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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have lots of wet discharge from my vagina.. ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever so often I have this huge amount of discharge come out of my vagina. It'll soak my panties entirely and sometimes soak through to my pants as well. I don't know why it is doing this. I am not thinking about sex, I am not turned on. I'll be doing something normal like doing ... (115 words)

Does he really like me or not? Any views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so..i cant figure out if this guy really likes me or not..he is 2 years older than me and he is a marine..he told me he likes me..and he is always hugging me and telling me how cute i am..and just kidding around with me..but how do i know hes not just trying to get some...we ... (95 words)

Found out he's been having naughty DVDs made and is on adultfriendfinder.com!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i’m not sure what to about this situation anymore. it’s been a year since I found out about my partner of 5 yrs having fetish DVDs made for him. it all started with me finding him looking at porn 3yrs ago then 4mths later I found that he had been emailing adult stars to make ... (353 words)

Am I stuck in that cycle of only 'wanting females that I can't have'...help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a little complicated so I'll give a bit of background information before I get into the problem. Since the time when I was 18 I've had about about 4 relationships lasting anywhere from 1 month to 1 year. Three out of those 4 ended after I started to get bored. (for lack ... (328 words)

Does the truth come out when you're drunk?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - does the truth come out when ur drunk? I always feel like when i have had a few drinks i always say exactly how i feel, its like u have the confidence to say it. A guy that i know well always tells me her really likes me when he is deunk. he always seems to ring me after a ... (151 words)

Once bitten, twice shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - if u had a one night stand with someone that wasnt very good in bed, would u give them another chance?... (21 words)

I can't figure out if he likes me as just a friend or he wants more! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i really like this guy but i can't work out if he likes me back!! I've known him for 5 years but i never really talked to him, i first really noticed i liked him last october when he started going out with one of my mates, which meant he started hanging around with us more ... (249 words)

She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grateful for any replies, Cheers... (72 words)

In love with my son's head of year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am deeply in love with my sons head of year. about a year ago my son started secondary school and got a new head of yr i fell for him straight away i have been unhappy in my 16 yr realationship for about 2 years he is lazy and often quite nasty but i have 2 children with him... (166 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant but the little slip of paper I found makes me worry she's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have recently found out that we are expecting a baby. She is excited as well am I. While she was at her parents house, which is 45 mins away from where we live, I was going to read her baby books to learn some things. While pulling out the books her daily ... (262 words)

Pregnant and with a guy who wants me one minute and not the next! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of two years has been treating me like crap and telling me he doesnt want to be with me anymore...then when i am packing and just about ready to leave he cries to me and tells me that he was just mad and that he is really sorry! i am pregnant with our 2nd child and ... (93 words)

I'm engaged but a relationship with my step brother, trouble mes..any views?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - OK this is what happened to me. When I was 15 years old, my first time was with my brother from my dad's side (my parents never got married and we are from different moms). He took my virginity by playing a game with me ( he didnt take advantage from me. I think we were kinda ... (308 words)

Girlfriend told me a secret which I didn't keep "secret"... will I ever regain her trust and how!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I've done something I really regret and I don't know how to make it right. My girlfriend told me a secret that she never wanted repeating about her and her future housemate (a close friend of mine), but I managed to put my foot in it by mentioning it to her future housemate's ... (113 words)

He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and was just looking at other... (87 words)

Not sure how to approach this girl at Uni who I used to be close of, to tell her how I feel before summer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm a final year university student and have been very close friends with a girl on my course since my first year. when we first met we hit it off immeadiatly and had sex several times. at the time though neither of us wanted a relationship at the beggining of university as we ... (456 words)

Have a bf but I'm missing the guy from work--I cheated with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 20 and i cheated on my long term bf with a guy frm work this went on for about 2 months i told my bf and hes still with me and then i told the lad frm work ide told my bf and well now for past month and half he hasnt spoke to me hes afraid his gf ull find out. n e ways im ... (107 words)

