No matter what - I try I can't seem to ejaculate in his arse.

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm a 22 year old male who's in my first gay relationship. We've been together about a year now and are having a fantastic time together. However, I have one problem. Normally I take when it comes to sex, but recently my boyfriend has asked me to give for a change, which I was nervous and a bit reluctant about at first, but now I've come around to the idea. On Monday we tried it properly for the first time and it was okay and last night we did it again, however no matter how hard I try I can't seem to ejaculate in his arse. As soon as I get the feeling I'm about to, my body reacts in a way I don't want it to and either I seem to slow down too much were it just goes away or I keep the speed but then maybe because I'm thinking about it too much I seem to be stopping myself. Anybody got any ideas what I can do?

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