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I decided I go 'scold' my ex in revenge. But not knowingly, I realised, I've been talking to his mother and she now wants me to see her on Friday and she will go see the principal about this matter.

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Question - (22 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2007)
A female Singapore age 26-29, *emonstarxx writes:

Okay, this is kinda following up from my last question. I told that classmate whom I like how I feel. But in return I got rejected but managed to still remain friends. However, I'm not really convinced. Sometimes, I do feel that he looks at me. Or something. But dare not turn to look. As I needed to walk pass him to get to my friends during class time, he does talk to me when I walk pass him. But that is not the main problem I'm having now. Today, I just talked to my ex online. As he and his friends have been calling me a bitch, I decided I go 'scold' him in revenge. But not knowingly, I realised, I've been talking to his mother and she now wants me to see her on Friday and she will go see the principal about this matter. I've said sorry, but am not sure if she'll forget about this matter. I'm so worried that I will get in trouble. I don't want to get in trouble. I know what I did was wrong. But now, I'm so worried. Please please help! Thanks.

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A female reader, hit-the-road,jack... United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

dont worry.

it seems so massively important now but its not the be all and end all.

she shouldnt have been on his msn or whatever anyway

shes probably just threatening about the principal but if she does, just explain as simply as possible what happened.

also yeah he must be embarrassed as hell, i mean, overprotective interfering mum much?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

Did you tell her what her precious son was saying to his friends about YOU? I don't really see how she can drag a non school related matter into school, and if the principal has any sense they will tell her that it is not school business and make her feel silly for bringing it up.

And even if they do ask you about it, just be truthful. You wouldn't have done anything if he and his friends hadn't been going round calling you names in the first place. The worst that'll happen will be that they'll call you both in and tell you both that name calling is not on.

I wouldn't go round to her house on Friday, she's probably only going to sit you down and scream blue murder at you. And if her son is there he'll probably only deny everything he's said and it'll be two against one. Why should you have to put up with that? You shouldn't. Make your excuses and just avoid confrontation until everything is settled down. After a while if you still feel bad maybe write a letter explaining everything.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat exactly did you say?

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