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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Broken up for 3 months now but I miss her like crazy. How do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girl have been broken up for about 3 months now, and I miss her like crazy, how do I get her back?... (25 words)

I'm scared in case I lose the happiness that I have just found.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

1 June 2007 (M) - Last year I was in a relationship with a girl who I loved a great deal and i thought that she felt the same, she found out that she was pregnant and in september last year she had a baby girl, i dont know if she is my child, I was used and hurt by her emotionally, to the point ... (261 words)

I am 18 and have never kissed a girl. Why am I such a loser?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, i am almost 18 years old and i have NEVER kissed a girl. i know it is very rare and trust me you would not want to be me. i just want to know some possible reasons why i am such a loser.... (44 words)

Should I tell my new partner my ex and I had genital warts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, bit of a strange question but one I need to ask. I have recently come out of a very strong 4 year relationship, during the first 3 months of that realtionship, my ex girlfriend and I contracted genital warts (HPV), we are unsure as to where they came from as we were both ... (205 words)

When I have sex with my partner my whole body tenses up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Im 24 years old and have been in a releationship for 3 years im also 8 months pregnant. The problem i have is that ever since i was 18/19 i have never really enjoyed sex i have it but only about 2 or 3 times a month i dont want to lose my partner over it but ever time someone ... (97 words)

Why does she never want to spend time alone with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl first told my friends that she fancied me about six weeks ago but I decided that I wanted to get to know her properly first. We've kissed a few times when we've been out with a group of mates and I know that she still likes me. We see each other in and around work three ... (203 words)

Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

- Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?... (11 words)

Everyone in my school thinks I am a 'bof'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Everyone in my school thinks i am a 'bof' when i'm not they don't even have good reasons for that. it hurts so much because they are often horrible jokes. I'll be lucky if i ever get a boyfriend because of whatt these people say. They all say if i change and roll my skirt up ... (93 words)

I've liked him for ages, he asks me out and I say NO out of nerves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I really like this guy and I have done for months. We both work together and I had the feeling that he liked me too. Basically I know loads of guys at work because there are mostly men working there and when I first started working there a lot of the guys were flirting with me ... (261 words)

Suddenly there are new friends in her life since our break up, and I don't like it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My ex and I have had relationship probems since the beginning of our relationship, however we have a deep passionate love for eachother. Right now, we are not together but are discussing possibly working things out, however there are certain aspects of life that i value very ... (241 words)

Do you think I over reacted when he didn't call me for a whole day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (F) - Dear cupid me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up because about 2 weeks ago he disappeared and i waited for him to call all day and he never did until the next day and he could not give me a reason so i got mad at him and he hung up on me so I called back and he neve... (230 words)

Now we now have to put our lives on hold while he is tested for every STI there is. How could he be so reckless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Last Friday my boyfriend (of nearly four years) flew out to hong kong (on business) and went out with a few friends on saturday night. He called me on monday to say that somehow he had got completely drunk and somehow a girl had gone back to his hotel room and that he had ... (138 words)

I'm 15 and my mum thinks I'm a "good girl". Little does she know I have a boyfriend and.... I'M PREGNANT!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

1 June 2007 (?) age 16-17 - hi im steph, im 15, my mum thinks im "good" she says im not like the "little slappers" i hang round with. she doesnt know i have got a boyfriend and she has already told me if i get a boyfriend older than me or if she finds out i am having sex she will kick me out because im ... (180 words)

How do I really know I made the right decision to split up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How will I know it was the right decision? I split with my partner after over 4 years of being together a couple of months ago. We didn't live together or anything so it wasn't a messy split. For me, things hadn't felt right since about September last year. I had started t... (170 words)

I'm scared he'll find someone else when I'm away for 4 months...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am going away tomorrow for 4 months to Austria, which I am excited about, don't get me wrong but I am also terrified because I am going away from everyone that I know and Love. I am leaving this guy behind, which has been a confusing situation and I know its never going to... (164 words)

Fallen in love with my male friend but he doesn't feel the same way! He even refused to kiss me when we got drunk! Any Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 June 2007 (F) - The common story: I'm a girl of 16, and have fallen in love with my best friend, whos also 16. He doesn't like me, I can tell and hes said things to me about it before. Recently we got really drunk and I asked him to kiss me and he refused but after a while gave in. Before this ... (122 words)

I feel constanty pressured to do well, to be cool and popular! Am I not happy with just 'who' I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hiya i constantly feel pressured the whole time to do well in everything and to be cool and popular. Life feels like a competiton of who is happier and has the best life. I know that i should be happy with who i am but im not and constantly thrive to be happier, better, ... (78 words)

I'm not saying it's wrong to have a past...but how does one deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-gave-her-ex-blow-jobs-why.html A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): It is "disgusting"... Why would i find it to not be "disgusting"?. Yes when she does it to me that fine because its me, Like my girlfriend said ... (223 words)

I feel embarassed to show him to my friends as he is 'not as fit' as all my old boyfriends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

1 June 2007 (?) age 18-21 - I am lost with what to do with my (currently ex) boyfriend. I knew him for about a year back when we were both about 14, and liked each other but we were immature/naive and didnt do anything. He moved and i thought i had lost him forever. Suddenly, about 2 months ago he rang me ... (214 words)

I just feel so depressed, stressed and fed up with myself, I don't understand why! Is it just hormones or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a 15 year old female. Lately, i've been really down with myself, i don't really know why [AND it's not the 'time of the month']. Maybe it's just my life-routine - my parents are having goes at me 24/7 which really doesn't help and they are repeatedly saying how moody i've ... (140 words)

Someone has posted a picture of my boyfriend in his boxer shorts to a dating website and are continuing to do so, it's stressing us both out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together since we were 18. Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work. I've seen the profile on the site - but my boyfriend said he didn't create ... (172 words)

