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writes:hi I was wondering if anyone else has ever felt the way that i do at the momentI have a fab bf who I have been with for 7 months I see him quite a lot but when i leave him i ache for him again I saw him last night and ill see him tonight but i just wanna be with him again so badI know its not right to be with one person 24/7 but i just wanna be with him so much I hate days when i dont see him but know everyone needs their own spaceAlso, i wanna tell my bf i love him (iv nearly said it a few times) I always seem to stop because im a lil worried it would change things He has said before to me that saying I love you is something that he finds hard to sayWhat should I do I dont wanna freak him out Have we been going out long enough to say i love you?Thanks everyone
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Oh, I think you're in the clear. I think you've been going out long enough. My boyfriend and I said it after three or four months! Now, a year n' a half later, we're still saying it to each other. Even if he doesn't say it back when you say it the first time, I know he's going to love that you said it. It will make him more comfortable for when HE decides to say it.
I think you should go for it. I think the time is right and I think he will be really happy to hear it from you.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): By the sound of things you have spent 7 months together and you both try to spend as much time as you can together.So go for it tell him you love him.Then he may well feel comfortable saying it back to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): I would tell him you love him, if it freaks him out he isnt the right one for you flower, although I really dont think you will freak him out, as if he didnt feel the same wasy why would he spend so much time with you. Take the bull by the horns lovely and tell him now !
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): In my experience 7 months is long enough to tell some one you love them bcoz if u trust them then go for it :D
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