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reader, troubledtoomuch  + ♥, writes (8 May 2008):
 When the woman is aroused, the uterus moves out of the way some, allowing the penis to get passed it. It moves to the woman’s front. The uterus is only about 4 to 5 inches into the vaginal canal. However, there are conditions that won't allow the penis to pass. At these times, the penis will hit the cervix and cause a sharp pain. This can happen to almost all women. Some women have what is called a tipped uterus, which is a condition that does not allow it to move out of the way enough. It is located too far rearward. Even if it can move out of the way the normal amount, a guy who has a thick penis may still hit the cervix because he is too big to get past the cervix.
Entry angle also makes a big difference. If the penis is entering toward the back (bottom if the woman is on her back) then it is more able to get past the cervix. If it is entering toward the front then it is more likely to hit the cervix. Missionary allows the penis to enter toward the woman’s back, which will be much less likely to cause a problem. Doggy will result in the penis going in toward the front, making it more likely that it will hit the cervix and cause pain. It is even worse if the guy is trying to be high and enter downward (toward the woman’s front in doggy). Doggy can still work if the guy stays down low and makes sure that his penis is entering upward toward the woman’s back.
My wife has a tipped uterus and we have still found ways to make most all positions work. When we first started dating 29 years ago, I knew nothing about all of this and would hurt her a lot of times. She wouldn’t allow me to use doggy until we discovered what the problem was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I am having the same problem and even when he goes slow and is gentle it still hurts sometimes. When we are done the bottom of my stomach hurts really bad. He says that when we have sex it feels like he is hitting something,is that my cervix?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Hey girlies, I to have experienced this pain during sex with my boyfriend, i have been worried about it for a while but now i know im not the only person i would probably put it down to size. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): idont get it.. should i see a doctor if it hurts soo soo bad.. like ive only had sex a very few times.. will it eventually shrink the cervix n not hurt as much
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): i have the same thing when my boyfriend is about to cum he pushes his penis in very hard and it hurts! i thought something was wrong with me..but it happens to alot of ppl! some girls just arent deep enough for that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): I have exactly the same problem even though I've had three children its all been painful when they go in too deep. Someone told me it could be due to having a low cervix. Dont know if that is the case though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): I have the same problem. Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone. Unfortunately, I never feel like my guy is fully satisfied. He's so kind and patient about it, but I feel bad ...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Sorry pink fraggle, but the penis never enters the uterus, there is a cervix blocking the way.
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reader, pink fraggle  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 yeah size is the answer but of your uterus. Its only something daft like 4 inches long! So no its not just you. Just try different positions. no legs above your head! :-) I have the same problem although i like the pain!? But there are times that i dont want it hurting and the only thing to do is move!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Yes it is quite normal..and I am almost the same height (5'0') And I have experience the same pain! Just tell your guy to be more gentle with you!! (Try you being on top, then you can control the depth)
Hugs
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (23 January 2007):
 Oh my, yes that CAN hurt!!
You're very normal. I also get pain if my boyfriend goes in too deep. When it hits that certain spot, it gets a sudden OW!!
Is your boyfriend relatively big? Doggy style is probably the worst position for really large guys. It'll go in the deepest that way. For sexual positions, I would probably suggest YOU getting on top. That way you can control how deep he goes. And if you go reeeeaaallllyyyy slow, it'll probably easier to have him go deeper. That way your body can adjust slowly.
xxIndia
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Yes you are normal and this is normal. If a guy goes too deep or too far it will hurt. It's not really your fault he just needs to be a bit more gentle and know when he's hurting you. And also if he has a particularly 'long john' it is almost inevitable that you will feel pain. Trust me I know, it has happened to me and it was not nice. So don't worry just tell your guy not to venture too far out into your 'geographical region.' lol.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (23 January 2007):
 It's probably not a matter of your size but maybe his. It sounds to me like he's hitting your cervix which can be very painful, ask him to be a bit gentler when he's going fully in and you should be fine. If you notice any other sex side effects like unexplained bleeding etc tho take yourself along for another screening but I'm pretty sure from what you've said that it's the first thing to try to relax!
CD
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