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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is used to being the best, and now he's competing with ME!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend about 8 1/2 months, and he's always upset. We're in grad school together, and he won't stop making things competitive between us. He's really smart, but I do better than he does, both in terms of grades, and in terms of job opportunities for ... (430 words)

My boyfriend enjoys himself during sex, but lately I'm not climaxing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 931 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I'm 28 and am having real problems orgasming with my fiance. He is my first and is a sensitive and kind lover, if not the most experimental. I have a weak lower back and I don't think this helps. But even before this, orgasms were about 1 in every 3 times we had sex. Lately, ... (88 words)

Anyone have experience with getting counselling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

22 October 2005 (F)

- I'd like to get some counselling or therapy to solve some problems I have about my past that are not going away. I've been thinking about this for some time but thought the problems would go away on their own. However, they haven't and I want to try something other than ... (93 words)

My 48-year-old woman says she'll wait until I turn 16. That's next week!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - Hi...I'm a 15 year old boy who has really strong feelings for a 48 year old woman, and I know that she feels the same, as we text and talk to each other every night. She's told me she loves me and I know that I love her. She's told me that if we want to get together, she's ... (124 words)

How do we discuss things without fighting..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - What is the best thing to do or say after a quarrel in a marriage and how best can arguments be presented without having to fight? My husband has difficulties saying I love you or I am sorry. Does it mean he doesnt love me? How best can I get my husband to do romantic things,... (75 words)

We don't have sex as often as I'd like. Is it because my boyfriend is tired?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, who I really like. We have had sex a number of times, but not as often as I'd like. I don't want to pressure him, but I think I may have scared him, as when he enters me it really hurts. Could this be the reason? I've also noticed ... (69 words)

What can I do to make our time together really special and show him I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm at uni and my boyfriend is back at home. Although we do see each other on a regular basis (weekends etc) I really want to make the time we have together special. I wanted to have a romantic night in, but would he think I'm getting too serious? I think that I love him... (103 words)

What can I do to become more confident when I'm with women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 932 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid I have problems about dealing with women. First, I've never been with a girl before in my life. Second, when it comes with a woman, I'm extremely shy and cannot overcome it. And third, the word I fear the most is REJECTION. How can I have the confiden... (70 words)

I'm disgusted and hurt that my husband visited a prostitute, then lied about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I found out five weeks ago that my husband visited a prostitute in February. He claimed he couldn't do anything as he wasn't aroused. It now transpires that indeed he was able to climax, as she perfomed a hand job on him !! I feel so disgusted, I could vomit at the thought ... (129 words)

Sex should be a pleasure, but my wife has serious hang-ups...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - My wife and I are 45 and 44. 2nd marriage for both. My wife (whom I love dearly) is EXTREMELY naive about sex in general. She won't go down on me and doesn't like me to go down on her (which I truly enjoy). "It's nasty". I tried to get her to tweak her own nipples during sex, ... (175 words)

My husband is away often, and when he's here, he just doesn't listen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 932 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Please help. I am a newly wed (7 months)and am so unhappy. I love my husband but seem like he does not hear me when I tell him the emotional void I feel. He travels a lot and when he is here...well, he's not. I end up nagging - and he ends up treating me like he treats his ... (116 words)

I'm so jealous of his ex-girlfriend that I just feel like a bore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - My problem is kinda complicated but to make a long story short, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months and I have a major jealously problem. I've seen him with his ex before and they seemed so happy together and had so much in common. (One day he even told ... (199 words)

Should I have sex with my boyfriend. If so, where?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I need to know if I should have sex with my boyfriend. I'm 16; he is 18. If I should or decide to, where should we do it at? What do I do physically with him?... (36 words)