticed he didnt really care to much ... (153 words)

What is a "dry hump"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - helo, its a silly question, but what is a dry hump?... (11 words)

Does a girl bleed when she masturbates with her finger for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does a girl bleed when she masturbates with her finger for the first time? I am scared to use my finger or anything in there thinking i might bleed.... (29 words)

I turned 15 in March and have a baby girl. I've now found out I'm pregnant AGAIN!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

2 June 2007 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupids. well im chelsea, and i know ya gunna think im a slag whilst reading this but i am just after advice not a lecture. i was 15 in march and my boyfriend is 17 in july we have been together for nearli two years and we have a georgous little baby girl named jessica-... (297 words)

My wife is terrified about giving birth and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my wife are due to have a baby girl. Shes 7 months pregnant and has been ok so far but she's been talking about how painful it will be and how scared she is. She wants a natural birth no needdles to take the pain away or anything. She's going into hospital to have it ... (199 words)

I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?... (36 words)

Would appreciate views on potential parents in law.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Would appreciate views on potential parents in law.. my boyfriend and I are pretty serious (we are now thinking of living together) and I love him very much. However I have very big concerns about his father. His parents had children young and are now divorced (and do not ... (236 words)

He announced (via email!) that he was going travelling round the world for a year with his friends. He is now very distant with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please, Please help! I met somebody about 4 to 5 months ago now. It was a long distance relationship but we have managed to see each other and have kept in touch regularly. We had a very strong connection, to the point where i would say that i have never felt so strongly about ... (199 words)

He moved country and I thought I'd never see him again but I hear he's back in town!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 years ago I fell in love with someone who was 4 years older than me. I never told him. We were good mates. He went to live in another country and I thought I'd never see him again. I was heart broken and only recently I got over him. NOW, he's back over here and my best mate... (90 words)

She is Jewish and wants me to be circumcised but I want to stay in tact!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22-Year-old guy, and I have been living with my Girlfriend who is 21, for about 8 Months. I absolutely love her. We never argue or conflict. We were made for each other. Heres my Problem: She is Jewish. I am not Jewish and Uncircumcised. I want to convert... (527 words)

I understand why a woman could find kissing and petting with another woman stimulating. I wish I could get her to to bring her friends home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age - My girlfriend admitted to me that she had lesbian sex with a friend when she was younger. The country she comes from there is no complex about doing this. To be honest I have been really turned on by it which has surprised me. Part of me wants her to have lesbian affairs and it ... (142 words)

I'm sick of all the lies and broken promises...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey im 18 and i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 8 months now. and things have been good. just I'm sick of all the lies and broken promises.. Like i set boudaries for both of us to follow uno like normal things. and she always promises she wont do what i hate but ... (242 words)

What can I do to make him believe me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago me and my boyfriend were sending flirty texts to each other and I accidentally sent one of the texts to some random person - my boyfriend just had a new number you see and I typed it on wrong. Anyway the person I sent the message to has kept on ringing me and ... (195 words)

I have been married for almost 6 months now, and haven't had sex with my husband yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married for almost 6 months now, and haven't had sex with my husband yet. He has been very tolerant and patient about this subject as he don't want to hurt me. However i can't see him go through all this. i feel like having sex with him, but when the time comes for him to ... (168 words)

I'm a total freak when it comes to boyfriends, I recently hacked into his myspace to see if i was on his top eight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F) - OK this is going to sound really weird but i think I might be crazy...I'm a total freak when it comes to boyfriends, I recently hacked into his myspace to see if i was on his top eight. I get awful jealousy a lot and lie to split people up if they're drifting away from me. I'm ... (81 words)

I keep telling myself that I don't like him but it keeps getting harder... there are two problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is his boy who i think that i may like, but im not too sure. He's sweet and funny and last night we talked on msn for 8 hours! I keep telling myself that i dont like him but its getting harder now. Also there are two problems. One is that i think my friend may like him ... (84 words)

What does it mean to commit yourself to someone in a long-term relationship like a marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - What does it mean to commit yourself to someone in a long-term relationship like a marriage? ... (16 words)

Is it true that if you argue with one person or a family member that you are rebelling against every other member of the family, even those with whom you do not have any major issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it true that if you argue with one person or a family member that you are rebelling against every other member of the family, even those with whom you do not have any major issues? My close knitted family tries to give me that message somehow and keeping quite is the only ... (60 words)

I am marrying a wonderful woman but our backgrounds are so different.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am getting married to a girl who belongs to a small working class family. Whereas i belong to a big extended family of 40-50 people, all of them are business class. We have very different values and mindsets in our family. Especially, people say crap about their own extended ... (233 words)

I still have feelings for my daughter's father.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I still have feelings for my daughter's father. He already has a girlfriend in which he's down graded to. I know he still loves him but at this time, he hates me. He's put us in a situation where I have to work over time, sometime more than over time, to maintain a roof over ... (197 words)

What can I do to win her heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been with my wife 10 years, married for 7. I thought we were happy but she has just told me that she loves me but is not in love with me. she said she has felt like this for a long time but she never gave any hint of it. We had a long and tearful talk over a few days and ... (101 words)

