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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Why would he break up with me as a girlfriend, if he wants me to "wait" until he's ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Alright I was with this really great guy, :wub: my first boyfriend, but I started to notice that he was falling away from me and then he just up and dumped me. :( Now he never really talked to me on the phone which I understand. I'm not that much of a phone person and we only ... (439 words)

No more joking and fun, my boyfriend's gone all obsessive about me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Help me. I have been with my bf for 1 month now and I feel like he is suffocating me. Everything was going really well until last weekend. He said he loved me. Ahhhh... I feel he has changed and he is no longer jokey with me and he is all touchy-feely and obsessive. I want out... (86 words)

My guy won't introduce me to his folks. Is it because I'm black?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I'm 20 yrs old black beauty. Been a serious relationship with this guy who is asian. My problem is ever time I ask to speak to his folks he never wants me to. He keeps promising me that he will do an intro. Well I know his mum and him are not best of friends, but how ... (147 words)

Is sex always this... messy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had a very active sex life. We decided to change from using condoms to her going on the pill so there would be no delay when we were in the mood. Unfortunately it seems to have had the opposite effect. The main reason is for the mess after I have had... (87 words)

Don't want to rush, but don't want to miss my chance with this girl, either...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - I met a girl and I'm falling for her, problem is that I just got out a long relationship. I'm sure she's into me and she is what I've learned from my past that I want to have in my life. I'm worried about her talking with others and then I will lose a chance for a relationship ... (99 words)

I'm worried that my girlfriend might prefer porn to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - Recently my girlfriend found porn that has been in my junk drawer for years. We have been going out for 2 years and now she has decided she wants her own porn. Am I right in saying this is bad, as it means she will be fantasizing over other men and may go off me? She has had ... (72 words)

I don't want my son's father spending time at the Carribbean Fest!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - My Son's father goes to South Beach each October during Carribean Fest. He goes with a few of his friends (majority married men). I am totally agianst this. Married and committed men should not be hanging out in South Beach! Even if I have total trust in him, South Beach is ... (100 words)

Nobody's really good enough for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - OK, so you're so gonna hate me for saying this but I'm genuinely in distress. My problem is that I've never had a boyfriend, not because I'm ugly or weird, but quite the opposite. I've never met anyone who I feel is good enough for me. To say I'm stunning is an understatement, ... (153 words)

He has feelings for me, but I didn't realise I felt the same way. Do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have had intense romantic feelings for a very good friend of mine for a year and a half now. I just found out about a year ago he had feelings for me too, but didn't know I had feelings for him. Now, he has a girlfriend where I live, but has moved to another city. We talk on ... (81 words)

I'm not supposed to have a boyfriend, so I have one behind my dad's back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Well see my problem is complicated. I have this ex-boyfriend that i was seeing for about 2 months before he left for Louisiana, and me and him only saw each other 2 times before he left. Well me and him were on the phone and emailing each other. One day he thought it would be ... (310 words)

Many ups and many downs in our relationship. Now she tells me she doesn't want "the rollercoaster" any more... (long question)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - Dear Friend A long story Need some help with my sanity…….Is my relationship worth saving? 3 years ago I met the woman of my dreams. It was at a company event when my eyes met this woman and an almighty ‘click’ took place. We talked and instantly there was the most ... (1574 words)

I think he's interested in me, but I don't know how to get beyond our professional acquaintance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I recently joined my local gym, and have also taken up Personal Training sessions. My Personal Trainer and I have been talking a lot more during our sessions, and I have grown to really like him. At times he seems interested in me (eg asking me if I had a boyfr... (89 words)

Hate to break my partner's heart, but I regret getting back together again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - I split up with my partner of 4 years 6 months ago because he wanted an open relationship which I tried but couldn't deal with. I moved back to my own flat and continued to see him as a friend which was often strained because he wanted me back. He handled the split very bad... (207 words)

I insisted my girlfriend tell me about her fantasies, but I didn't like what I heard!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

4 October 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I were having a frank discussion the other night, and I asked her if there was anyone besides me that she fantasized about having sex with. She didn't want to tell me, but I forced the issue because I felt like she was hiding something. Finally she admitted to ... (151 words)

My best friend is monopolising my time. I just want to have my own life, too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have an excellent friendship with my best mate; however she has issues with being insecure and is very demanding of my time. She rings and texts me constantly when I'm at work and at home. I'm flattered that she wants my advice and wants to turn to me but it's starting... (156 words)

After my husband's affair, and dealing with my own problems, I'm fed up with my marriage and my kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I am married with three kids. I have been married for 15yrs now. I'm 32, yes just 32. I got my parents to give me permission to marry. We have had a hard life with finding ends meet but we have and still are putting up with it. The thing is 2 1/2 years ago my husband had an a... (151 words)

My boyfriend is taking out the mistrust from his past relationships on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I recently had an argument with my boyfriend because he thought that I was seeing someone else. The reason for this was because of 'so called' text message he found on my phone which to me was totally innocent. He got angry because the text was from a male friend. He has been ... (173 words)

I'm planning to meet my lover for sex, but I don't know why I'm doing it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I'm with a partner and I was always happy to stay at home and be housewife and mother. Then my life changed. I had a affair which only lasted a while until I finished it all. He was married. Now I don't feel the same anymore, as if i'm a different person. I've been on the net ... (153 words)

My man promised that he was going to leave his wife, but he went back to her! Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have just broken up with the love of my life, whom I have been with for 2 years. He is married but he promised he would leave, which he has done several times. He always goes back for the children. This time I confronted his wife and he now says he wants to give their ma... (93 words)

If we continue to have sex all the time, will it affect his attraction to me in years to come?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Hi I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and he loves me as well. My problem is that whenever I visit his place, we end up having sex. We just can't let go of each other. Won't this affect our love if we go on like this? Will he still be attracted to me, let's say, in tw... (75 words)

She broke it off with the other guy to be with me, but then he sweet-talked her back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - There's this girl that I met at work about a month ago. We started out as friends because she was "talking" to this other guy who is a loser...I'm not just saying that, he is anyways.... So we have been talking a lot and we have so much in common. The other night we kinda bo... (420 words)

Should I continue to ditch the "toxic" friend who hates my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have a bit of an issue. My boyfriend, N, and I have been together a little over a year and we are very happy. However, my (male) friend, R, does not seem to be happy with our relationship. R seemed supportive at first, but would do toxic things like attempt to kiss me and ... (273 words)

Since I discovered my girl once slept with someone I know, I can't get the image out of my head!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - I'm with a girl I really really love, really deeply. But in a conversation when we was talking about our past sex lives I found out she had slept with somebody I know. It has begun to really bug me, to the point sometimes I don't look at her the same way. Sometimes I just go ... (77 words)

We never have time to talk or see each other any more. Is it time to move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Hey there, me and my gf have been going out for about 2 years now, after we left school she has gone to 6th form and we never have time for each other and it's making me depressed. I really really miss her and she misses me but i dont know if i can handle not seeing her very ... (80 words)

Never watched porn, so the mechanics of actual sex are a mystery to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 October 2005 (M) - Hi. I have a problem, me and my girlfriend are both 18 and it's long-term (I'm a virgin, she's not). As I never really watched pornography or anything like that when I was younger, I'm really unaware of how to pleasure a woman. I've learnt to play with her clitorus but when ... (104 words)