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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Eighteen months until my girlfriend gets back. She says not to wait...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - My girlfriend's just left to travel round the world for 18 months on her own, as part of a overlanding tour group. It's been a dream of hers for ages and she'd sort of planned to go before we got together properly. I know she loves me but she said it's not practical to try and ... (209 words)

My fiance's ex says she's pregnant. Is this just a stunt to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for ten years and have dated for about a month and a half now. We plan on marrying in a year. We have a very open and honest relationship and recently he told me that his ex fiancee informed him that she is pregnant with his child. They ... (128 words)

My co-worker is in a relationship, but it still feels like there's an attraction between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - I am a single guy between relationships (understatement!) and have become very attracted (also an understatement!) to a woman at work. The problem is that she is in a long term relationship, and yet, even allowing for the typical male tendency to misinterprete female ... (180 words)

Is a year long enough to wait before becoming intimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Do you think a year if a long enough time to wait before becoming physically intimate with your boyfriend? It doesn't necessarily have to be sex, but just intimate touching? Thanks... (31 words)

My partner is cagey about why he needed condoms when he went away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend recently went away for almost a month and he claims that he has not cheated. He gives me conflicting responses to the number of condoms he has, the amount we use and the reason he had them while away. I have been giving him oral sex for the past two years. Since he ... (189 words)

I married my friend, even though there wasn't any passion. 25 years later, I feel empty inside...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Can anyone give me a perspective on my relationship? I was married at 19 after 2yrs engagement to a man the same age. He kept talking about what it would be like to have sex with someone else, and that he might be gay. He invited a friend round, quite innocently at first, then ... (546 words)

Why won't my bf let me give him oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Im sixteen and have been in a steady relationship for a month.I want to give my boyfriend oral sex but he doesn't want me to. What's wrong with me?... (29 words)

For 8 years I've kept breaking up and getting back with a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I'll describe a very sordid process at the risk of getting a humungous barrage of insults for being an idiot cus that's how I feel...... At 23yrs I was married to a chap who well kept me til he got a stay in the country. He then got violent I divorced him, however had a mental... (171 words)

My girlfriend is 28 years older than me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - I am 16 and dating a 44-year-old woman. My dad said "If it makes you happy son, go for it" but my mum is furious and only a few close friends are happy for me. What problems could our relationship face? Jason (16) from Manchester, UK... (53 words)

I get overprotective and want to contact him, then he pulls away. How do we save this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy on Myspace whom I like a lot. At first we hit it off real good. Flirting and all that good stuff until he showed me a bad picture of him. I got turned off which I must say I should NOT have done. Truth is I never stopped liking him from the start. I told him... (210 words)

The responsibilities of caring for our kids are exhausting me, and my husband NEVER helps out...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I am bringing this question to you while I am at my lowest of lows. I have just recently had a newborn, before that my husband and I just decided to home school my 7 year old son. I am a stay at home, sleep deprived mom who homeschools and takes care of a newborn. My son need... (386 words)

Mom would freak out if she knew my online guy is 11 years older!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago, and we've dated over the internet and over phone conversations for about 6 months. We started out really slow and now I love him more than anyone I've ever dated. Well, I'm only 15 and he's 26 and we live in the U.S. So, its illegal if ... (142 words)

My boss is twice my age, but I think I'm in love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and I work in retail. The job I've been in for over a year now, and the problem is I love my boss. However, he's 40 years old - twice my age - and has little idea about how I feel. I really don't know what to do! I don't know whether I should tell him or w... (188 words)

Afraid to tell him how I really feel, in case I end up getting hurt again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

29 October 2005 (?) - Me and my best friend started dating. Me and him have been friends all of our lives. But the problem is I just got out of a five year relationship and I am afraid to tell him how much he means to me and how much I care about him, because I am affraid that I will get hurt ... (89 words)

The way my bf treats me and the way he says hurtful things are leaving me drained!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I am stuck right now in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over two years and sometimes he says things that hurt me, and he acts like he doesn't care, sometimes in front of his friends. I am emotionally drained. I have no self esteem l... (81 words)