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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How can I get my wife to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I married my highschool sweetheart after I completed college and we've been together for more than 15 years, and had what I thought was a great relationship. Then suddenly after my wife lost her job as a medical administrator, she told me she wasn't sure she still wanted to be ... (472 words)

He keeps saying things like "When I'm out of debt I'll buy you an engagement ring" and stuff but it's all words, no action! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i love my boyfriend very much but i sometimes worry that he is taking me for granted. he says he lves me very much as well and i have no reason to doubt him. but sometimes i feel he thinks i am there for this convinience. for example i will pick him up from anywhere at any time ... (317 words)

Am I being insecure about the entire situation or do we have a problem? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Latley I've been feeling alot of confusion in my relationship. I don't know if I have real problems or if I'm making them up in my head. My boyfriend sometimes gets upset from stress. It affects his mood tremendously, sometimes he's stand offish, sometimes rude, but mostly I ... (154 words)

My friends tell me we are in a relationship but he does know or admit to it! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How to deal with friends with benefits while they are pursuing a new relationship? We move into apartment (separate rooms) and ever since we have moved in we have been having sex. Now this girl he has been talking to is coming home where does that leave me....in my room with ... (115 words)

I bumped into an ex of mine and now I can't get him off my mind! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I bumped into an ex-boyfriend a couple of days ago and I can't get him out of my head, I just want to see him again. However, I'm in a serious six year relationship with a wonderful and caring person who I do love. I just don't understand why I'm feeling this way and it just ... (100 words)

It takes him ages to ejaculate. Is there something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not sure whether this is a problem but feel that I need some manly advice on it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and when I met him it seemed to take him ages to ejaculate and often he would not do so for sometimes a week or so.. I thought it was just bei... (220 words)

He is the hardest person I've ever tried to love. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A year ago I met this very attractive, unique man, whom I've admired and had a crush on for years. After we started seeing each other I realized I was deeply in love with him but he is not an easy person to love! He's been married twice, and engaged once a few years ago that ... (439 words)

Is it possible to be so much in love yet be too much alike?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I live with the love of my life!However... we are are so much alike in so many ways at times we look at each other and its like staring in a personality mirror. We can both finish each others thoughts... Say things to each other and understand one another while others look on ... (139 words)

I want to stop watching porn! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I want to stop watching porn! How can I do it? Hi there! I have a problem, I don't can tell anyone esle. I don't know, is it normal that female watch prons? I don't do it about once in a month. Free ones from the internet. But I don't actually want to do it. I don't know w... (164 words)

Is the CD she sent me a hint?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I like a Canadian girl who is Jewish, too. I am Mexican. She came to my country once, for work, and we had a very good time together. I think she was flirty to me, to some point, and we have been corresponding ever since she left. This girl had not given me her hom... (187 words)

My girlfriend has been sending dirty texts to my work mate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfiend of 16 years who i have 2 children with, the first 13 years old and 7 years old has been texting dirty texts to one of her ex workmates. she had his number under a friends name on her mobile. he asked her to call him after she was finished work in his first text but ... (104 words)

When he came back from Australia, I founf out he was looking at gay chat room websites!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for nearyy two years we have a good relationship howerver when he was younger he was very badly atacked and humiliated by 10 guys who kidnaped him they striped him beat him and other things. he went of the australia for a ... (208 words)

I'm in love with my friends girlfriend! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm in love with my friends girlfriend. The thing is it has been going on for a while before now. I actually was going to ask her out before but he beat me to it. I talk to this girl all the time and it just feels right when I'm around her. I've been fighting these feelings ... (218 words)

On his webpage, there are loads of women he doesn't even know with very sexual pictures. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and recently he has been spending a lot of time on the internet because he has a lot of spare time on his hands. We both have webpages on popular networking sites but i haven't really gone on mine until yesterday when i discovered ... (197 words)

I like her and just when I was gonna tell her how I felt, I found out she likes someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Just when I was ready to tell her how I feel about her. My friend comes up to me and tells me that she likes another guy in school. Her school since we don't attend the same one. Probably why she is trying to graduate Highschool early. She is one of my closest friends. what do ... (170 words)

Who loses their virginity to two guys?! I'm finding this hard to deal with.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a woman for about 3 months who loves sex, and ours is great. But I just found out that she lost her virginity in a threesome with two guys who she then had multiple threesomes with after that. She was 23 at the time and is just over 30 now, but I am having a ... (259 words)

Does this boy with a girlfriend fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi i really like this boy but he has a gf i am in all his lessons and he always stares at me and smiles and we really get on and i don't wanna hurt my friend is he trying tell me sumthing plz help ... (50 words)

How do I keep our relationship from de-railing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with a gorgeous guy and we've been together about 2 years. We get along really well and love each other, but here's the problem. I am probably the most attractive woman he's ever been with and it's killing his ego. Last night he admited that he can't stand the fact that ... (322 words)

After a week of breaking up, I tried to get him back. He ignored me. Now HE'S textin me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been broken up with my ex of 5 years for over a month now in the beginning of the breakup I tried to get him back about after a week of not talking with him I called and tried to get him back and he said that he had moved on and he never called me ... (166 words)

