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My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it.

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Question - (12 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2007)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My new girlfriend was in a long term relationship where she was expected to preform oral sex on her ex but he did little to non back to her. Thus, she has learned to really hate doing it. I love to give and receive. I told her that I didnt want her to do it out of an obligation to. I would rather her not go down there unless she was excited about it. I will wait for her to work thru her problem in her head about this but want to know if there is any way I can help her work thru this problem. Any one experienced anything similar? Please help!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

Hey why don't you just give her oral a couple of time, if you do it right she should want to give it back to you naturally...

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (12 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntAll you can do is wait it out. Giving her time and space to deal with her past is the best thing that you can do.

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A female reader, Aunty Sarah United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2007):

Aunty Sarah agony auntGive Give Give! By doing so she will enjoy oral sex and start (in time) to give back. Don't even ask her to perform any oral sex for you. She will then realise that you are not giving to receive, if she receives then she will give in return. Be patient though, it won't happen over night!

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