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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he want to be with me? Is it just for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I were on a break, well we kind of got back together now but the thing is he doesn't call often, we see each other once a week. when i ask him what's the deal he says: "I want to be with you, if I didn't I wouldn't want to come back together again, but you need ... (259 words)

My ex boyfriend's mother died today.... how do I comfort him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I left a message on here yesterday about my ex boyfriend leaving me a message about his mother dying. Well tonight he has just informed me that she died at dinnertime. What can i do now to comfort him?... (40 words)

Am I a fool for hoping? What is the best way to regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am posting again as I am still not doing so well. Thank you for your patience! The man I was seeing was fed up with the way I treated him and told me that he got out of my 'era'. Then he tells me that he wants to be a friend. Then I shout at him again and he tells m... (346 words)

I feel he's using me, how can I get him out of my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all!!! I'm totally crazy about one guy Ive met sth like 3 months before. although I don't know him very well I think about him almost every day. he lives 250 km away and now even farther since I was obliged to return to my country for a while. every time when we were see... (259 words)

My girlfriend is bi-curious amongst various other sexual interests

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is bi-curious amongst various other sexual interests and as much as I want to support and make her feel comfortable about it, I can't stop myself from feeling helpless and insecure about it. I won't pretend, I am very much a worrier by nature and although eve... (530 words)

He likes me but his ex is one of my mates! I like him too but he's concerned about the ex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, Two days ago this guy i really like told me on msn that he liked me but i didn't get the chance to tell him i liked him back. i didn't tell him because after telling me he liked me he said that nothing could happen because his exgirlfriend is one of my friends. What can ... (90 words)

She lied to me about her abortion, and admitted to sleeping with another guy. But she wants me to marry her next week!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for 2 years and living together with her for 1 year. We were engaged and things were going good for a while. Well she got pregnant about 6 months ago and told me she had a miscarrage. She later tells me she had an abortion. Well about a month ag... (321 words)

I want so much more with him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been placed in a confusing situation. I don't know what to do about it and i really can't talk to anyone. I, a little bit more than like this boy Nate. He has a girlfriend though. Everyone tells me he likes me and i'm kind of starting to realize its true. His girlfriend ... (138 words)

27 and about to get married but I've fallen for a 40 year old woman! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hep, I am 27 years old I am about to get married but six months ago I started a new job, I love my job but have fallen for a 40 year old married woman who has two daughters 20 and 21 years old,she is so caring and looks great for her age, she cares about everyone so much and... (176 words)

She proceeded to climb atop her friend and make out with her intensly, completely ignoring me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i am in a very loving strong relationship with my girlfriend and have been for the last 9 months now. last night, she and i were invited to a friend of hers lake house for a small get together. we all got very drunk, I even threw up a little in the water but i was ... (702 words)

What is he trying to tell me? Is he going to be back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I ended the relationship with a much younger man. It was a long distance relationship and we both travelled to see one another. He told me frequently that he was moving to where i live and seemed sincere. I then sent an sms to say that this move should take place soon and he ... (256 words)

Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian, I'm scared to tell anyone how I feel because am scared how they will react has anyone got advice for me x x x x x... (47 words)

Should I let my daughter get to know this man better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age - My daughter is a very mature 17 year old who has been homeschooled, just finished her first year at college. She is becoming good friends with a 26 year old man at church who is interested in her and would like to date her. They are both devoted christians, he has 2 children ... (118 words)

I feel so insecure, how do I "find myself" again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend finished our relationship on sunday and i am heart broken, i opened up to her so much and let down all my guards. i felt used and hurt because i gave her my all. we argue all the time because she has a short temper and no matter what i do or say i am never right. ... (217 words)

My exboyfriend has been emailing me after a number of years, do you think he's interested again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Can anyone help me this sounds well sad I know but recently I have been in contact with an ex-boyfriend who I have not seen or heard from in years, he has been e-mailing me about once o twice a month, he has now sent me a picture of himself, but still he has not asked me... (122 words)

