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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I find my friends mother really attractive...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello My problem is this: I find my friends mother really attractive, and she is quite a bit older than me, but she has been doing things i really like such as looking at me in strong ways and deep eyes and when we go away on holiday she always wants to be the one to ru... (108 words)

Should I risk it to become more than mates ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm desperately in love with a girl and can't get her out of my mind! We've been great freinds for 3 years and I dont think she knows how much i like her! should i risk it and try and become more then mates? How can I do this?... (49 words)

Does this all sound like hes too good for me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok i told my bf that he wuz too good for me cuz he wud do anything to make me happy he said that if it wud make me happy he wud let me cheat on him and he wud try not to say anything about it, he treats me so much better then i treat him but i don't treat him horrible i just ... (205 words)

Why did he dump me after 4 years the way he did????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want some opinions 'cos its doing my head in... was with a guy, long distance for 4 yrs. well the last time we slept together he bought a 12 pack of condoms when other times he always got the 3 for £2 (vending machine) Anyway we hooked up and as always ecstatic to see each ... (152 words)

Do I stick to my values of not wanting sex till I'm married or just give in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - First of all, I sincerely hope that people take me seriously considering I am only 18. I have been through a lot recently, and I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. The thing is that this is not the first boyfriend that has done that to me. So is this my fault? Is it ... (120 words)

Should I just dump him so he can be with his first love, his mooching best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate my boyfriend's best friend. Every time he comes to town he mooches (READ: lives, drinks and eats on my boyfriend's money). Furthermore, when he's here my boyfriend refuses to answer his phone. Which really upsets me. If the guy is going to stay with my bf for three ... (163 words)

Our 3 year old daughter walked in on us having sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Our 3 year old daughter walked in on us having sex. She didn't know what we were doing but just stood there saying mummy, we realised almost straight away but she did ask her me what we were doing when i took her back to bed and i said nothing for you to worry about. I just ... (76 words)

At only thirty years old, my boyfriend has black gums and yellow teeth.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - At only thirty years old, my boyfriend has black gums and yellow teeth. The one time I (gently) brought it up, he said that he needs thousands of dollars worth of dental work and is putting it off indefinitely. To me, ensuring that your teeth don't rot out is one of the FEW ... (110 words)

I don't know whether to get back together with my ex or not???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont know whether or not i should get back 2gether with my ex. we had awesome moments with each other until another guy came and occupied all of her time 2 where she wouldnt even say hi to me or even smile at me.but since i left her she hasnt called me or even seen ... (90 words)

Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school hockey club. Whenever there's... (201 words)

He restrained me and I felt threatened by it. Am I over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months. The other morning he woke up and asked for a cuddle of which I gladly gave him. He then said it was not the cuddle that he wanted, he wanted a big cuddle. He then held on to my clothes and would not let me leave the room ... (142 words)

I really want to get back with the mum of my child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 21 and split from my partner who's 20 on her terms 6 months ago. we were together for almost two years and have a son together who is now 13 months old. she got pregnant when we together for 3 months and loved each other very much. Of course, things changed when the baby ... (272 words)

why would a 16-year-old boy have over 60+ bottles of slimming pills in his bedroom and in his loft??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mother of two. My sons are 16 and 21. My youngest one (16) is studying at college, my 21 year old one is in university. When I was cleaning out the house the other day, I found 20 bottles of slimming pills in my 16-year-old son's room + another 60 bottles hidden i... (294 words)

Why does my boyfriend never want to have sex with me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

- How can a man have such a low sex drive? All my mates think my boyfriend's mental because he never wants sex with me and all their boyfriends want it all the time! He's always tired or just not in the mood. I know he's not seeing anyone else but it's making me paranoid that ... (62 words)

One minute I think he likes me, the next I think he hates me. What is WITH him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - This boy in my year has always sort of liked me and at the same always been mean to me. Now one minute he says loves me the next he's being mean to me again. He kissed me three times on the cheek, then said it was a joke/dare. what is with him? what should i do about him?... (60 words)

My boyfriend and I haven't had sex for over a year and a half, I love him but can't take all the frustration anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I haven't had sex for over a year and a half, I love him but can't take all the frustration anymore. He won't talk about it and we just end up fighting. Any help or advice?... (39 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm "pure"... How can I tell him I've been raped???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im 14 my boyfriend lives far away so when we meet up we are usually soo happy we get...erm...close He wants me to lose my virginity to him, its not i dont want to but first im no where near ready, second im starting to like this other guy at my school and third, he doesnt... (139 words)