13 and feeling broody... how can I get over these feelings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 13 years old and i know it sound stupid but im really broody. i really want a baby and its getting me down. im not going to have one till im older though, because thats the right thing to do. please help me?? is there anything i can do to make me feel better?... (55 words)

I have huge trust issues with my bf! All because of a flirty email from Hawaii..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years now, we've always been a little shaky because I have serious trust issues, possibly from what has happened to me in the past. I don't trust any men whatsoever. This morning I logged onto his AIM and found he had an email, It ... (178 words)

I was wondering does sex hurt the first time and if so, how can the pain be stopped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering does it hurt the first time a girl has sex and if so how can the pain be stoped?can someone please tell me: does it hurt a lot do you bleed does it only hurt the first time is there anthing that can prepare me the first time ?... (57 words)

Have I missed my chance with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A new man came to work in our area and we got on really well. We got talking one day and asked me to go to the gym and mentioned it again another day. He also followed me and looked me directly in my eyes. He then asked me what time I was finishing work. I really like this guy ... (122 words)

Should i keep trying for him? Or should i just move on to another boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and this one guy went out for a few months, but broke up because i was an emotional wreck at the time and because of this and what other people were saying to him, we split. after i came back after 6 weeks of therepy stuff he started to like me again, but he ha... (181 words)

Is he acting like a man who really wants out of this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Me again... Tortured, and very confused... Thanks for reading once more... I am trying to figure out a typical MAN behaviour when he wants OUT and has dumped the woman. He told me : 1) I had screwed him up big time 2) It took him a lot of effort but he is 'out' and 'ne... (333 words)

Why doesn't he want me to tell anyone about our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i am mixed race and have been seeing a pakistani guy for about a month. i see him quite regularly and he is very kind but the only problem i have is that he tells me not to mention it to anyone as he knows that i know alot of the asian community in the area he lives in. i have ... (168 words)

32 and don't feel like making love to my hubby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my husband for 14 years and we have 3 children. We are quite well of and want for nothing material.The problem lies with my lack of sex drive. When my husband turns me on then yes i'm up for it and enjoy it but it's not one of my priorities. He thinks i don't ... (263 words)

Could I be pregnant??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back xx... (63 words)

My friend told me her dad beats her... I tried telling her to tell someone but she doesn't want me to get involved...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ave got a female friend she is 16 and clamed to me that her dad has beating her up twice she doesnt want me to get involved i wnat her to tell some one but i dont no how to convince her... (42 words)

Shouldn't I count to??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This is likely an age old question but i need to ask it. How much time should your man spend with his friends? Please dont anyone tell me as much as he wants cuz thats the whole problem here, hes spending tooo much time with them i only see him maybe 2xs a month n in between we ... (113 words)

What kind of kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What kind of kiss would one prefer, I know it goes on personal preferences, but what is better, some people say that tongue is not good, and they prefer just the notion of the lips agains each other, what happens then? Thanks.... (43 words)

Is he bored of me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Is he getting bored of me and is just staying with me for the sake of it? I'm 16 years old and have been with by boyfriend nearly 8 months now, although he is a year younger. When we first got together everything seemed absolutely perfect and amazing, we looked forward t... (459 words)

Ever since she got her new bf my mum seems to hate me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. My mother seems to hate me, she spends no time with me anymore, doesnt speak to me unless its about anything practical (I.e looking after my younger sister or the washing), regulary has periods of not speaking to me at all. It all started when she met her new boyf... (181 words)

Does anal sex hurt?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex does it hurt?... (12 words)

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now but feel I don't love her anymore.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and we where very much in love. However over the last week i have had feelings that i no longer love her, this hurts and i really want to love her, i can only describe what i am feeling as i feel distant from her. Cur... (185 words)

Is this RAPE???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out of me. I was so scared, ... (118 words)

