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writes: I Am 14 and am in a very good strong relationship and we are now having sex. it seems good but it always seems like hes getting alot more fun out of it than me, i dont even think i have orgasms...can you suggest ways in which we could both reach orgasm and not just him?And what does an orgasm feel like?Also ive heard that if you do foreplay in the right way it can help and feel really good, but i dont know how and neither does he, we have done some things ( fingering etc) but thats it.Please help me!
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reader, chazx  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 You are 14 years old you should not be encountering these sort of things. dont have sex stop doing it now and wait till your at least legal.
and DearCupid staff should not be telling you that oral sex will help.
i hope you are taking it safe and using protection.
I didnt first have sex until i was 16 years old. i do regret doing it at such a young age but i am in love with the man i have done it with and iv never thought about doing it with anyone else and never will.
Pls stop now before you get into deep.
and orgasm's probably wont come at your age.
Chazx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Hi. First of all a load of girls, including myself, found they couldn't have an orgasm until their bodies were completely mature (aged 17-18) The best way to find out what makes you hot is to experiment by yourself, then you can show your boyfriend how you like it. Describing what an orgasm feels like is near impossible but it's fair to say that if you're not sure if you've had one you almost certainly haven't. Don't forget to always practise safe sex.
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Hey, good question. Some people find it incredibley hard to orgasm during vaginal intercourse because it's not just about vaginal intercourse, it's about clitoral. Look up the clitoris and the vagina for some anatomy lessons to help you locate things if you need to. :) Aside from clitoral stimulation, I personally find it easier to just have my orgasm through foreplay (oral sex, fingering, etc.), and then enjoy myself (although not to and orgasm) while he gets HIS orgasm/fun.
As for what it feels like...For me, every muscle is tightening up and clenching until that last few seconds of climax when they all just release and let go and it feels like warm waves between my belly-button and downstairs. It's different for many girls, though.
And also, you may not always have one. Just so you know. :) Hope my information helps, and good luck to you guys! -Carrie
PS: Always use safer sex.
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