A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:hiya i was just wondering what to do when you are in love with somebody and they used to like you but now they dont. you see ive been in love for about 2 years and he used to like me but now he doesnt beacuse so many people at the moment like him and i no i dont stand a chance he ignores me now and he didnt before and im still in love what do i do i am right now trying so hard to get over him but his sister is my best mate so i cant stay away from him and when im at school its like he is always there wen i turn around i just miss him so much cuz i no he doesnt love me so please help me i cant get over him thanks a lot xx Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 I, too, can relate to your situation for I went through what you are now experiencing! (I was in a relationship for 3 years then it went sour) My friends told me that I will find someone else that would treat me better. I didn't want to find someone else...I wanted him!! I thought that I wouldn't get over this guy. What I had to do was distance myself from him, and I quit calling him on the phone.
It took time, but now I know what my friends told me was right on! Now when I see this guy, I can't see what I saw in him!
Like I said, it takes time to heal...so find a hobby that you like doing and makes you feel good...(mine was arts and crafts and music) Do something for YOU!!
Good Luck!!
A
female
reader, charley mcfarley +, writes (22 January 2007):
hiya,
i can completely relate with your situation and do understand how awful you must be feeling. although the pain may not go away for a while it eventually will, i promise. the best thing to do for now is pretend.
walk by him with your held held high, if he takes no notice nevermind, but at one point he will realise that you are over him and he will feel as silly as you are at the moment. i know you may feel dsperatly in love with him still but DONT show it.
=] xx
...............................
|