I want commitment but he doesn't due to his past relationship. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this completely gorgeous guy I know who has a great personality and charm, (lets call him Z) who apparently likes me. He's told our mutual friend that he misses me n that he thinks im gorgeous and so on. I really like him too. There are a few problems though... like the ... (232 words)

After 8 months apart, he called me out of nowhere and now we're meeting up! Anyone have a similar experience? If so, what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can not believe it after 8 months apart and him finishing it with me he calls me up out of the blue, telling me how sorry he is, since then ive had loads of calls of him, im just shocked that he has got in contact after all this time. We are meeting up soon Has anyone had... (69 words)

Should I ask my ex if he wants to give it another go? I don't want to think "what if" for the rest of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I was with a guy last year for 4 months. We actually loved each other or so i thought we did. Then he ended it because he was bored. I was really heartbroken. When he ended it he was really horrible to me and called me a cheap slag and said to me that he had cheated on me (but ... (169 words)

We've gotten too serious! I want to break up but don't know how.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been going out with this boy and we have gotten too serious. I want to break up with him, but I haven't got a reason. What can I do? Please help xxx... (36 words)

I can't afford to give him sweet gifts for no reason like he can! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old and dating an absolutely fantastic guy. He's wonderful, treats me well, everything is great. So obviously that's not a problem. The problem is gifts and things. This guy comes from a pretty wealthy family, he works hard for his money, and he... (223 words)

She says she's not ready for anal, but she did it with her ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf has done anal sex with her ex bf but will not let me. She says she will but is not ready yet ? She clames to love me unconditionaly and has never ever felt about anyone as she feels about me? I really want to do this with her and have tried a few times but always says no ... (68 words)

He said "He had his whole hand up to his wrist in me"! Is this possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi my friend told me about this site and I’m new at this and I have a question and hope you can help me. Two days ago I was in the back seat with my boyfriend kissing and so things got heated. We touched each other and then with his hand he went down on me and played with me ... (206 words)

My bf won't show me his penis after a year's realtionship! Any ideas as to what's wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right..I've bin havin sex with my b/f for a few months now..when he "broke me in" it was really difficult..it took us at least 4-5 attemps..he has done probably everything imaginable to my body but even after a YEAR! he refuses to show me his penis or any of his body..let alone ... (121 words)

He's in a wheel chair with bipolar- he loves me but I don't love him. How can I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a big problem,and if anyone can offer some good advice,I'm open to it. How do you get out of a bad relationship? I can't just walk away cause my guy is handicaped,in a wheelchair,bipolar and I am probably the only in the free world that cares weather he lives or not.I ... (292 words)

Any idea on how to word an email to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'v been on 2 dates with a guy who is 10 yrs older... he is not my type, but i thought it would be fair to give him a chance as he really likes me and has done for a while..... after the second date he became less shy and we were getting on great!! for our 2nd date we went... (170 words)

Any tips to make O extra special for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok here's the deal i'm 23 and i've always done pretty getting ladies. I've had a couple serious relationships and tried but was never too big on pleasuring my girlfriend orally. Now I absolutly love pleasuring my current girlfriend. It turns me on so much to know and see it ... (104 words)

Should I believe in a second reading from a medium?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Who believes in psycics/mediums. The first prediction came true, the 2nd reading said the same as the first. Should I believe in the second reading? ... (25 words)

I don't trust her with our finance issues. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 7 years 2 years ago we got married. After the first two years everything was fine except she lied about finance things. Then I found out she had got a loan that she had fallen behind on and so I helped pay it off. Then year later she tried to... (174 words)

He's joining the army. I cant see a future for me without him.Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

- I need help on how to get thru a painfull time Been with bf a year He has kids aged 14-9 He is in the army and based on the opposite side o the country from where there kids mother lives with them He cant handle that because he only gets one weekend off a month fro... (339 words)

I feel depressed and don't know why

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

- Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He is the most lovely guy in th... (198 words)

When I ejaculate, I feel there's not enough

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Wen i cum, i feel embarrassed because it seems to just dribble out, also it has no volume to it ( it is in short supply.) help!... (27 words)

I love him but he doesn't seem to care either way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have split up with my partner two days ago because of the way he treats me. we don't live together, however, i know his not cheating on me. he dose not come down to see me, instead he tells me to come down to see him all the time. he has said some very hurtful things to me. i ... (277 words)

Her moodiness and controlling is wearing me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend are both 18 and we have been together for nearly 2 years. We have a good sex life, and I am so happy when im with her and enjoy the 'closeness' (if you know what i mean by that? -cuddling n stuff) u can only have with someone your completely comfortabl ... (434 words)

I told him to go; I wasn't serious but he really left!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. we have spent everyday together over that time except a week over xmas.we never argue we are the best of friends and lovers we are so close. i have issues with my weight and i occasionally take it out on him by hitting him coz im angry ... (230 words)

He used to be so controlling, now I think I'm becoming the same way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Boyfriend is going clubbing....i'm stuck at home. I was wondering if someone could give me some advice please. I have been with my bf for about 7 months. He use to be quite controlling and wouldn't let me speak to my mates let alone see them, we are going to counselling to h... (413 words)

