Why is my ex bf calling me and talking about these other women?

A female , anonymous writes:

Hoping someone can help me figure this out. My boyfriend ended the relationship bacause he met someone else. I felt bad but have moved on, I think. We split a couple of months ago. He called me out of the blue a week ago...just to chat. I was suprised but heard him out. He kept talking about his new girlfriend and then would pause to see what my reaction was. He also brought up the name of a girl that liked him when we were dating and it caused friction. When he mentioned these people I said nothing. I am playing a careful game here as he kind of hurt me and I want to keep my dignity and not give him the satisfaction of thinking I am pining after him even if I still like him. He is with the other girl so I think it is pointless to pursue this. Why would he be mentioning these other women...I am confused. Thank you to any aunts which answer this.

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