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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there..he went out with a girl. used her to get to someone else.. mind u the girl he went out with while we were goin out b 4 they kissed.. now he claims thats his sister..and that there close. i dont know why the ... (101 words)

I thought maybe he called someone after dropping me home and spent a couple of hours with her, am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) - I saw my boyfriend on sunday---he slept till 12 noon. We went to his mom's house(he has his own place but sometimes stays there)..he drove me around 7. I call him at 11:15--no answer, i call again at 12--no answer..i text message him and then about 15 minutes later he calls me ... (126 words)

I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, I began to like him a couple of months ago. Its taken him quite a while to say how he feels about me however, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away. I dont know whats up with me or why Im ... (70 words)

Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?... (16 words)

I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually, he says it is our age gap, we love each other so what should we do?... (34 words)

My mum had a smear test today and she said the pain was unbearable. Now I'm terrified to ever have one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, this is for the girls to answer only! My mother has had her smear today - before today she had always said how 'unpainful' it was, there was just a little bit of discomfort and that is all. However, she came back from doctors today and said they've changed the equipmen... (134 words)

I am having real problems keeping weight off of my thighs, and recently ive put on a lot to them. How do I get the weight off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey all. I have a question for the girls.. I am having real problems keeping weight off of my thighs, and recently ive put on a lot to them! So much so, infact, that I now have burt vessels in them. How do i get the weight off!!!? ... (62 words)

The problem, I am jealous of his ex because of this child. I envy her that she has a child by this man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have a perfect relationship.. well almost. I love him so much. He has a 4 year old from a previous relationship that I also adore and love as if he were my own. The problem, I am jealous of his ex because of this child. I envy her that she has a child by this ... (171 words)

I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along. He often tells me about how he's going to marry me, and he's always the one that brings it up.. then every so often he'll backtrack and say that of course he's not going to ask just yet. We've been going ou... (113 words)

Do you think she is interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I keep asking this girl i like out, she never says no but instead is always busy or something. We text each other almost daily and often. Do you think she is interested in me?... (36 words)

Would it be wise to get a pregnancy test as I was told that the morning after pill is only 86% effective!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i guess this is a question for the ladies really although any advice would be good. two weeks ago i had unprotected sex, and 2 weeks before that, im not on the pill or any form of contraception so after the last time i went to the doctors and got the morning after pill. my p... (141 words)

Could taking the morning after pill have made my period late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Right i am really worried i might be pregnant!! I lost my virginity 2 weeks before i was due for my period.I took the morning after pill But after having sex i bled for a week. Does this mean i come on my period? I never come on when i was due and the last time i come on was 2 ... (138 words)

A girl text my boyfriend the other night, no big deal... it was what he said back to her that's bugging me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - A girl my boyfriend used to fool around with text him the other night about graduating law school. No big deal to me but it's what I found out he wrote back that is bugging me. He said things like how are you baby. Can't wait to talk and catch up sweetheart. I confronted ... (92 words)

Am I silly for liking a guy who is older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i don't if i am being silly for liking a guy who is older than me? here it is there is a guy at work he is 22, i thought he was good looking since the day i meant him we talked sometimes as i work in a canteen (the workers do 12 hour shifts and i serve them food). he has al... (309 words)

How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

- How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality? i know its a big part of me but i hate being always referred to as a loser. Oh and I'm 20 and not some teenager in high school.... (39 words)

Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone. Confronted him he denied it an tried to say from a male friend yet saw with my own eyes one pic he has taken a girl givin him oral sex he says it out of a magazine. What ... (62 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now, and his flirting is really bothering me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now, and his flirting is really bothering me. I didn't usually care, but as time has passed and our seriousness has increased I don't appreciate it. He flirts with service people, people in other cars, and work friends. It ... (215 words)

I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but she happens to be a female also.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but she happens to be a female also. We do some of the weirdest things together, and are pretty much connected at the hip. Sometimes it almost seems as if we flirt with each other, always taking each others possesions, and ... (84 words)

Do I have a chance with my ex without fear of losing him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

- hi, my ex boyfriend of around a year talked 2 me today...we've split up last oct. and since then we havent talked, except when recently he sent me a greeting message on an occasion, then afterwards I sent him a message asking on him and his work, later he replied.... (519 words)

Could she be my dream girl???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello, I wonder if you could help please? I have been ‘play’ flirting with this girl for about a year or two. She’s really popular, beautiful and real nice, way out of my league in my opinion. At first she found me weird. When I mean play it’s like I’ll say something rea... (412 words)

