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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Did we meet just to make him feel better about our break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - Dating 8 months. Great guy, but I am the poster child for what NOT to do. Too much baggage, too needy, not happy. He broke up with me because he isn't in love with me. He says he misses me and his brain says to stay with me, but his gut says I'm not the one. Saw him toda... (278 words)

I wonder if I'm ever going to meet the right guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - Am I never going to find the right guy? I'm 21 years old and I always seem to go for guys who are very unattainable (the ones I can't have or who break my heart). I dont know what to do, feel as though I'm never gonna find someone to love. Please help me.... (57 words)

He cheated and the other woman might be pregnant. Do I cut my losses and move on, or forgive him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 821 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has just admitted to cheating on me and possibly getting someone else pregnant. I am devestated yet still in love with him. Should I forgive him and try to work on our relationship or just move on with my life?... (45 words)

My "workaholic" boyfriend has time for his mates, but not for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - My bf and i got back together on Fri after a two month on-off-on-off period. I told him to think about it for a week, to make sure it's what he wants. I know he loves me but he's crazy busy working and studying and has hardly any time for me. This upsets me and he says he ... (147 words)

I'm 17 and in love with my married, 50-year-old, female boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

25 October 2005 (F)

- Hey dudes, okay, here goes... I'm a 17 year old female and have a part-time job in a restaurant. I am very close with both my bosses who are married, but I am the closest with my female boss *Amanda. For the past year and a half I have had sexual and emtional feeling... (159 words)

Is the second time the charm for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Went out with this girl briefly about a year ago but she split up with me. I've fallen in love with her, but do you think we could go out again despite not working the first time?... (37 words)

Is my boyfriend secretly hooking up with his exes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I am stuck in a rut!! My boyfriend is really getting to me. I got a call two weeks ago from his ex to say she was out for dinner with him and talking about getting back together. On the night in question he did not answer his calls for 3 hours, he said he was in a meeting. T... (165 words)

Did my old high school friend just date me to show off my great boobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I think I know the reason why my high school friend went out with me. I have lost a lot of weight and my friends don't know that I had gained weight in the past. Now I am in very good shape but well let's just say I can easily get a job at Hooters. Well I think some of the p... (253 words)

She accepts my invitations, but we never meet up and never rings back. Do I misunderstand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I recently became interest in a woman. We were co-workers with a company. Last year, I transferred to a different division. After my transfer, the two of us began serving together on a advisory board. I began to develop feelings for her. It grew more intense over time. Back in ... (273 words)

It's time to break up, but I want to do it gently...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months but things haven't been going well lately. I want to split up with my girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her. How can I let her down easily?... (38 words)

Normally she's hyper, so why is my girlfriend so secretive all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I need HELP! My girlfriend is the love of my life. But she has no intentions of telling me what her feelings and thoughts are, she obviously distracted by something or someone. She gets very distant and quiet all of a sudden.(Shes nornally hyper as hell!) But when I ask what... (78 words)

I want to trust my bf, but he chats to other female friends and overtly ogles other women...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I'm 16 nearly 17, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He's 20, and it's been brilliant. We have a good sex life and everything is going great. But since he's lost his internet he will come round mine with me and he checks his emails but then starts chatting on chatrooms ... (271 words)

My ex has moved on, but I can't seem to...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hello, basically I'm a 22 year old man. I was seeing this girl for about 3 1/2 months ago. It was only a short relationship. It lasted around 2 months. It ended because I went on holiday. We never actualy slept together. The problem is I can't forget about her. I contact her a ... (86 words)

Everything I say to my fiancee seems to come across wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid Ihave a problem with expressing myself to my fiancee and this has resulted her almost having an affair. This really hurts because I really love her but whatever I do or say seems to come across in the wrong way. Please can you help regards boy_in_window... (57 words)

My friend is an adult, but I think her sleeping with her half-brother is self-destructive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hi. I recently found out a very close friend of mine has been sleeping with her half brother. She is 18 and he is 31. They did not grow up together and only met two years ago. I am the only one that knows after she told me drunk one night – since then she will not talk about ... (324 words)

Does anyone have answers to my questions about my penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hi I wanna ask 3 questions about Sex. I hope I'll get best replies and answers of them. 1.My first question is about my penis size. Well I'm 22 and I dont know, my penis dont grow. It's the same as like when I was 14 years old. As flaccid it's less than an inch and after e... (219 words)

Been dating an old friend and I can't work out why he's hot, then cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 930 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I known this guy for about seven years. We went all through high school together. For the last couple of weeks we have been hooking up most weekends. The whole time I have found him to be really hot then really cold. Maybe I'm acting too full on? I really like him and think we ... (60 words)

I was drunk, I kissed another guy and I'm so ashamed. I really love my boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I really need your help. I have been dating this boy for the past two months. He is the best person I have ever met. I love him so much and feel totally ashamed at what happened over the weekend in what was a drunken moment at at a party. I got drunk and kissed another b... (456 words)

What should I do if my guy wants to have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I'm still a virgin, but the guy I'm currently in a relationship with isn't. I questioned him about his sexuality and he admitted to me that he had sex once or twice a month when he was in a long relationship, our relationship has just begun and I'm wondering what I should do if ... (111 words)

He cheated, repeatedly and with multiple partners, but now he wants to come back...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - My fiance just told me he's been cheating for the past year - off and on, no one in particular. His job takes him away for the majority of the year and definately puts him in the position to cheat, musician. I've kicked him out and told him it's over. Now he continually says ... (117 words)

My girlfriend would rather break up than work on our communication!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Problem started when we really just stop communicating with each other. We were talking, but not really communicating. I was pretty fed up with that so I confronted her and gave her two options: - 1. We work hard to try to revive our relationship 2. Go our separate ways ... (255 words)

How can I help my fiance overcome the fear that he's being an ungrateful son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

25 October 2005 (F)

- I have a fiance. We've been together a little over a year now. We were living together, but we had some pretty severe money problemsand my fiance left after a few weeks. We have begun talking again through emails and the phone during work. Since we've lived apart he had disc... (376 words)

Should I quit my online flirting, even though neither of us takes it seriously?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I want to know what others ppl's opinions are on flirting. I am a bit of a flirt and enjoy it, I have always been this way and always thought it was harmless unless you acted upon it. I play an online game with a male friend that my partner doesnt really like, he reckons t... (423 words)

I can't believe I'd have to wait 2 more years to legally date the guy I'm interested in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I am 16 and have liked older guys since I was 13. I figured that it was just a phase and that eventually I would get over it, but I haven't even been interested in a guy my age in so long that I'm beginning to think that it's not just a phase. I currently like a guy that is ... (129 words)

I love my girlfriend like nothing else, but she still thinks she wants to finish it!

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

25 October 2005 (M)

- How to show my girlfriend I love her? I am a 14 year old boy. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly two months now, and I've never been happier, but the last week we've had a series of huge arguments about us, and she's recently been upset with me. I've told... (206 words)