He thinks that if I have lunch with some male classmates (I'm in college), that automatically makes me a whore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and are speaking about trying to work things out and get back together. One of the biggest problems that stand in the way are our completely opposing views on having friends of the opposite sex. I always felt more comfortable with male ... (140 words)

Why does my husband want to up and move sticks? I don't want to move.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband told me he wants us to move to Los Angeles, but I want to stay where we are - as it's nice and we've been where we are now for 3 years. Also, I've started a new job locally, and have only been in it for 4 weeks now. I'd probably lose touch with family and frien... (161 words)

How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How long should you see someone for before you have sex? When is too early? And also why do you bleed the first time?... (24 words)

Repeat of a 3-some!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it possible for me to get my wife to have sex with another man,she has done this one time before for me and I have a fetish about that.thanks for your advice... (34 words)

Brewers droop or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My Boyfriend and i were about to have sex the other night when he 'lost it' he blamed the one glass of wine we had an hour earlier with our meal, could the wine be a valid reason? Just because this happened a few weeks back also but we have been together for four years and it h... (69 words)

How do I make us officially a couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I was going with a boy for 18 months but we broke up about a xmas 2005 as he wanted a break, however for the last 5 months we've been seeing each other, its usually only once or twice a week, however i speak to him on the phone once or twice a day and we are constantly texting, ... (307 words)

Me, my boyfriend and the girl he met on holiday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im not sure if my fella loves me truley, if you know what I mean. I feel like he does but he has recently been tExting another girl who he met on a lads holiday last sumMer before we got together, he has been wanting her to mEet up with him when he has been working away and ... (83 words)

We split but then had red-hot breakup sex... why does this hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - A week ago my first serious B/F of 18 months split with me. it is something that i had been thinking about for a while too and although I love him and I know he loves me, we don't make each other happy anymore. I had been doing really well and although it has been incrediably ... (205 words)

Torn between two men! HELP

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. I was married to S and had two kids. We divorced after 7 yrs. Due to the fact he was cold and selfish. I met and married A 4 months later. Two days after getting married S calls and says he still loves me and wants me back. So I break things off with A and go ... (158 words)

Is my friend of 18 years now looking to have a relationship with me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend of 18 years told me he wanted a woman just like me. He also said he need to find someone to give a key to his safe deposit box to. Months later he came tovisit as he sometimes does, and kissed me with passion. I was shocked. Is he looking to have a romantic ... (58 words)

What is going on with my married friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female in love with a female friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. There is no mistake we flirted ... (533 words)

He ignored me and then I hit him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - please help me!!!went out last night with my boyfriend and his friends and he ignored me all night to the point where i was standing alone for most of it. we argued about it on the way home big time he was shouting at me and i just slapped him in the face - i dont know wat came ... (143 words)

He asked me to marry him 3 yrs ago! Were not even officially engaged, am I wasting my time ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

- my bf asked me to marry him 3 years ago after a fight and a mini break up. he did it in his car when he picked me up and he didnt have a ring. i then went looking round jewellers to get an idea of what i liked- alone, he didnt come with me. when id seen one i liked ... (259 words)

Is he still carrying on with others, even though I refuse to believe it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - last year i found that my boyfriend was texting and meeting another girl we managed to put it behind us but 6 weeks later i found he was doing it again with the same girl. i comfronted him but he said she was ugly and it was nothing more than a freindship. he thinks i have ... (127 words)

He told me he had a 3some before us, trouble is I now want to know alllllll the details despite it hurting!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

- when we first met my boyfriend told me he had had a threesome in the past i didnt want to know this. we have been together for ages and it is eating me alive to know the details. i feel like i need to know but i dont really want to know because thinking about it causes... (186 words)

How can I help my cousin get over the rat that cheated on her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a cousin who dated her boyfriend for 14 years and then they got married. They had a beautiful little boy and after a year and a half of marriage he cheated on her. They are separated but she cant get over him and has extremely low self esteem even though she is a ... (104 words)

Will he ever be ready to get back with me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i dated for 6 months. we had a normal relationship. we did fight here and there. but it was always over because he had no time for me. he would rather spend time with his friends on our days off together. it used to be i would only have time to see him at work. ... (221 words)

I've never felt him cum, so how do I know when he is ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with only a few men, sexually and before the boyfriend I have now, I've never had an orgasm with foreplay or during sex. I realized that I just wasn't comfortable enough with the partners I had before. I was finally lucky enough to find a man I was completely ... (197 words)

Why is it that I can't have an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im a 19 female ive never done this before but i was just wanting some advice.i was wondering why is it that i can never have an actual orgasm. my friend said that shes only had one and shes 20 and she was kinda wonderin too why she cant have anymore i mean like we get that ... (89 words)

In love with a girl who feels I am too good for her! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - im in love with a girl who feels that i am to good for her. as if thats not enough she cant stop thinking about all the pain she has caused me in the past i dont care about the past but she cant forget and its making her very sad. i've done all i can think of to make her ... (109 words)

Had an affair..am I doing the right thing by ignoring him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i had an affair with a married man but recently i refused to accept his calls and even i acted so rude to him cuz i want to get out of his life.But i know he loves me.Am i doing the right thing by ignoring him? ... (54 words)

How do I delete my dearcupid page?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

1 June 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How do I delete my page?... (6 words)

I love him so much but he works far too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

1 June 2007 (F) age 36-40 - This is how my life goes, I am deeply inlove with someone and he feels the same. we have a long distance relationship. We meet from time to time and both of us are okay with that. I love this guy so much that even words cannot explain how i really feel. He says that he feels ... (256 words)