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My boyfriend likes to wear my knickers and play with dildos and vaseline! What should I do?

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Question - (22 January 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am in a relationship and i recently discovered my boyfriend wearing my knickers with my dildo in one hand and the vaseline in the other. I thought he would deny it but he asked me to join in by wearing his boxers and helping him. What shall i do? please help.

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A male reader, creativegoth United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2011):

creativegoth agony auntIf you're ok with him wearing your knickers, then go with it,it might even spice up your sex life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007):

go with the flow he lucky to have u let him wear knickers

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A male reader, Been around United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2007):

Hes exploring his feminine side and being open about it shows great trust in you . If your ok with it explore it further . Hes not gay he probably wants to abdicate some responsibility . Check out on the net about male Feminization . Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007):

It seems he has the perfect woman in his mind and she is so perfect that no real woman can ever have the qualities he thinks she should have. Therefore he has created her in his mind and the only way he can ever get close to her is to try and let her come out in role playing. He will never get this out of his head because she is starting to become real as he plays the role, This is your opportunity to have a girlfriend that will clean and cook for you! You cn either have some fun with this or get out all together. Try dressing him in drag and make him cook and clean for you, he/she will be your fiend and personal maid! A strap on will mst definately give you all the powerover him! Keep it a personal secret and you take charge of everything!

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A female reader, CarrieMagdelene United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

CarrieMagdelene agony auntWow, what a predicament! India pretty much said it all, so good for her! :)

It all boils down to how YOU feel about it.

And how you feel about him wearing YOUR underwear, lol. I'm just joking, although I bet you felt your personal space violated by him taking your panties, and your toys to use for himself without asking.

Discuss this with him. -Carrie

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntWell, hey - he asked you to join. That's nice of him.

Clearly, he's got a little fetish and he wants to include you in his fantasies. No, I don't think he's gay. I think he's a little kinky. If you're not into it, you need to tell him that you're not into that kind of thing. If it makes you SERIOUSLY uncomfortable, well, think seriously about your relationship. This is something he's into. He probably won't stop being into it. He can stop including you, but it will probably always be in the back of his mind as something he enjoys doing.

Think about it.

xxIndia

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