I am soooo unhappy and am not in love with my husband any more. What should I do for the best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, need some sensible advice on a serious matter. I'm 29 years old married with a son, problem is over the last year or so i have found myself not having the loving feeling that i should have for my husband, i feel like i've really drifted apart from him, and what upsets ... (194 words)

I forgot to put the address on the letter.... will they fail me for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i know this isn't really a problem someone would right on here but if someone could give some advice or if they did the same thing as me and tell me what result they got out of it i'd be greatful. Ok i'm 16 and taking my GCSE's this year. Today i have just done my last ... (249 words)

He said he wanted kids by the time he was 30, now that time has come he keeps doing a big "U" turn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi My husband and I have been together for five years and have both said we would like kids. My husband said originally he would like kids by 30 (6 months ago). Since then we have discussed it reguarly and he says yes, then when the day comes for me to come off the pill - h... (123 words)

I don't want him to think "I need him" but I do because of this baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, i wrote to here about 2 months ago when i just found out i was pregnant. (I'm 17 and wasn't sure what to do and the father really wanted the baby) well since then we decided to keep the baby but i am now 4 months and the last few weeks he has been going off with his ... (118 words)

My boyfriend is so passive it makes me mad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is so passive it makes me mad. He lets people step all over him, but then when he's fed up he just gets mad and yells. He doesn't say anything in the mean time. I have told him how I think he should handle certain situations, but he doesn't learn from me. He never ... (303 words)

I have this huge drama going on, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi everyone i have this huge drama going on. i have a best friend who is a guy and me and him are well were really close. he told me he liked my other best friend and that all he could ever think about was her. so i was like ok. then in a couple of days i developed a crus... (290 words)

I only eat 1,000 calories a day and exercise regularly, why am I not losing weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a baby 2 months ago, I only eat 1,000 calories a day, I exercize. I only eat whole grain bread, cereal, and skim milk, and fruit and veggies and white meat or fish that is very low in fat. I don't eat sugars other than natural ones in fruit. I lost 10 pounds, and it came ... (157 words)

I don't know whether to take my ex back again in case I get hurt but I love him more than anything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my ex so much its at times unbearable, he is my soul mate. We have been split up a month, because he told me he wanted to go work away, but then decided he cudnt cos he couldnt live with not seein his daughter (from a previous relationship)and me. He begged for me... (440 words)

We're getting married soon but my boyfriend doesn't want my parents at the wedding, I WANT them there, what do I do???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question pertaining to my boyfriend (BF) and my family. First, my parents are from Thailand, but have lived in the U.S. the majority of their life (I was raised here). My BF (white), is not close to his family(abusive upbringing) and generally doesn't want to socialize ... (320 words)

I really fancy this guy at school but I don't know if he likes me back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, I really fancy this guy that i met at school but i don't know if he likes me back and its really annoying me. Last year he went out with one of my friends for a few months which makes it more difficult if i do end up going out with him. Recently he's started talking ... (126 words)

How do I prove to my boyfriend that I will never cheat on him again? I really don't want to stop trying! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I really need help. I want to prove to my boyfriend that I will never cheat again and that I love him. I've tryed everything and I really, really don't want to stop trying. Please help me. emily-jo xx... (48 words)

He thinks he's not good enough for me because he's disabled! How do I prove to him that's not true??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what do you do when your fiance thinks he is never good enough for you, just because he is disabled? how do i prove to him that i really love him for who he is?... (35 words)

I have horrendously low self esteem, so when my guy doesn't call I think it's because he doesn't care! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy a month ago and, although we can't see each other very often (as he lives too far away) we get on really well and I think I'm falling for him. He's Italian and very passionate so we've already made love and he's expressed his love for me. It doesn't seem too soon ... (194 words)

Everytime we get intimate, she says it feels "weird and not right." I feel as if I'm in limbo - where is this relationship going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, The girl has been married previously in a 5 year relationship that ended 2 years ago. I have been dating her for 5 months now but every time we get intimate it feels "weird and not right" on her end. Which I cannot explain as she cares for me. She is the type that... (199 words)

Found some condoms in his case... !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend travels abroad on business a lot and recently when looking for his washing I found a bundle of condoms in his case. He assures me these were for when we started going out together (two years ago) but I am not sure that I can trust him now. His is 40 and I am 55!! ... (70 words)

I don't believe in God or the bible (at all) and my family disapproves... sometimes I feel like pretending!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello Everyone, My problem is a rather delicate one. I come from a family that is generally very close and we love eachother very much. My problem is that I do not believe in their God(they are Jahovas Witness). In fact I do not believe in any form of religion. I thin... (174 words)

