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writes:Ok, this is a followup to something I wrote previously. But, it looks to still be an issue. So, I'd like some opinions on what to do.I had previously written that I noticed some weird calls on my girlfriend's phone. These usually were at 2-4am in the morning -- right after or before I spoke to her. I know those numbers are guy's numbers because I actually did call them and got their voicemails. I'm pretty positive those are not her friends because all her friends are not out-of-state. When I asked her about one of the numbers one time because she was receiving a lot of text messages from one of them, she said it was a friend of her's and that she hadn't spoken to him in quite a few months. But, this went contrary to what I saw on her phone bill. She had just spoken to him a few days ago.I now see this trend of calls still continues. Where it's a call for about one minute. But, sometimes, it will be for about an hour. Should I outright ask her and tell her I saw her phone bill? Demand an outright explanation ... Would you call a casual friend at 2-4am in the morning for just one minute ... quite a few times a week? I see no reason to even make such a call ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): To answer your last question, yes I would. My female friend calls me at 1 in the morning and talks anywhere from 30 minutes to 3 and a half hours. I'm sure if my girlfriend found out, she would be highly suspicious, but of course, I wouldn't give her time to be suspicious.
In your case, I suggest you confront her whether there is another guy in her life or not. Mind you, you should be prepared to deal with this with maturity rather than blowing up and/or cry your eyeballs out.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (22 January 2007):
 i think that you should relax, sit down and talk to her. by telling her that you saw her phone bill may upset her, because i know i wouldnt like it if my boyfriend went through my phone bills. ask her if there is another guy that shes talking to and try not to show her that you are angry. tell her that you want her to give you an honest answer and theat you feel like ther is someone else.
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