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writes: I have had intense romantic feelings for a very good friend of mine for a year and a half now. I just found out about a year ago he had feelings for me too, but didn't know I had feelings for him. Now, he has a girlfriend where I live, but has moved to another city. We talk on the phone long distance all the time, and he's coming to visit in a week. Should I reveal my feelings to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): No, you don't tell him because he's not available anymore. Show some respect to him and his girlfriend's relationship.
What purpose would telling him now be of benefit to him? Think about this and really ask why you would even consider doing such a selfish thing. Keep it to yourself.
If in the future-he becomes available then you can tell him but NOT now...do the right thing. Take care
Hugs,
Irish
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