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writes:how long should forplay last for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): Martini-
It's wonderful that you are a very sensitive guy who cares about the comfort of your lovers. Here we are talking about someone that is possibly inexperienced. It is not uncommon for a woman to bare discomfort for the sake of her partners pleasure and, often times, in new relationship the communication just isn't there. They may be embarrassed, ashamed, unaware, etc.. whatever the reasons.
It's important for her to be fully informed about the mere basics of what foreplay is meant for. It's not just for fun but it serves a physical function. You'd be surprised at how many women don't know that much. Hell, I had an aunt that hadn't had a orgam until she reached the ripe old age of 49 and she freaked out because she didn't know what hit her. I'm sure her hubby wasn't too pleased to learn she had been faking all those years. Ha!
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (22 January 2007):
 How long is a piece of string?
Should last as long as you both feel comfortable. Everyone may have a different answer but to me the purpose of foreplay is to have fun, enjoy "playing" and it should last until you are "can't take no more" before taking the next level!
If when you are penetrated you are not turned on, then foreplay was not long enough.
Sometimes couples enjoy teasing each other for ages just to build up some tension. In foreplay, it is better to have variety of acts.
For example, to expect a partner to give oral sex for 30 minutes solid, may be lock one's jaw, then it becomes a health and safety issue!
What is important is that both enjoy it, whatever the act.
Everyone is different.
Hope it helps
Angel of Love x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): May I say that every time I hear or see something similar to "If not, and penetration is forced, there could be vaginal tearing and scarring which is very painful" - I just cringe! It's horrible to think your girl would have such painful experiences all because a penis or a dildo caused it... [shudders]
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): Here's hoping your of legal consenting age..
I have to agree with Martini.
When you become mature and experienced enough you will hopefully reach that same conclusion.
There is one important thing to note.. foreplay should last, at the very least, long enough to excite and secrete a woman. If not, and penetration is forced, there could be vaginal tearing and scarring which is very painful. If foreplay isn't accomplishing that very important aspect, then you should use lubricants.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): First of all, there is no set standard. MY GOSH! You think this is weight training with reps and sets?!?! [wink]
Foreplay lasts as long as two people make it last until they're ready to churn the butter keg and go to 'heaven'. Obviously, if you're asking this, you're not quite ready mentally and emotionally to even try to engage in sexual activities with your partner. Sex in my books at the least, should be a natural phenomena and not some text book driven guide.
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