Ive started to get really strong feelings for a really close work colleague.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive started to get really strong feelings for a really close work colleague. We laugh and flirt with each other all the time, but I think the feelings are all one sided. He says he cares about me very much, and that he wouldnt want to hurt me, but Im hurting the most because I ... (91 words)

Why is it that after a breakup the person who intiates the breakup always wants friendship and then when you offer it to them they do not want it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

- I am a little confused right now and thank in advance anyone who takes the time out to answer my question. Why is it that after a breakup the person who intiates the breakup always wants friendship and then when you offer it to them they do not want it....at least in my case. I ... (156 words)

Should I walk up to him, kiss him, then walk away. I am crazy on him!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so crazy about this boy and i have been getting so stressed out about it, i am thinking about just walking straight up to him, kiss him,and walking away. Is this a good idea. ... (38 words)

I feel bad for cheating on my boyfriend yet I want this other lad..but is it worth finishing my boyfriend for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months at the end of the month and I honestly love him as hes the nicest lad ive ever met..but theres somebody else. Hes a work mate, but we dont work together very often but i see him occasionally at parties and get togethers. ... (154 words)

My husband is unsure that he is in love with me! What do I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is unsure that he is in love with me we have been married for 6 years and we are in the military so he is gone a lot. he went away for school for a few weeks and came back saying he does not know if he loves me anymore. just before he left he was talking about wa... (372 words)

How can I move on after my boyfriend dumped me to be with his baby moma?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - The man who decided to dump me for his baby momma has moved on and is living a happy life with lady as though i never existed. How come i am failing to move on and think of him and cry over him constantly? What is wrong with me? will i be able to accept this and look forward ... (65 words)

Hi is so consumed by his problems, I worry that I will become so unhappy and he wouldn't be able to make an effort to save our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

- I have a boyfriend going through a hard time in his professional life - has been for the last two years - it is affecting our relationship too much - he takes his disappointment anger etc out on me - to the point where I feel he is not realising how much he is treating... (332 words)

How can I moan more when having sex with my husband without getting all embarrassed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a question? i am very shy to moan during sex with my husband, i wanted to get some advice to help me open up to moaning for him. i love to have sex a lot just shy to moan. please help me? Tabitha... (50 words)

My girlfriend dumped me for my best friend about 3 weeks ago and I cannot get over her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend dumped me for my best friend about 3 weeks ago and I cannot get over her........i still feel jealous, and kinda mad toward my friend....and I do not know how to get over her....I still love her and this hurts....her going out with my best friend...........and i ... (86 words)

I am so frustrated with my love life and this man I am seeing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi again. I got some good advice last time and now I need more. I am so frustrated with my love life and this man I am seeing. Once in a while when we have sex he will go soft and stop doing it. He gets upset and says sorry and its not me and blames it on what ever seems ... (280 words)

I am to be married in 3 months and he has not told his family or bought a ring.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am to be married in 3 months and he has not told his family or bought a ring he has made excuse after excuse, no input in the wedding plans or nothing should I walk off Help please... (42 words)

I think my boyfriend only wants me for the sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend only wants me for the sex..after an argument i asked him would he be mad if i went with him for the sex and he said no and he wouldn't have problem, i asked him was that the only reason he went out with me, he said no, but sometimes yes cuz if we break up ... (93 words)

I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

10 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small things, but when we do we manage ... (229 words)

Torn between 2 lovers...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - cupid , i have a problem a couple of months back on holiday i met this guy called josh and we just clicked it was the best but after a week we had to say goodbye, now i have a boyfriend who i care for a lot but recently the guy Josh got in touch and said he couldnt get me o... (107 words)

He is my best friend as well as my boyfriend but I still feel he flirts too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

10 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and i love him so much. recently i found out that he went thru a phase where he thought he didnt want to be together and was flirting with other girls and actually kissed one. then he lied about it. i confronted him and he says he ... (99 words)