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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mate caught me kissing her boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my mate is going out with the boy i have totally loved since primary n i know he likes me. his mum n my mum r like best mates so i was round his today, sittin on his bed talkin n we both got really carried away n we ended up full on kissin. whilst that was all happenin my mate ... (95 words)

I'm so embarassed by what he might have seen in my drawer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend came to my house the other day. we were sat at the computer and there is a stack of drawers next to it. my boyfriend opened a drawer and i was fine with him doing that as it just had my make-up in. he was staring into the drawer for ages. about an hour ago i looked ... (127 words)

We have a connection but he also has other women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age - I was divorced 10 years ago, and have not had a relationship since then. I am not desparate, and am quite happy and content. But I have now met a lovely man who seems crazy about me. The feeling is mutual. The problem seems to be that he has several 'lady friends' and has... (159 words)

I don't know what it is he's describing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

- hiya this might seem a bit niave but i was talking to a male mate of mine one night on msn and he asked me if i had ever given anyone a tit wank. can some please explain to em wat this is and how you do it thanks xx... (53 words)

Does ejaculating damage my body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - dear guys, i'm 13 ad i am just beginning to masterbate, i have ejaculted once and i dont want to do it again because i don't want to damage mt body, but i crave it so much, i am not a sicko, i just want advice. please help thanks ... (54 words)

How do I give him oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all can anyone help me on how to give a blow job to my boyfriend ?... (18 words)

How do I move on when I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure what to say...well here it is. My long term, long distance b/f and I realised that it wasn't going to work out. There is just too much distance, money and difference in culture involved. But there is also a lot of love and there was over a year of dreaming ... (259 words)

I sent her flowers, what is the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have sent flowers etc to a lady in the same company as I. We do not work together. She was thrilled to get the flowers etc but she does not know who sent them. All her colleagues were looking at the flowers etc She was very excited all day and was asking guys did they se... (92 words)

Am I average height?

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and a half years old, and 5 foot 9.74 inches. i feel that all of the boys that i know are taller than me. i know that i am not VERY small, but i can't help but feel that i am below 90% of the boys that i know. Am i of average height?, and when am i likely to stop gro... (79 words)

The far distance between us is so hard to bear

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a month, and I really love him. However, he lives in Kent, and I live in Portsmouth. He's got agoraphobia, so it would be really hard for him to come down here. It's a three-hour journey there, and the same amount of time back, ... (142 words)

I can't decide if I should go back to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!! I've just kissed -and done a bit more with- my ex-boyfriend. We broke up because the long distance thing wasn't working, but now we are both back home for the summer. It felt really right at the time when we were kissing, but I told myself before that I wasn't going t... (253 words)

I'm in love with my closest male friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my closest male friend. For about 4 years now i've felt realy realy close to him and for the past year i've been wanting more that his friendship. he knows i like him because one night i got drunk and told him. he told me that he didnt want to risk our ... (143 words)

Me and my bf want to have sex but we have nowhere to do it! Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have been talking about taking our relationship to the next level, we don't want sex we want to make love but there is no where for us to do it. I refuse to do this special first for us both outside. And it is hard to tell when either of us w... (86 words)

Blow jobs concerns. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf wants me to give him a blow job, and I'm quite happy to, to say the truth I'm quite excited for the occasion. Just a quick question however, I've promised him that I will not spit and I intend to keep that promise, it is safe to swallow isn't it? Is there an... (79 words)

I want him back and I miss him. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up a little bit ago because he got told some stuff that wasnt true and i asked him out again but he said he didnt want 2 hurt me again. I stil love him but dont have the guts to say anything. He has recently stopped going to my school but still stays in ... (132 words)

What does a orgasm feel like?