If someone who is rich or better standing in society says something about someone, does it make heavier than what is said by someone who stands at an ordinary level in society?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M) age 36-40 - If someone who is rich or better standing in society says something about someone, does it make heavier than what is said by someone who stands at an ordinary level in society. I mean is there a relation between amount of money you have and the level of truthfulness in what you ... (57 words)

My family believes rigidly that relationships are a burden to them in some way and that they have to satisfy all the expectations of the people they are relating with...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My family believes rigidly that relationships are a burden to them in some way and that they have to satisfy all the expectations of the people they are relating with, if not, they think of themselves to be guilty and feel scared about what other people would think about them. ... (264 words)

I'm afraid his motives are purely sexual and I'm scared that history wil repeat.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I hope someone can give me some words of wisdom as I frankly am lost. I was together with my current ex for two years, things werent working out for the last two months of our relationship as I was snappy and irritable due to my stressful job. Three weeks ago h... (230 words)

How do I stop him from seeing our daughter...until he gets help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just had court this past Wednesday for Child Custody. My daughter's father have been playing games, telling lies and GOD knows what else. The judge ordered I have Physical Legal Custody and we have Joint Legal Custody. He also ordered him every Wednesday from 3pm - 7pm and ... (328 words)

Question about the site--What does the 'red heart' next to your name mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when you look at an answer you've posted on dear cupid and there is a red love heart thing next to your name? Thanks.... (29 words)

Missed a period but we did was dry hump and fingering! Can I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

- Me and my bf have been 'fooling around' and im not sure if i could be pregnant. I'm not on the pill. I missed my period last month, so thats why im thinking i might be pregnant, even though we havent actually had sex. Just dry humped. But ive heard you can get pregnant from ... (136 words)

We broke up and I feel that her overprotective Mother had put a strain on our relationship.How do I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ive just been dumped by my girlfriend who ive been with for about a year. she came over last night and told me that he loves me like im part of her family but doesnt feel as phycally attracted to me as i do to her. im not sure if thats me or anyone as she isnt the most sexual ... (190 words)

I have this fear that if I have sex with him...I won't be good enough! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Everytime we get the opportunity, I am ready to do it, I just get a feeling that makes me change my mind. He and I are both virgins, and obviously we would both be nervous, but I have a huge fear that I wont be any good, ... (103 words)

She's with a guy who cheats on his gf's! Should I still go after her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old single. The girl I liked in Pre-school and drifted apart from is catching my eye, like a lot. She has a boyfriend that everyone knows cheated on his last girlfriend with two other girls. I dont know what to do. Persue her or try for someone else?... (56 words)

He gives me nothing in this relationship..no gifts, no cards, very little affection! Stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Live with a guy together for over 2 years. we have never gone out when he does go to the store walks behind me. no flowers, cards or gifts, yet i give these to him. i pay for alot of his things im lucky if he buys me a pack of smokes a month. lately he has stopped holding me ... (82 words)

We broke up because I felt he was putting me last! But I miss him..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Having a problem moving on... I am a African american women with a master's degree,stable career in education, living on my own, and no children. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up five months ago. Here is his story: He's 36 years old w/no children and has a BFA degree in Graphic ... (206 words)

Why can't my family understand that I want to live my own life. They make me feel selfish..any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved back home and left my life and my new family that I was starting in febuary to help take care of my mom when she started cancer treatment, only it turns out that she didn`t need my help after all which don`t get me wrong it isn`t a bad thing that my mother didn`t get ... (227 words)

My husband's penis is a brown colour - is this normal!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i need help.....i noticed that my husbands penis is a brown color and he is white, my question is is this normal for every guy? or should i really get him checked? thank you for all your help... (40 words)

I cheated so I don't know who the father is! Boyfriend or the other guy!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am pregnant but i cheated on my partner and fell pregnant around the same day i slept with the guy i cheated on him with but he said he never ejectulated inside me, whereas my boyfriend does every time we have sex plus i fell pregnant with him same time last year and we have ... (100 words)

I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

2 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her cleavage. i usually think of ... (132 words)

Should I stay and see if things get better or should I break off with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the third time me and my boyfriend have gone out and all the times before have been great but now it's different. we don't spend that much time alone together and he would rather hang out with other people than me. He asked me out and now I feel as though he is ... (84 words)

I don't know if I should give up my relationship of 2 years to someone I recently met or stick with it and hope to forget about his friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and been in love with him. I thought I would never meet anyone like that again, but about 3 months ago I met one of his friends. At first I didnt think anything of his friend but after talking with him just a few times I ... (190 words)

He found out i kissed someone and has broken my nose beat me up and is currently in prison!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend 2 bits i have never had a relationship before we have been together for a long time and have children. He found out i kissed someone and has broken my nose beat me up and is currently in prison, he tells me he loves me and wants us to be a family again but ... (100 words)

He wants me to take a lie detector test to prove I haven't slept with anyone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

2 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have bin with my partner 4 7 years, we have 3 kids about a year ago he found out I had kissed someone else, I have never done this before and it was only a kiss but he thinks I slept with him, he now wants me 2 take a lie detector test 2 prove i haven't, he has admitted 2 ... (97 words)