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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My ex seems too busy to meet me, but not too busy to meet an online acquaintence...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - What would you make of my ex-boyfriend's behaviour? We split in March of this year, after a six-month relationship, as he had a lot of 'baggage'. Recently, we have discussed reconciliation, but not on a serious basis to begin with, as 'baggage' might resurface. He cancelle... (321 words)

I'm just totally not into anything sexual with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is turning 19. It's his birthday in one week and we've decided to take our relationship to the 3rd level. We've been going out for about 3 months and I love him so much I would risk my life for his without even a second thought. But my ... (89 words)

Is it normal for someone like me to be so obsessed with much older men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

18 October 2005 (F)

- Dear Cupid! I am a 16 year old girl and I'm having a massive dilemma: I seem to be attracted to men much older than me.... not just attracted actually, I'd say I am almost obsessed! I fantasise about my maths teacher, my english teacher, my guidance teacher and my fren... (136 words)

Is the boy I'm dating gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am unsure if the boy I'm dating is gay. When we first met. my friend said 'don't bother because he is gay'. When we first had sex he asked me if I'd ever had anal sex. Then when we finally got intimate he fingered me but was just staring at my bottom after telling ... (175 words)

Why is my 16-year-old son in such a hurry to get married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My 16-year-old son told me yesterday he wants to marry his girlfriend soon - who is also 16. He goes to college and is doing well at the moment, so no worries there. I asked him had he thought about his future and he said yes, he wants to go to university in Nottingham i... (116 words)

My boyfriend says he's not sexually attracted enough to have sex, but wants to marry me anyway...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My friend and I have been dating for 10 month we share many interests and have very similar backgrounds. But this is the issue he said he doesn't feel so much excited with me, and as a result he doesn't get hard enough. He's not sexually attracted to me but says he loves me a... (152 words)

My girlfriend seems to be pulling away, but she insists that we're fine...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - I feel that my girlfriend and I are drifting apart. We are in college and live in the same apartment complex. She has a lot going on right now and we dont seem to see each other very much, especially romantically. I feel that we are more like friends now than bf/gf because ... (364 words)

Our threesome with another woman was a mistake. I can't stop picturing them together...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I am having a hard time getting over the past. My husband and I had a threesome 2 mons before our wedding. I love him very much, but cannot get over the images of the two of them that evening (the other was a woman). It is hard for me to become sexual with him. What can I do to ... (91 words)

My relationship with my bf is great, except that he has almost no interest in sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I know this question was recently asked, but my boyfriend of almost 4 years has a very low sex drive and he is only 32. We have sex about an average of once a month. We have talked about this for a couple of years now, with no improvements. There is honestly not one other ... (98 words)

I can't stop flirting with guys. I just need male attention all the time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I constantly need attention from guys and it is starting to affect all aspects of my life. I have a wonderful boyfriend of 4 years who I love dearly who gives me all the attention in the world, but, yet, I still find the need for attention from males. At work I am constantly ... (124 words)

In love with my housemate. Should I wait for him to figure it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone. My problem is that I am in love with my housemate. A few nights ago I thought he knew how I felt because he apologised for upsetting me when he kissed another girl when we were out. Now he's going out with her, and I want to tell him how I feel. Should I wait to ... (84 words)

Are "escorts" just prostitutes by another name?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 687 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - My friend has hired an escort - and I tried to stop him but he did it anyway - are escorts really just prostitutes? He says he's lonely after losing his girlfriend but is it really just to have sex? Is that what escorts are for really?... (47 words)

Would it be wrong to meet up with an old high-school friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I am married. I love my husband very dearly. I came in contact with an old high school friend fact we were friends since diapers. We have been E- mailing each other since our 20th class reunion and we do some friendly-no-meaning flirting but I had some small feelings for my ... (106 words)

How long should I wait for his kids to meet my daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a widow with a third grade daughter. I have not dated in fifteen years, and feel lost with the dating scene. I have been dating a wonderful man for three months. It has taken some time for my daughter to warm up to him, (expected), as it is the first man sh... (303 words)

I've lost my sense of security since we discussed whether to break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 18 months. He's 28, I'm 26. We were friends for 5 years before we got together. We don't live together but we see each other 5 days out of 7. We have a very happy, loving relationship. 2 weeks ago, he told me that he think... (169 words)