I really like this girl, but my feelings confuse me. What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - well, were to start. im basically a normal secondary school lass, but i seem to have special feelings for another girl in my class. I dont know why but i feel nervous around her but still want to be near her. I dont understand it and its confusing me. Help, because I dont no if ... (96 words)

He wants a sexual relationship but I don't think I feel the same...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I'm an 18 year old female, and have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 8 months. I'm starting to feel like I don't like him in that special way anymore. He wants a sexual relationship, but I don't think I feel the same. I don't get that tingly feeling anymore when he touches ... (65 words)

How do I come to terms with something that happened to me in a past relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I come to terms with something that happened to me in a past relationship( last year)? I cry often because I now realize I was mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused during this relationship. Everyday I think about how he cornered me in his bedroom ... (114 words)

Is it my fault? What can I do to better my next relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I love her, but I have to keep it moving. I've been involved with a lady for on and off for about a year. She's definitely the BIGGEST drama queen I've have to deal with. She recently broke up with me because she's jealous of my friends and she felt like she had to compete with ... (295 words)

My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 39 yr old gay man and have been in a relationship with my partner for 16 years. We have always had a good sex life and I have been happy until recently. My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in me. He spends hour upon hour ... (139 words)

He wants to go abroad so we can make a fresh start but I don't know if that's what I want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I've come to a sudden halt in my relationship, and am in need of advice. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years, we live together and have a very happy relationship. The only problem is his parents live abroad and he's always wanted to move out there for a better w... (184 words)

How do I deal with a two way love affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - How do I deal with a two way love affair? I love both of them but both of them have their bad points. And one of them i have a child by. I don't know which one to talk to.... (41 words)

Is she cheating or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

- I broke up with my girlfriend last week. I'm in my 30's, she's in her 20's. We both love each other, and have been together 5 years. I ended it because she seemed unsure of what to do... I went home for memorial day and didn't phone her for 4 days... tuesday, she phoned me at ... (324 words)

What can I do to get over my fear of flying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Help needed. I was on a plane when I was one when adopted from Russia. on friday we are leaving for CA and im am scared to death and not becuase of previous things. Im scared of take off and landing and my ears popping....plus im scared of heights. When my ears pop it is awful ... (93 words)

I'm scared I'll never see her again. Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - theres this realy nice girl that i like.. but shes 2 years older than me...she asked my friend why wont he come over here my friend said because she has a thing for you.. and she replyed something along the lines off.. aww but he's too young for me. now that has to be someth... (92 words)

I have a boyfriend but my ex has told me that he still likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - me and my ex have been apart for about a year and i have still got feelings for him even though i have a boyfriend, problem is is that now my ex has told me that he still really likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake what should i do? ... (56 words)

I keep getting teased by friends saying I look much younger than my age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im 13 and im going out with this boy every thing is fine but his mates who go to a different school to me all say that i look like 7 but then other people I know say i look older than i am, i dont know what to do coz im embarrassed of what they say but i feel bad 4 my ... (103 words)

I recently started liking my best friends brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I recently started liking my best friends brother. He started liking me too and we started dating. Then my best friend caught on and realised we like each other. Because of the 3 year age gap she was quite angry and now she won't even speak to me. What do i do? P.S. I'd rather ... (60 words)

I have a girlfriend but I can't stop thinking about this other girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been going with my girlfriend for just over 2 months now. However, recently i've been having doubts whether its her i really want to be with. I do love her, but, another girl whom i'd be gettin very close to before my current girlfriend has been telling me how she misses ... (159 words)

I am looking really forward to a change but I keep thinking what if it doesn't work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma. My problem is that after quite a number of years living in my own house I have now put it on the market to sell. It is now under offer. The reason I decided to sell is because I just can't see any future here for me or my son and I feel i'm going ... (439 words)

My bf cheated on me with my best friend a few weeks ago - I just now found out! I love him, but don't want to have this happen again! Help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay just the other day I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was on my cruise for Spring Break with my family. Like I said, it was spring break and now it is June 2 and i just now found out about it. They have been hiding it from me this who... (132 words)

He asked me to dress up nice for a surprise he is planning! Men - what could he be planning? How should I dress??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