This question has 183 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is a question for girls only cuz i don't think guys can answer this question. Anyways i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend who's 15. And yesterday he was finger banging me but it wasn't the first time. But yesterday was different he got me extremely horny and it was really ... (111 words)

I keep thinking about my boyfriend's mate! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh goodness I'm so confused! I don't know what to do. Seriously. This is probably going to long. I'll try and shorten it. OK, the thing is this: I've been with my fiance for almost two years, and engaged for one year. I love him, of course I do. After about two months of ... (338 words)

I'm nervous about how to pleasure him. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a question for guys and maybe some girls can give me answers as well. Well i have a boyfriend and i'm in love with him and so is he. I'm 13 and he's 15 and we been together for 7 months. Well to give me pleasure he fingers me and licks me u know where. And sometimes ... (171 words)

I am in love and am obsessed with my teacher! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my teacher he is 26 years old and has a girlfriend but no kids i am 13 so he is only twice my age i have never felt this way about anybody before, i know what car he drives and even his regestration plate lol and im not obsessed just really in love all my ... (104 words)

I want a threesome but don't want to cheat on my girlfriend. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in my late 20's with a girlfriend in her late 20's too. We have an OK relationship, though I do feel she takes me a little for granted sometimes. My advice concerns my sexual fantasies. I have this recurrent sexual fantasy to have a threesome with a couple, in the s... (246 words)

I'm afraid that because I'm so shy during sex that it'll come between us. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really shy when it comes to sex. I like being the submissive one. I don't like be dominant. This was fine, until recently. I am dating this great guy and he wants me to open up and stop being shy during sex. I can understand that he wants me to enjoy it as much as he does. ... (123 words)

We split up a year ago and now he lives a long distance away. I miss him. Should I write to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i split with my ex boyfriend nearly a year ago and we live far apart from eachother and we aint spoke since,i still miss him and i am sill in love with him and i am dying to get in touch with him just to see how he is. do you think i should write to him and ask how he is or ... (95 words)

I'm in a secret relationship with an older man--should I be afraid of the law?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me--I am in a 1 year 7 month secret relationship with a 31 year old man. We love each other to bits. Can he get in trouble with the police if my parents go to the police? And we both want to try for a baby--can he get in trouble for that too? Please help!... (60 words)

My wife walks around naked and my sister-in-law says nothing...is this a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

23 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My newly wedded wife walks around the house buck naked, and her sister, my sister in law, never says to her 'don't walk naked around the house when your husband is around.' What should I be aware of from the SIL?... (44 words)

I have a special internet friend, but now my boyfriend wants to keep us apart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

- Hi! I'm in a relationship going on almost 3 years now, and up until now I've been home because of my disability, I can't drive and I don't go out unless it is with my BF. I met this man on the internet a few months ago, and we really hit it off..we talk about anything and eve... (397 words)

I have fallen in love with my brother--help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell for my brother. My brother and I have been close since I was born. When I was 6, I was taken away from my mom and brothers, through a custody trial. Last summer I was able to reconnect with my brother, Tim. We now live together. We were ok the first month toge... (142 words)

I'm losing weight while eating a ton of food--what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've lost 2 stone in 3 weeks and I've been eating loads-- what else can I do to stop me from losing weight rapidly?... (24 words)

Worried about when my period will start--I'm already 14!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and I have not started my period yet. I have had discharge for two years and I am wondering when will I get my period since everyone i know has. I have been told I am lucky that I haven't. Can anyone tell me when I will start?... (54 words)

Secrets damage the relationship and are not about space....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 5 yrs has been wonderful,he's a great dad and even a great partner,however just bout a week ago, he decided to "claim his own space"with a account with a website...not porn. I tried to make him realize we shouldnt have secrets(he doesnt want me messing ... (128 words)

I've been sleeping with an older man during a rough patch with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need some advice! i'm totally head over heels in love with my boyfriend but we'r goin through a bit of a rough patch at the min...although i dont think he realises this!! he takes drugs when he's out with certain friends of his and he lies to me about it. he goes out ... (190 words)

My best friend's girlfriend hates me and he's been acting oddly with me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My best friend has a girlfriend. She hates me because she's jealous when me and him hang out together. It's not like we hang out alone together without her knowing - we ask her to come out but she always says no. Last night I was on MSN to him and he said "I cant hang out... (255 words)

I'm overweight and have no confidence left

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - well im really big for my age im 15 im a size 18 and thats gettin too small for me and i dont have a clue bout how to lose weight.i used to be really vain when i was size 12/14 i had loads of confidence and a bf and everything but as ive got bigger ive lost every1, my best mate ... (83 words)

We love each other but still aren't together; I'm confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6165 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I loved one boy and he said me that he doesn’t love me. Now after 9 months we are best friends. I find out that I still love him. I didn’t tell him. But 1 week ago he told me that he loves me on a very romantic place and in a very romantic way. We were holding each others hands ... (271 words)

