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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband wants to come back... but I've met someone else. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - My husband fell in love with someone 700 miles away and carried on his relationship with her for 5 years. I only knew about it the last 2 years. He left me and my 2 kids a year ago. In March of this year they broke up. He now tells me he wants to give us a try, he misses m... (108 words)

How can I control the thoughts about my husband's friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - I have a problem in that I have become extremely attracted to my hubby's friend and cannot stop thinking about him (I know its stupid). This has never happened before and every time I try and forget about him little things remind me of him (I do deep down love my husband its ... (190 words)

I'm 16, male, and can't get another fella out of my mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I recently did a work placement nearby and whilst there I saw this one guy and now I cant get him out of my head. I'm always thinking about him. I am only just turning 16, male and am confused. I want to know what it is so I can get on with life whatever the outcome. Is it ... (61 words)

Agony Aunts and Uncles: how do you decide to answer questions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am studying A-Level English Language and am currently completing an investigation looking at the language used by agony aunts and uncles and how they differ. I have generally noticed that, when writing to men, more humour is used, whereas women tend to gain res... (137 words)

Is he flirting with me, or just making conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - An older guy that I me through work has made statements like " we can have any relationship we want " and " I'm 44...you're 34 .....we are on the same wavelength ..". Is he purely interested , or only flirting? Don't want to read the signals wrong!... (51 words)

My ex isn't interested in having another go with our relationship, but he still wants the sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - We still have sex! Me and my ex partner split up about 3 weeks ago now, and he said that he wanted us to remain friends as we have to children together. We sleep in seperate rooms but we have started having sex again recently. Just as I thought things were going really wel... (94 words)

I've found evidence that my girlfriend is playing up with someone else, but how do I bring it up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I have recently receieved information from a mutual friend of my girlfriend of 4 years and I. He told me that a friend of his was bragging about hooking up with my girlfriend and how he was going to visit her at her college and have sex with her. He also told me the his friend ... (218 words)

Is there anything wrong with thinking about someone other than my partner when I'm pleasing myself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

3 October 2005 (?) - I need to know if it is normal for me to have sexual fantasies about men other than my fiance. When I am alone, and *ahem* pleasing myself, I sometimes think of someone other than my fiance. It's not someone I know well or see all the time. I don't think about acting out the ... (109 words)

My boyfriend remembers his first kiss with his ex... but not our first kiss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of two years still talks about his ex-wife and the woman he had a year long "rebound" relationship with after his divorce. He told me all about how horrible the break ups were and when talking about the ex girlfriend breaking up with him, he was getting teary ... (172 words)

When I masturbate, I have no problems, but when it comes to sex, I can't get hard...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - Hi. I am a gay man recently out and every time I meet a guy and engage in sex I can't get hard. I have no problem masturbating on my own, in fact I love it. Can you help me please?... (41 words)

Rejected one time and I don't feel like I can ask my partner for sex ever again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - I have a problem. I can never bring myself to ask my partner for sex. He has mentioned this to me as well. I did once a few years ago and he rejected me. It was really hard to ask but after that incident I feel I could never ask again. What's wrong with me? Am I frigid in some ... (62 words)

We've both been cheating on our partners, and last weekend, we almost got caught!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - Hi all. I am in a seriously confusing situation, and I need all the help I can get. I have been in a relationship with Bill* for almost 3 years, and its always been unstable, we fight almost every day, and never agree on anything. We've broken up about a thousand times before ... (675 words)

I pick fights with my partner because he has a social life and I'm left alone with our daughter...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - What do I do? I don't know anymore. Me and my partner have one child; she's one year old and I find that I'm constantly left on my own. He has his activities with friends 4 or more nights a week where he stays out late playing cards and then when he is at home he is either ... (141 words)

He told me straight out that he doesn't love me, and yet I still want to stay with him forever...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - Been with my partner for 2 years now, love every minute (apart from when i get extrodinarily jealous because he's a very attractive gentleman and the ladies are very easily charmed by him - classic adventurer, full of stories, extremely intelligent with the looks to match) H... (420 words)

I gave my alcohol-dependant girlfriend every chance to be with me, but she still chose to leave...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I am a 45 year old male. I entered into a relationship with a woman who is 39. She met me at a gathering this past summer for my sister's college graduation and came up to me and told me that she wanted me. Since then, we have tried to maintain a relationship. I found ou... (554 words)

Did I go too far in agreeing to a threesome? What if my husband cheats?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - I have been in relationship for 6 years now, have 2 children together. I made a mistake and agreed to have a threesome with a stranger (woman) but he never had intercourse with her. That was over 3 months ago. We thought it would spice up our relationship but my husband ... (114 words)

Why can't I move our friendship to a more intimate level? Am I just impatient?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I have been visiting a girl for a couple of weeks now. We aren't an item yet, but I am relatively certain that she does like me. Something is holding her back, though. She works two jobs, so we have very little time to see each other, and any dates I make gets cancelle... (128 words)

Everyone at uni assumes that there's something going on between my tutor and me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm having problems with one of my teachers. I am at university and have one tutor in particular who takes me for most of my classes. She has been very helpful to me this year, doing things like taking me home when i'm unwell and taking me to appointments too. We ... (201 words)

I keep losing my erection halfway through sex!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I'm 19 years old. I can get an erection on my own perfectly, and with girls sometimes too through oral sex, or just teasing. But sometimes when I'm having sex I lose my erection half way through it. It happens a lot of times and it's really aggravating. It's been happenin... (68 words)

Do I stay in my bad relationship, or make a break and hope the love is as strong as I think it is with my online woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I have been in a bad relationship for 14 years and about 4 months ago I fell in love with a girl online that lives in another country. About 3 weeks ago the online girl was diagnosed with ovarian cancer...I had been contemplating staying in my bad relationship and stopping ... (252 words)