I'm getting mixed messages, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

- Hey Im 17 and i've just come out of a year long relationship with someone. Back in February i met this really nice guy i met at a party, he was very drunk and spend the whole evening telling me i looked amazingly beautiful. I really liked him, but i was also aware that he wa... (343 words)

He says that he wants to have sex, I said no and now he's being all weird on me. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i got a boyfriend who says he loves me, he told his best m8 he had feelings for me and then we started going out, however before we started going out we were really close m8s i was like his 2nd best m8, i love him n i no he loves me well he says he does, does he mean it? beause ... (231 words)

Had an affair with a woman but had to break it off because she didn't want it. With a baby on the way with another girl, she wants me back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - well i've been maddly head over heels with this girl i went to school with over ten years ago, the problem was that at school she seemed happy with my best mate so i never mentioned how i felt, after school we lost touch but one day she came to work at the same place as me and ... (253 words)

Is my girlfriend pregnant? Her period has changed.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend just had sex last tuesday (june 12)and when we did there were two problems. the condom was too big and it fell off once. even though im sure it didnt touch her in any way, she is worrried that she is pregnant. the next day (june 13) she threw up in the ... (102 words)

Period troubles. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

- Im 14 and when Im on my period i get wind and poo aswell is this normal? because it makes me feel ill or something.... (25 words)

I keep needing to go to the toilet. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

- After ive been to the toilet i feel like i need it again sometimes and i get a little pain but when it comes to going again i cant. its strange it doesnt happen all the time just occasionaly. does anyone know whats wrong?... (44 words)

What can I do to romantically spice up our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I get out of the routine with my 16 year old girlfriend? I want to do something romantic for her?... (22 words)

I have mild Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) and I find it so hard to form relationships with guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently met someone, and we both really like each other. The only problem is, is that I have BDD mildly (Body Dysmorphic Disorder) and I find it so hard to form relationships with guys. I want to actually get somewhere in a relationship, instead of backing out when... (86 words)

My problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid Agony Aunt, I have this huge crush on this really hot guy. The problem is that I'm really fat and not that pretty plus he likes my best mate. We are going to France with our class, the country of live. Should i tell him there and have him laugh in my face or keep my ... (64 words)

My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex. I actually find it very embarrassing as my walls are very thin and my bedroom is right next to the neigbours. I know they can hear her as I can hear very slight movement in their room like someone opening their cupboard etc. I have ... (137 words)

I ust want to post and say Thank You to everyone who has helped make me feel so welcome here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (?) age - This is not a question, this is a big thank you to everyone who has helped make me feel so welcome finding this site has had a huge impact on my life so thank you to one and all of you for your wonderful support YOU HAVE ALL BEEN SO SPECIAL! Thank you from the bottom of my ... (64 words)

My girlfriend is sending emails that sound like she's sleeping with other blokes! She tells me it's nothing to worry about. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been seeing my girlfriend of the same age for about 9 months now. We met each other at our 'home' town but we study at different universities so it is effectively a 'long-distance relationship' most of the time. Over time, the relationship has ... (602 words)

My niece died on sudden death syndrome. How can I be there for my daughter more than I am now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age - hi i have been with my partner 3 years i have a 11 year old son that lives with me my partner has two tenagers that live with her last year my partner lost her neice she was 10 she died of sudden death she went to the same school as my son it is a terrible time at the moment i ... (141 words)

Went on a break with my girlfriend, now there's another girl involved.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - a few of months ago my ex girlfriends mum past away and she told she needs a break from this relationship so i said it was ok but after 2 months i thought we weren't gonna get back together so i got another girlfriend and ive started to love her but my ex girlfriend just told ... (84 words)

Does sperm live when it's thrown out of the window?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gf had sex in the car and I threw the condom out the window and it went into the bush on the side of the road, is there anyway that sperm can survive? or be traced after a freezing night? It's a silly queston and I just wanted to know and confirm that once its out ... (71 words)