I love her as more than a friend; how do I advance things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - over the last year i have become increasingly close to a female friend of mine. we spend a lot of time together and have a very open and honest relationship with each other. we both love each other as friends but i want more. i cant stop thinking about her, she is so perfect. ... (85 words)

He's having phone sex with other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years and i have just found out my boyfriend is having phone sex with other women. I have tried talking to him but alls he will say is it doesn't mean anything and its me he wonts to be with. I don't know what to do and its making me il... (62 words)

I want him back again but I'm not sure if he feels the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey hey everybody!!! the thing that i would like to know is if you like a guy alot should you tell him? my story is that theres this guy that i really really like alot, about 3 years ago(this is the third year) we went out but then broke up, last year he still liked me a... (273 words)

He doesn't support me enough when it counts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am at my wits end with my husband who seems incapabable of standing up for me when it really counts. Only today we were taking our dog for a walk and it was set on by a pack of dogs including two Rottweilers who were off their leads and the owners were not at all in control. ... (174 words)

She spends more time at her mum's than with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - In the past 3 or 4 months my girlfriend seems to be spending more and more time at her mum's house rather than spending her time with me. I'm almost 26 she's 25 and we have being living together since November last year. We live very close to her parents house (5 min wal... (223 words)

He wants to be 'friends with benefits' but I want more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know when it all went wrong. I started seeing this guy february 2006 and we had been seeing each other for 2 months and he said that it wasnt serious and that we werent going out and didnt see me regularly, so i started seeing another guy in May 2006 for a month. and ... (264 words)

I can't decide which guy to go for

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never been in a relationship, yet I like this guy, but I don't think he would ever date me. Then this other guys says he likes me, I kinda like him. Should I wait for the first guy or go for the second? I really don't know.... (49 words)

I have a mole. Could it be cancer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a tiny mole on my leg and it has a tiny white dot in the middle of it. It is not rough, hasnt been bleeding, it is a perfect circle but with a white dot in the middle. Is it cancerius? please help me!... (50 words)

We want to share a bed, but just to hug, not to have sex and her Mom wont let us

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become friends with a girl. And I mean like best friends. There's no like feelings for each other in that way, we just generally love each other as best friends. I'm going to stay with her in a few days and we have been talking about like hugging and stuff all night in ... (146 words)

He is always looking at me and smiling. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at my college and I have been told that he likes me, he keeps looking at me and trying to catch my eye and when he is talking to me and my friends he focuses on me, he also smiles constantly when looking and talking to me. Do you think there right ab... (78 words)

I hate porn and no guy I am with is going to look at it!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Are there an men who would be satisfied with one female sexualy? Is this too much to ask? I mean not be interested in porn etc...I ask this because I am considering whether to start dating again..Frankly Im very against porn for political and ethical reasons and am not really ... (165 words)

He broke up with me out of the blue and he's already dating other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a long distance relationship for 6 months. I thought we loved each other very much.he had never been in a committed relationship before. we were getting so close to moving in together. we even started planning for a baby, looked at rings, etc... couldn't stay away from ... (323 words)

We broke up and he's taunting me but I'm still not over him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a three year relationship and I'm having a really hard time getting over him. I honestly think about him everyday and I can't help but feel lonely without him. I go out with friends but all I can think about is him. He left me for another girl and less than a week ... (141 words)

The sex with him is awful; should I leave him, or cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my kids father and i just recently reconnected and before the sex was amazing and now its terrible, i just made him stop and get off me i am not satified with the way he handles me. i try to spice it up but hes not intrested. its like were 2 dead people lying there and then you ... (91 words)

He's married but seems to quite like me; could this go anywhere?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age - Recently a married co-worker started e-mailing me at home. The emails are not sexual in any way--the most he has ever said is that he thinks I'm cute and that he likes my company and enjoys talking to me. He came to visit me twice at home, yet both times we just talked. Once, ... (99 words)

I don't bear pressure well and he thinks I'm weak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted to know if you could possibly help me I am despreate. I can not control my emotions. When my boyfriend and I get into an arguement and I feel I am being pressured I start to cry. He doesnt like that he thinks that is weak. He does not like any signs of weakness. I ... (83 words)

