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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

It seems like he's interested... but he also has a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - Hi A while ago I noticed that a guy at work seemed to be flirting with me a lot. I have lost weight recently and I am starting to feel much better about my appearance but my confidence is still very low. I started to talk to him more and we have a lot of common interest... (273 words)

My wife recognises that her sex drive is very low, but she thinks of sex as being "of no value"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - Hi I have been married for seven years and have two children. My wife recently told me that she has always had very little sex drive which she has tried her best to hide but now the problem is getting worse and fears that very soon we might not have any sex at all. When we t... (101 words)

I discovered my boyfriend's porn and he didn't do much to reassure me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I recently found porn magazines in my boyfriends room and I am now really insecure. I feel as if I am not good enough for him and I have spoke to him about it but he doesn't seem particularlly bothered. All he has said is that I am as good as the women in the magazines (not ... (80 words)

What do I do on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 949 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - When I go on dates with boys it's like I get really shy and I don't know what to do. Like I don't know what they expect from me. Can someone please give me some advice in which a 16 year old should do when she goes on a date to the movies?... (53 words)

I've been reduced to sneaking around to find out if my partner is cheating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I suspected my partner was cheating on me earlier in the year. What happened recently though was the person I thought he was cheating with told me he had been cheating - but with someone else. Anyway, he has (predictably) denied this. He knows damn well I will walk if I get co... (214 words)

When we met, we told each other all about our pasts. It turns out he didn't tell me even half of his!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I have a problem. I can't deal with my boyfriend's past. Well, we've been together for 3 years and it's been a happy 3 years. I was a virgin when I met him. He wasn't which wasn't an issue in the beginning. Before we had sex we agreed that we would tell eac... (715 words)

I'm late... but I can't be pregnant? Can I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 661 days ago

5 October 2005 (F)

- Please help! My period is over a week late and I'm starting to think I maybe pregnant. This is very unlike me, I am usually quite regular and, if anything, I come on early. I thought I would come on as normal last week, as I was moody, bloated and had sore boobs. However, these ... (142 words)

We're no longer doctor and patient... so would it be OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I would like advice about a tricky situation ! I am a professional writer and actor in my early thirties , and started to see a doctor specialist of the same age after having glandular fever. From the beginning we found it easy to talk , and I was supposed to see him ... (142 words)

I seem to fancy just about every guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I am feeling so lonely! I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and it is beginning to drive me mad! What's worse is that I can't help but fancy almost every guy I meet. It is awful, as it is always in small phases but it is so distracting) Also at the moment I (seriousl... (136 words)

Girls approach me like a father-figure, not like a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - Hi I am young and handsome and well-educated but I can only talk and be friends with girls! I think they want me only for thier emotional offers. We get friendly and we become really intimate. They consult with me like a father(!) but as for sex there is nothing there?!!... (83 words)

I was a bit nervous when we met, and told him a stupid fib!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - This sounds a bit pathetic - but I just need a little advice. I am gay and met this boy a month ago and we have really hit it off. I am quite shy and nervous and on our first date I stupidly I told him I was from Manchester when in fact I am from North Wales. I don’t know why... (167 words)

Is my girlfriend just on the rebound from her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - I have been seeing my gf for 4 mths. I didn't know for a few weeks at the start she was with her ex for 14 years and had been single for 3 months before we met. He cheated on her and I'm worried I'm just a rebound relationship even though she was the 1st one to tell me she ... (276 words)

My boyfriend's joining the Army. Should I accept his proposal of marriage?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 6 months. In January (3 months time) he's planning to join the army and will be away for months at a time. Recently he asked me to marry him, and I'm not sure if it's what I want to do. My friends think it's a great idea as ... (209 words)

Am I too dependant on the man I love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend David for 5 1/2 years. We are high school sweethearts and soul mates. I feel like this is rather pathetic that I am bothering someone else with my problems but I need help. Like I said, David and I love each other. We started dating in high ... (532 words)

What is it that my girlfriend wants? If it's me, why does she have these hot and cold cycles?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid: After spending the past 18 months of my life recovering from to deceit filled relationships. I have found someone who I love. However, I am wondering if her feelings for me have changed from when we first met. We had known each other for about a year when... (259 words)