- Hey all, Not sure if this is the right place to ask about this, but my boyfriend wants me to dress up for our romantic night in. I have sorted, food, contapception and everything, but I dont know why he wants me to dress up. When i asked him, he said it was a surprise. ... (111 words)

What products can I use for my greasy hair? And how do I make my chest appear bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

- Im a teenager and my hair goes greasy after 1/2 days after washing it. Really annoying, does anyone know anything to help prevent this products to help. Theres head and sholders (for greasy hair)?. Also I think my breasts are rather small does anyone know where to buy padded ... (66 words)

How can I tell if this girl really wants to go out with me? I don't want her to accept a date w/ me just to spare my feelings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - i have been told to meet this girl i asked to meet after the exams. i really like her. shall i ask first after the exams? any hints or tips to catch if she dont wanna go. i dont want to push her but i realize girls have a hard time sayin no as they dont wanna hurt me. but i'd ... (98 words)

He seems to only like me when he's drunk! Is he worth it or should I let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a big fan of showing his affectio... (160 words)

I have this huge spot on my penis! How do I get rid of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - i have this huge spot on my penis! it hurts. i've never had sex. and i'm quite clean. why is it there and how do i get rid of it?... (30 words)

She didn't want a one night stand, so I said fine. Now she's asking me on a date and I don't know if I should go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

- I slept with a girl I had met earlier the same night. We had been in a bar with others, got smashed, missed the last bus and she kindly let me share her taxi (and bed!) and started giving me the come-on, so I thought "Why not?" Just as we were getting into it she said she didn... (297 words)

Anyone who doesn't grovel at my feet is not worth my time. How do I get over my ego??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

4 June 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I find it joyful to see someone beg down to me and ask for mercy so that I can then decide as to what I should do with that person. Basically I can only relate with someone who can surrender to my ego. If they don't, I just ignore them or can't accept them to be worth relying ... (71 words)

He wants to date me again, but got another girl pregnant! Now she's threatening me! And what if he leaves if I get pregnant, too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm dating this guy whom i work with. We have been dating for two years now. Sometime last year we broke up and so apparently he has made another girl we work with pregnant. He says he doesnt love her, it was just out of frustration and he insists that he still loves me and ... (122 words)

We don't get to see each other that much, but I still really like him! How can this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out that he is a member of another ... (191 words)

My bf physically abuses me bc of anger issues! How do I get the courage to leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i feel as i am in the same cycle as my mom was. my mom was with my dad (whom was an alcholic) and has put up with abuse from him degrading her to beating her. one day, she managed to be brave enough and walk away with having nothing except taking the children. she separate... (241 words)

I like him and he likes me, but he's in a relationship! Is it wrong to still flirt with each other?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, I've fallen for a close mate of mine, but the problem is he has a girlfirend who he's been with for two years! He's told me that he's fallen for me too. But the thing is I dont think he will end it with his girlfriend for me. Is it wrong to just carry on flirting ... (85 words)

We've been separated from our past partners for years, but how can I tell my parents that we're moving in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im separated for 6yrs. and my bf is separated for 10 yrs. we planned to live together but i dont know how to tell my conservative parents bout this coz we are not annuled.please help. ... (37 words)

My parents are telling me that marriage is burdensome! Now I'm depressed about my upcoming marriage!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

4 June 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I am depressed because of my marriage coming near as my parents give me an impression that i am heading towards some kind of burdensome relationship to carry for my entire life as they had been doing it themselves.. I feel too much overwhelmed with this parental stress and ... (63 words)

I don't want to commit because I don't think I'll be able to stay faithful. Are these fears genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I am afraid of commiting myself to my partner because i fear that i may not be able to remain faithful to her for the entire life. Also i feel i will lose my freedom to look at and appreciate other beautiful women around. Are these fears genuine? ... (50 words)

How can I tell her that there are *goals* to have perfect relationships, but no relationship is actually perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok. I got a girl and I'm having a big problem. She thinks there are perfect relationships and i told her if so then I want ours to be perfect. And I want to try my best, but I know there is no perfect relationship out there. But i want to show her that it's hard to be perfect.... (59 words)

I'm in love w/ my flatmate, but don't feel I can tell her as she's emotional from a break up! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my flatmate. We have lived together for a few years and have known each other since we started Uni 7 years ago. She has been having emotional problems with her ex boyfriend who messed her around and is still trying to string her along. I don't feel I can tell ... (83 words)