I'm drawn to my boyfriend's friend but I don't feel guilty; I don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Am I wrong for not feeling guilty at going to his friends house, finding out he is in love with me but still going home to my partner ? I have seen his friend more often now but dont feel guilty when we sit and speak about what life could be like if we were together. I cant ... (167 words)

We love each other but he's going back to his ex for the sake of his kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

My fiance says he'll dump me anytime he isn't getting his way

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - what does one u do or should do when ur significant other sabotages the relationship to get it their way. i mean, my fiance threatens to break off the relationship when he doesn't get it his way, so i always give in for him. what can i do about this? ive tried communicating ... (62 words)

He keeps cheating on me and I keep taking him back because I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi ppl, im 19 yrs old and i was in a relationship for 3 years,we broke up coz he cheated on me twice..he says he loves me..it seems like im the girl he has a serious relationship with,but flirts around with other girls too..i broke up with him several times bcoz of this rea... (149 words)

I don't like her attitude; should I confront her or let her be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (M) age 30-35 - The girl i have been knowing for some time is trying to pull me in to her boring world of being an ideal child to your parents. She is not able to trust someone who is not like her in their attitude towards their parent and hence finds it hard to make friends / keep friends. ... (108 words)

I keep finding problems with my relationship; I feel like a drama queen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I keep falling into this bad pattern where I significantly endanger my relationship with my boyfriend to the extent that it's almost been over several [between 2 and 4 times, i think 2, within a yr] times. I've never made up drama for the sake of drama, the issues have always ... (223 words)

Could I have erectile dysfunction from sitting on a bike saddle too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 22 and I'm worried that I might have Erectile Dysfunction. Every now and then my penis just wont keep an erection. This really irritates my girlfriend. I have been spinning everyday for about a year and recently read online "A study in 2002 found that ED can also be ... (106 words)

I'm engaged but still thinking about other people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I doomed? I have been engaged for 7 months and am getting ready for my engagement party. I recently been having thoughts of being with other people or what it would be like with other people. I wouldn't cheat on my fiance... but if I'm supposed to be "so in love" is some... (63 words)

My ex has started seeing a new girl but is still calling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi Im Amanda and for about a week i was getting phone calls from my ex boyfriend.We had broken up several times and after about a month apart he'd call and sweet talk until i'd agree to go back out with him.After he'd been calling for a week i found it kinda strange when he ... (228 words)

I get shy when I really like someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so I really like this guy...we made out last week after we went out clubbing, and we haven't mentioned it since...i get really weird when things like this happen because i'm just really shy and am intimidated when i really like someone...basically, tomorrow is the last day ... (90 words)

I say I love him but I actually don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - okay, so here's the skinny. at the begining of my relationship, i said " dont say you love me unless you mean it" and my boyfriend said, "okay". so then he says he loves me after like what? 2 weeks. and i really thought that i felt it too. but now we are 2 months and i dont lov... (154 words)

How should I tell my parents I'm bisexual and have a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How do I tell my parents that I am Bisexual? In the past two years, I have been experiencing feels towards, not only guys, but girls too. Now I may only be 14, but I know my feelings. but I don't know how to tell my mom and dad. they have always said if one of there kids wer... (102 words)

I want to watch my girlfriend have sex with my male friend

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Should I let my best mate sleep with my girlfriend while I watch? Hello everybody, My name is Jonathan. My girlfriend and I have been 8 years together and we're both 28 years old. For the past year or so I've been having this vivid fantasy of watching my girlfriend hav... (271 words)

Are you still a virgin if your hymen is broken without sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - If your hymen is broken some way other than sex, does it mean you're no longer a virgin? Does the term virgin mean only someone who's not had intercourse?... (29 words)

I think I'm losing her to another guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay i have been with this girl for 4 months now and i trust her and love her to no end but every time i cant hang out she goes and hangs out with this other guy. The way our summer schedule has worked out we haven't been able to see each other for a month now and she has hung ... (170 words)

Is it normal to be uncircumcised?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I havent been circumsized. is this normal? I'm 15. kinda makes me think it is the problem why I don't hve confidence to have a gf. Help!... (28 words)

What are the signs he's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how would you know if your boyfreind is fooling around with other woman?... (13 words)

I think my husband wants to cheat on me to make up for experiences he missed out on in prison

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married to my husband for 10 months. We knew each other for 11 yrs before we got married. Things have been great until April. I had to go out of town to train for my job. I came home every weekend and it seems since I came home for good that he would rather me ... (256 words)

My mum says he likes me; I'm starting to like him too but I'm shy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

22 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - well i go to a resturant, but lately my mother had told me that this teenager guy, the same age as me 17, has been staring at me, and getting all happy just to see me; since my mother told me that, I kinda started noticing, but he has never tried to talk to me, or tried to say ... (128 words)

I keep finding faults with my girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

22 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, In a relationship with current gf for 4 months -dont know whether i'm attracted to her or not...she carrys some weight and i'm not comfortable with that as i'm rather thin and keep fit ...it seems i always find fault with the women i go out with and it ultimatel... (144 words)