He's spending more time with his brother than with me and our baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend keeps choosing to hang out with his brother,and leaving me and our 4 month old son at my mothers.What can I do to stop this?He is with his brother more than he is with us..Is it me or is he afraid of bonding with our son?He never helps out with the baby.He doesnt ... (114 words)

I found porn on his computer and I feel betrayed, like he's cheated on me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I was on my boyfriend's computer, and clicked on the html drag history box to find the google link, and I saw all these porn links. I do not in any way tolerate porn. I understand that to guys, it's socially acceptable, but I'm not okay with it. I've been very clear ... (290 words)

I don't want just a sex buddy any more, I want love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I never had a true relationship. How do I put myself out there? I decided to leave my 'friend with benefits' and seek someone who will care about me. I am overweight and lack the confidence to ask guys out. I have always spent my Fri/Sat nights waiting for the 'friend with ... (84 words)

I hear rumours about him which he denies but he's really flirtatious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this new boyfriend and hes the ex of one of my good friends and i keep hearing bad things about him and he denys all of it. he seems relly sweet and i think we could of been fine if all my friends and his friends didnt get involved. I really dont want to dump him but ... (125 words)

I feel ugly and unsupported

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am very young and i already loathe my body. i am not only pressured by all the skinny people in the media, but by how all the people in my family are thin and gorgous. i think i have a pretty face but fat thighs and stomich, flat chested and i just think my body is just plain ... (181 words)

She's with an abusive man for financial reasons; do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is, would a girl that is in a abusive relationship leave if the right man came along? I've been seeing a girl in a long term abusive relationship for a few months now and she has started telling me that she loves me and that she would chose me over him anyday o... (92 words)

How do I get over my first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi how do i get over my first love even though it was unreturned in the first place because i feel like a shell of a person with no soul, please tell me how to stop this felling please, i cant take it any more i feel as if i'm dyeing a slow painfull death please help ! ... (62 words)

I feel like he's cheating with these other girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were coming up on our 2nd year anniversary but lately things have been shaky. Then when I thought we got over all of our arguements, everything seemed fine, I went on his comp and found that he was talking to a girl he had once wanted to date. Earilier I ... (243 words)

I ended my long distance relationship for a new one but I miss my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i was with my ex boyfriend for about 4 years. We were high school sweethearts. I mean i gave my all to this guy! I was young and yes i'm a flirt but i never cheated on him. During our second year i moved to a different state and i asked him if he would want to ... (409 words)

I think I'm too thin, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello every1. im a 16yr old girl and i think i am way too thin. (im under 6 1/2 stone eventhough i eat a balanced diet and do ballet) should i go to the doctors and what methods could i try to stop looking skeleton like?... (46 words)

We're both unsure how to act with each other; we're behaving like silly schoolkids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - After being single for many years, and close to giving up on relationships for good, I finally came across the perfect guy. The problem is that neither of us seem to know what to do next; we have both had bad relationships in the past. Whenever we talk on the phone, I get ... (136 words)

I need to lose weight fast!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How could i lose 10-15 pounds in seven days? I want to look good during a family reunion thats coming up soon. please help!... (24 words)

I have a boyfriend who adores me but I can't forget about my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't get over my x boyfriend! I am don't understand my own feelings! This is a very very long story but ill try and shortern it. Ill start at thr beginning. I met my x boyfriend when i was 15 we where togther in total just under 7 years so a long time. He is about 3 ye... (1219 words)

How can I be a proper ladies' man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

23 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Gud day readers! Im 23 but I had only experienced having a girlfriend twice in the past and it started when i was 20. I won the hearts of both of these women way too easily. I never worked hard to win them nor did anything to impress them. I'm not good looking nor rich... (126 words)

He's been with someone else the whole 5 years I've been with him. Should I stay with someone who has lied to me all this time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well im a 26 year old who was with someone who is 39 and we've known each other for about 5 years. we have been together 3 years and i recently got a phone call from a woman who told me they have been together for 9 years. He admitted they were together but he wasnt happy. ... (121 words)

He lied to me about his age, now I can't trust him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

23 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, This is my first question. Around 9 months ago i met a guy, and since then we've been getting on soo well and i seriously think i could love him. The only problem is, im only 16 and he was what i thought to be 20. I only found out this evening that he's actually 29. I ... (126 words)