I know we're going to break up b/c the distance is too much to handle! Should I not go see him next month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I don't know if anyone can really help me with this but i'm not sure where else to turn. My problem is that my boyfriend lives half a world away. We've been together for a year, through what I've found to be a very hard long distance relationship. I'm going to go and see ... (273 words)

I'm in love w/ my nephew's ex, but she still loves him and doesn't want to break his heart by dating me. I don't want to let her slip through my fingers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 33 year old guy and have been single for almost 2 years. However my 23 year old nephew has recently split from his 26 year old girlfriend and as a result myself and this girl have become very close. I feel myself falling in love with her and after talking with her. It ... (140 words)

He says the phrase "I love you" is overused. So how do I tell him that I really do love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

- Been seeing my boyfriend a year and wanna say i love you, but he has said to me in the past he thinks the words are overused. Now I don't know if I should say it. When is the best time to say something like that? I'm finding it a big deal because I've never said it to someone ... (60 words)

When he leaves for long trips, I panic! How can I stay calm and relaxed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

- hi there Iv been seeeing my bf almost a year and think the world of him Im in my 20s and him his early 30s. He has kids from a previous realtionship and do to work doesn't get to see them often (once a month for a few days.) He is my first bf and when we started off we we... (377 words)

I'm extremely shy around people, but quite extroverted around my friends! How do I overcome this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - In certain situations i become really shy and it takes me a long time to open up to people and to just converse normally... How can i become less shy? I hate it, around my friends i'm quite extroverted but around new people, or people that i am interested in, i must seem ... (186 words)

How do I leave this abusive relationship? I'm alone in this country - Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - how do i go about leaving an abusive relationship? i am having a problem of having support from family for my situation since they live in different country from me. what do i do? and wher can i turn to?... (40 words)

After the divorce I turned into a slob that smokes too much and gains weight like crazy! How can I pull my act together?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All; It's not a dangerous problem like many i read here but it bothers me and it's affecting my life. Got a divorce about a year ago (it was a relief and i had been the one striving for it for years)but since then i feel i've lost my will power. I am gaining weight by th... (149 words)

The girl I like likes me back, but doesn't want a relationship! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a friend that I've been liking for a few months now and she just recently broke up w/ her bf 2 weeks ago. Now I know not to rush her, but I'm confused, b/c I know she is attracted to me and she flirts w/ me a few times back in school but even when we dont see each other ... (110 words)

He said he had feelings for my gf, and now they're closer than ever! Was I right to break up w/ her to avoid these jealous feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My 2-1/2 year GF has a best friend who happens to be my friend also. They started hanging out a year ago when i was in far away place. At that same time, his best friend confided to her that he already has feelings for her long before we met with my gf. When i know this i t... (188 words)

Falling in love with a married woman...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

- Help! I think I am falling in love with a beautiful married girl who lives only a few doors away from me. Whenever we meet, we flirt and gaze adoringly at one another - and always end up in a passionate embrace which I always hope will never end. I think she feels the same way. ... (278 words)

My new girl wants me to blackout the face of my ex on college photos... is she asking too much?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf wants me to blackout the face of an ex-girlfriend who i was very in love with from my college grad pics. she is in pics w/ myself, family, and other guests. i graduated in 2002. we broke up 4 years ago. i have the pics on pc and hard copies. i havent looked at them ... (71 words)

People are telling my husband that I am lying to him! Why are they saying these things?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im at a lost me and my husband are having problems alot of people keep telling him things that arent true about me and i have no idea why there sayin this stuff hes deployed and guyz over there are tellin him ive been sleepin around on him and im not and people back at home ... (399 words)

His shirt was left in the back seat of his mom's car - did he cheat on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) - i was at my b/f's mother's house. And--my boyfriend has his own car that hes been using and uses his mother's only once in awhile. His mother said suddenly to my b/f while we were eating--you left your shirt in the backseat of my car. And my b/f just looks at his mom and didn... (225 words)

I can't seem to concentrate on things and it's affecting my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

4 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can never concentrate on things for any length of time as I get bored easily and this also shows in my relationships (although I have never ever cheated and always put a lot into my relationships). It is starting to seriously impact on my life so how can I develop ... (70 words)

We're having an affair - he only talks about my physical aspects! Am I being used?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

4 June 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i have been having an affair for 1 year with a man who has a partner he tells me he loves her but, what does the but mean. also he says one thing but his actions show me something else, he has told me he is smitten with me he also cannot keep his hands of me he said he is no ... (172 words)