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I like him but I don't think he feels the same way about me?

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Question - (12 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A female Azerbaijan age 30-35, *ellardoor_ writes:

Dear Agony Aunt.

This year a new boy came into my school. At first I saw nothing on him but as he joined my drama group I began to realize there was something special about him. It was only on our last night performing that I realized how much I liked him.

The problem is that I am afraid he doesn't like me the way I do or he doesn't know what I feel. I know I haven't told him and probably won't, but it makes me sadder and sadder to see and speak to him everyday and reaoize how he doesn't care as much for me.

There is also another problem: most of the new students fall for this friend of mine who just happens to be single this week. What should I do so that my feelings do not end up hurt?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007):

i think that if you really like him that you need to pipe up and say something...if all your friends like him too then tell them "hey i like him and it would really hurt if you did that" just caually let on you like him and be patient or hold nothing back and go after him wiht full force

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A female reader, cellardoor_ Azerbaijan +, writes (13 June 2007):

cellardoor_ is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, Jamer. I hope that one of these following days I will take up the courage to say that to him.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntThe only way you can find out is by telling him how you feel.

Believe me from personal experience, it is better to speak up and find out how they feel, then run through a million situations in your head, and leave it so long that you will get hurt.

You are still young and the worst he can say is no, if he does find someone who deserves you.

Good luck

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