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writes: Help me. I have been with my bf for 1 month now and I feel like he is suffocating me. Everything was going really well until last weekend. He said he loved me. Ahhhh... I feel he has changed and he is no longer jokey with me and he is all touchy-feely and obsessive.I want out but I don't want to hurt him badly. I want him to get over me and I want to remain friends. Is this the right thing to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): I think you shouldn't be with him because if you say that you only want to be friends with him, he might go berserk and hurt you. I understand that you want to be friends with him, but he might be insecure and needs someone like you to give him the love he needs. You need to firmly say to him that you don't want to be in a relationship right now. Tell him "no" means NO!!!!!!
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (17 October 2005):
Dump him. He's being 'touchy and feely' as you put it. You better dump him before he does something that could change you and his life.
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reader, Ellis Mac +, writes (11 October 2005):
Tell it to him like you've told it to me. You must be true to yourself. 1 month is not such a long time in the scheme of things, and we humans are very adaptable.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (6 October 2005):
 Just tell him you're not looking for a boyfriend, you're looking for a fling. Tell him you dont want love and commitment, you want fun with no strings attached. He'll pretty much understand what you're trying to say by then!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 October 2005):
 1 month? Dump him and move on to next guy who can be "jokey" with you, whatever that means.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (5 October 2005):
 Simple: Yes. Good luck.
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