I kissed my boy mate and now our friendship seems broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, I just wondered if I could be clarified on something. I am 15. My best friend (a boy) and I are really close and as I moved I invited him to stay over for a week a few months ago. One evening we just kissed each other outside (it was my first kiss) and I then h... (116 words)

My boyfriend and I get along really well. So why do I get sick when I go to kiss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hello, well I am 19 and I have been with my bf for about 13 months now and we get along really well, have a lot on common and I am attracted to him. Up till recently when we were in bed and he started to make me sick and I could not kiss him. I love him a lot and don't know ... (66 words)

We're in love, but I don't dare tell my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm currently seeing a guy. He's kind, gentle, sweet, funny, caring - EVERYTHING I've always wanted. He handles situations with ease and calm, and he's just --- OOH! Perfect! I really, truly love him. And he loves me, too! ^_^ I know this sounds kinda stupid since I... (254 words)

My lover's wife is abusive and hateful, but he can't leave her because of the kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I've recently started seeing a guy I met at work, we get on so well and just seemed to click the first time we met. The trouble is, he's not single. He desperately wants to leave his partner but he can't leave because of the children. He is their primary carer and is the most ... (230 words)

We're trying to work through his cheating and my needing time on my own, but there's so much pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I just don't know what to do. I've been married to my second husband 13 years. We met when I was married to my first husband at the time. Things happened very fast and we married and had a child all within a year. I never showed him much affection over the years and the rela... (123 words)

Can I recover from the shock and loss of trust after my husband visited a prostitute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My husband (together for a total of 10 years) has just told me he slept with a prostitute and thought he had caught something but had not. We have two young children. He promises it was just the once and would never do it again. We were having sex about once a week and ... (80 words)

I'm stunned and hurt because my fiance's dad won't come to our engagement party...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 934 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I have just got engaged and am having a party in a month. My fiance's dad and his dad's side won't come to the party as he is divorced from his mam. They have always had an OK relationship; they didn't hate each other after divorce. I am devastated by this. We are supposed... (134 words)

Need some hints on getting the attention of a woman I'm interested in...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid: I am a 25 yrs old guy and never had a girlfriend in my life. There is this girl that I like but I do talk to her while she's working. She looks like the outgoing type. When I show up at her jobsite (the arcades), to play a couple of games, I get vibes that she... (83 words)

I want to stay with my boyfriend, but I'm getting tired of being the one who travels to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend over summer. Later I found out he was moving away to a different city 4 hrs. away for school. It's not bad, that I have to take the train every now and then to see him. But, having a long-distance relationship is new to me. And the fact that I can't have him ... (184 words)

Nothing about us is similar. Can we keep together as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 937 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi there. My question is this- Is it possible to still love someone but know that you probably aren't a great couple? My story is this- I have been dating a guy for 2 and 1/2 years- we live together. He is sweet, but we have nothing in common- as in I'm a democrat he's a r... (175 words)

Can you have a trouble-free relationship all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiance thinks that it is possible to have a relationship without any snags? What do you think about that? Thanks, Secret Sara... (33 words)

After one big fight with my girlfriend, there's just no spark at all any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - Please help...someone. Things were going excellent in my relationship with my gf. We were both in love with each other, I'm sure of it although we never professed our love officially to each other. We were extremely close to do so though. One day we got into a big argument a... (128 words)

My friend gave me a valuable gift, and I need to know if there are strings attached...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

18 October 2005 (F)

- If a guy that you are just friends with starts giving you expensive gifts for no reason at all, does it mean that he wants to be more than friends with you? I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with gave me a computer and desk. It wasn't my birthday or any importan... (105 words)

My baby's father is engaged to someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I am pregnant by a man I love, but he is engaged to another woman. I didn't know that he was at the time that we made love, we used protection, but it failed. Now I don't know what to do. He says he'll support me financially if I decide to have the baby, but is it fair of me ... (93 words)

Does going out with someone else when we were separated make me a slapper?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi All, I was recently in a relationship with a guy I work with, i felt the relationship was dying and the only thing left was to end it which i did but the guy said he was sorry about all the problems and would really like us to get back together. i was quite adamant th... (153 words)

He calls and wants to see me, but he doesn't seem to want to be my boyfriend,,,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, what can you do when it's obvious a guy finds you attractive and comes to see you and calls you but says nothing committal about being your boyfriend? My brother says just to always refuse him sex and that will make him have to say something definite and my girlf... (140 words)