I have feelings for my best friend... she's having a rough time with her current boyfriend! What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have too many feeling for my friends wife... And I confessed these to her. She said she has similar feelings but she has to focus on her current relationship. Right now she is trying to work on a divorce, and I feel like a little of it is my fault. The guy did mess up ... (1130 words)

He cried his eyes out and I felt sorry for him. Now I've found out it was all a sham! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - The father of my child cried his eyes out which I felt sorry for him. Come to find out today, all of that was an act to see what he can get out of me. This man is up to something. He's hit rock bottom, going from woman to woman (trying to get over me, needing the feeling of ... (204 words)

Am I stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is, am I stupid, or all these events may be taken to mean that she was interested in more than friendship? While I was traveling with a group of Canadians, because of my work, I met someone I very much liked, who I will call Girl A. She is 27 years old; I'm ... (1608 words)

I'm seeing a 53 year old. How do I tell my Mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im seeing a guy that is 30years more that that he 53yo male im a girl we ad sex for 4 years now he in love with me and he give me anything i want all i have to do is ti ask and ive got it and i love him alotbut the age i dont know how to tell me mom it will be few years before ... (126 words)

She smokes pot. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

- My girlfriend still sometimes smokes pot. Its not THAT big of a deal, but it bothers me a little. I knew she used to do it quite a bit in her past but when we met she told me she hadnt done it in a while and didnt really need to anymore. She didnt lie. she almost never does it. ... (129 words)

Does sperm taste good? Should I give him oral?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend likes me to give him oral sex, and he wants me to swallow. Some of my friends that have done that sais it tastes awfull. In a way i kinda want to know what it tastes like but then again i dont.. i dont know what i should do??... (51 words)

Fell in love with my boss! Am I traumitised?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age - Hi there, is this a post-trauma disease? I have been through a full stress project and inadvertently fell in some kind of love with my boss. Everybody likes him, but I suspect he's just a disgusting married middle-age seducer. To keep up and running, I avoid/ ignor... (147 words)

She wants time out to see who she wants to be with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am madly in love with a girl, she has a boyfriend but doesn't know who she loves more. She took a week away from us both to try and figure out who she wants to be with more. her parents are a little nuts and said a while back that we can no longer be friends anymore when i ... (225 words)

She called me to say she couldn't meet me, she was 50 miles away to be with her dad but I saw her an hour later in town!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

- what do u think is going on? i've been dating my girlfriend a little over 3 1/2 months i planned for today friday 15th June to spend it hanging out together but this morning at 11.40am she text me 2 say she couldn't meet me friday or saturday because she was in blac... (839 words)

Do I divorce my husband and go for my dream man or continue living in this unhappy marriage for the sake of the children and the society I live in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age - I am married for 20 years but was never attracted to my husband as it was an arranged marriage. I continued in this marriage for the sake of the children and the society i live in. Now both the boys are teenagers. There was no intimacy in our marriage all these years and now I ... (106 words)

Why am I never in the mood for sex lately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I used to have sex all the time as well as cuddle but lately I haven't been in the mood for any of it. What could possibly be wrong?... (32 words)

He told me today he can't leave his wife for me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a best friend who declared his undying love for me but he is married to a very dominant lady whilst he is very weak and he had decided a while ago he was leaving through unhappiness but didn't. His wife stopped us seeing each other because she felt we were being too ... (127 words)

My girlfriend got a year long job in he states and now tells me she wants to stay there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, iv been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years. about 6 months ago, she got a year long job in the states, and she wanted so badly to go and i was happy for her to do it. we have been in contact all the while, i trust her completely and have been totally faithful too. the ... (228 words)

Is it wrong for me to feel like the love i had for one person is fading away while the love for another person is increasing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong for me to feel like the love i had for one person is fading away while the love for another person is increasing? Me and baby daddy been having problem every since i had our child which have been seven months. We been arguing none stop. We can't get alone ... (157 words)