I think my fiance is cheating on me with my brother's girlfriend! Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F) - hi im in love with my fiancee but im pretty sure he is cheatin on me with my brothers girlfriend,everytime he goes to work he leaves at different times and when my brother is here and his girlfriend is at home my fiancee is always late gettin home and blames it on the traffic ... (69 words)

My boyfriend has been refusing sex and getting together with his ex! At times, he flat out ignores me! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

- Ok, a few separate isues going on here, I am an 18-year old girl, in my first proper relationship with a 21-year old guy. We have been together for 9 months now. In hthe beginning, he was so much fun,we would have sex all over the place and have good times together...B... (522 words)

I am so self concious when on top! Am I doing it right? Are there exercises to help me go faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - please help me. i have been with my boyfriend half a year now, he is amazing in bed in everyway. he likes it fast and i dont mind this but i get really paranoid that i cant go fast enough when im on top for him to enjoy it as much as i do. i am a bit self concious of myself as ... (170 words)

Should I tell my wife that I had sex with my sister in law? She wouldn't handle it well! What do I do??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had feelings for my sister in law for five years and last week we had sex. Im very confused. We both agreed that it was a once off and it would never happen again. We are both married and very happy in our relationship but have been flirting continuously. In a moments ... (121 words)

People say I'm too young to be in a long term relationship - now I'm doubting us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm 19 + have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Just recently a few people have been saying that I'm too young to be in such a long term relationship + to be honest, it's making me starting to doubt us a little bit. I love him to pieces but as we live quite a distance... (106 words)

Could I be pregnant or is this all down to stress... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My period is nearly two weeks late. I have a active sex life, but have always used condoms, and have already taken two pregnancy tests (one done by my doctor) and they were both negative. I HAVE been under a lot of stress recently - am taking my A-Levels (final colleg... (192 words)

I found out he cheated...because he gave me an STD!! Can I ever trust him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend nine years. Recently found out he has cheated. Only found out as we ended up with a std due to him playing away. He then went on trying to tell me we must of had it all this time. Got the truth in the end but i don't feel its the whole truth. ... (137 words)

Things with my fiance are going downhill, FAST. The wedding is paid for an guests invited, but should we still go through with it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, here goes. I have been with my gf for the last 6 nearly 7 years and we are due to get married in August. I'm 25 and so is she. I always thought I would be older but that irrelevant. Recently she found pictures of girls I had chatted to on the internet many years ago a... (192 words)

All he does is sit in the garage and look at porn - he even does it when his friends come over! Now our sex life is falling apart. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my bf, of 2.5yrs, is addicted to porn- since the beginnig, every chance he gets he's on the computer- you guessed it- watching porn. it's all the time and he of couse denies it- always with an attitude- which is funny(ha) cuz i like porn and have suggested we watch together!!!! ... (330 words)

I love him, but when things get bad he always runs away! I'd like someone stronger than that...I think. I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year, we moved in together 4 months ago and we have been bickering quite alot. When we are good together we are great. Anyway we had a row and he backed his bags and went to stay with his parents 1 1/2 hours drive away, when ... (237 words)

Was he flirting with me or just being nice since I was the only one not talking to anyone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - was he flirting or just being friendly i'm a rodeo girl, and me and a few of my friends travel together. While we were out of town at an event we ran into some guys we knew... well, my friend knew them =P they were across the street, and on their way to eat, so they didn't t... (292 words)

He said no to having a relationship - I told him I was jealous of the other girl and it pushed him away! But I think he's just scared to open his heart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey everyone... im in a really heartbroken situation. ive been with this guy for the past 7 months. hes a comitment phobe, and ive known from the very start about this. i was warned not to be with him, but the attraction between us led us to a night together, wich turned i... (700 words)

Do people judge you on the type of house and family you have? The guy I'm seeing is tasteful and clean, but my house is ugly and messy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, this is going to sound really superficial and awful of me, but do people judge you on the type of house and family you have? and is it normal to feel scared of being judged on because of this? I'm going out with this guy and i've been to his home which is really nice, ... (275 words)

What does it mean that she gave me her number and asked for mine??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - This probably sounds rediculous, but what exactly does it mean when a girl gives you her phone number and asks for your's ... completely out of the blue? And, if she was perhaps interested in me, will she forget it because I was unable to give her mine? I ran into a... (235 words)

I've had a crush on this guy for FIVE YEARS! How the heck do I get the courage to talk to him and not look like a fool???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - It's been 5 years and i STILL havn't got over him!! I saw this guy when i was 11 and me and my friend all thought he was sooo 'hot'. A basic school girl crush, nothing more. I'm very shy, so i never talked to him, but when he saw me (downtown or at school) he would always ... (529 words)

I care so much for her! How do I ask her to choose either him or I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i would like to explain this from the begining if i may. i was in, and still am in the military. i meet a lady a few years back. we started out just talking to one and other pretty often. and to be honest i have no idea when it went to us being boyfriend and girlfriend. but it ... (531 words)

I cheated and he's not sure he'll ever trust me again! How do I earn his trust back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - Help, Please!! I am trying to gain the trust back in a relationship. I was with a guy for a year. We were engaged and found out we are expecting a baby. But we are not together right now. This is where the problem comes in. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life wit... (168 words)

She doesn't smile or say hi to me anymore because of her new bf? Should I still consider getting her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - i dont know whether or not i should get back 2gether with my ex. we had awesome moments with eachother until another guy came and occupied all of her time 2 where she wouldnt even say hi to me or even smile at me.but since i left her she hasnt called me or even seen ... (79 words)

Had unprotected sex and I'm too young to have a baby! What can I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have had unprotected sex and I'm young, too young to have a baby, its been a few weeks and I feel like I am, I'm worried to death because i cannot tell anyone, the thing is it only lasted a few min, and he didn't "come" at all, but pe, is a problem. My stpmach feels harder, ... (114 words)

Do you think it's libido, his hang-up's, not into me, or medication. Or is he just selfish, self-centered and I am about to make a big mistake by getting married??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend about to be husband has no libido, least this is what he says. If I preform oral sex on him he can get an erection and or a hand-job, and on occassion he can get hard and have intercourse. I am convinced that he is just no that into me. He refuses to preform oral ... (185 words)

I'm afraid if I dont go to the nightclub with him he'll not like me as much. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - this boy who i really like keeps askin me to go to nightclubs with him but the thing is thats really not my scene as im not really into dance music and drinking and im also too young an im afraid i wont get in. but im afraid if i dont go with him he'l think im to hard to get ... (71 words)

I try to make him so happy but one minute we get on so well then other days it feels like he don't want to be in the same room with me. What's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my boyfriend 4 month and it just seems i can't do anything right. I'm 21 been in a 5 yr relationship a while ago and have a 2yr old. My partner is hard work, one minute we get on so well then other days it feels like he don't want to be in the same room. w... (149 words)

What does it mean when a guys says "you're pushing me away?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guys says youre pushing me away? but at the same time tells u he loves u but yet u rarely hear fom him? Its a longdistance realitionship beeen "together" for about 1month now.... (39 words)

It's been 7 days since I have talked, seen him, or any contact. Could he really lead me on this way, and leave me in the dark...and those last two days? (long)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I dated a guy for almost two years. It was perfect! Yes we all have our flaws, but thats why I was attracted to him. From the very get go, he knew how I was. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. You can just tell what kind of mood I am in, by my expression or looks. Bef... (1745 words)

She has a bf and we kissed. The next day she acted like nothing happened! Should I make another move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

7 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Don't know where I stand with her. I've been friends with a colleague of mine for nearly a year and a half. She is living with her parents and her b/f and she has fancied me for a very long time. Her b/f is a bit OCD when it comes to her and they always argue. She has s... (329 words)

I think I am pretty, clever and funny...so why can't I attract bf's like all my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - im a 16 year old girl, and although i've done stuff with guys i've never actually been in a relationship! it hurts because nearly all of my friends now have serious boyfriends. they all say that im pretty, funny and clever... so why can't i attract guys? what's wrong with me?... (52 words)

She asked my bf to walk her home...can I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi..What should I think when a girl asks my boyfriend if he wants to walk her home? This girl is one of our close friends' girlfriend and we spent about 3 nights out with them since march...and while we know the guy very well, we're not so close to the girl. She just moved ba... (253 words)

What can I say to my friend who thinks he's ugly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i have a friend that i've known for over 5 years now he thinks his ugly and asked for my help what should i say to him he has only had two girlfriends and wants to no why can you help ???... (42 words)

He takes his phone everywhere...how do I get access to it to prove he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can anyone help i have been happily married for nine years or so i thought when two weeks ago i dropped my husbands phone and he freeked out so when i thought about his reaction i thought he must be cheating on me oh and boy what a shock i had to discove rhe has been textin ... (245 words)

I went for him, then found out he's been w/ someone else for three years! He still says he loves me, but can't see me b/c of her!! Now I'm VERY confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

7 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I posted a question here a few weeks ago because of an attraction with a much older man - he is 36 and I am 18. I decided to go for it, but found to my horror that he is with another woman who he has been with openly for three years. I asked him about it as honestly as I could ... (137 words)