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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How can we communicate and learn to understand each other without arguing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My bf and I are not communicating, we are arguing. I will try to say, how I feel, he becomes defensive and thinks I am blaming him for how I feel. He suggests something and all I hear is rejection. We both know men and women are different and literally talk different languages, ... (83 words)

Sex seven times in a day amounted to "rejection", to hear my boyfriend tell it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My bf and I are having a hard time lately. Yesterday when I asked for a cuddle instead of sex, he commented that 'he should be used to being rejected by me sexually' . I dont understand, We had already had sex 7 times!! that day. What is going wrong with us, we are not ... (67 words)

My daughter's fiance wasn't what he seemed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Hi My daughter was dumped 6 weeks ago by her fiance of almost 4 years. He initilly left for a couple of weeks for some space. He was really cruel, built her hopes of reconciliation only to blame her Dad when he wanted a reason. She eventually learnt that he was the subject ... (123 words)

Told her how I really felt via text, but she ignored it and carried on as normal...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - Recently I have been attracted to this girl. At first I thought she felt the same. However on one drunken night I let her know how I felt (via text). She replied but her reaction was to pretty much ignore it. Despite this she treats me the same as she did beforehand. Therefore ... (70 words)

My wife said she'd been with 15 guys before me, but it turns out to have been 50!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - Before I got married I asked my wife about her sexual past and I shared mine with her. She told me she was with 15 guys or so. That was twice as many partners as I had and I thought as long as she was honest upfront that would be fine. I asked her again if that was it and ... (242 words)

My ex is pregnant, won't leave her boyfriend, but still has sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - I was with my ex girlfriend for 1 year. She's 26, I'm 40. She was in love me but never told me. I pushed her away, told her to find someone her own age. She met someone else, moved in with him and got pregant 3 months later. They have only been together for 5 months. The gu... (156 words)

If I put on any more weight, my fiance is going to leave me and our son!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My fiance and I have a boy together. We were OK, but just recently I have put on weight. He said if I put on any more weight he will leave. He is already planning to get a house of his own. What am I to think?... (47 words)

I used to like one girl, but met another at a party and everything changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused and need help please! I really liked this girl and I had strong feelings for her. I really loved talking to her when I had the chance. Then last week I went to a party and saw another girl I knew for ages; since primary school, but hardly ever ... (122 words)

He's acting like we're over, but I can't get a straight answer out of him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Hi there. I am in a weird situation. My b/f of about 2 years just stopped speaking to me and all of his friends. Nobody can get through on his cell phone, because he keeps ignoring the calls. I sent him a text message asking to meet, and he said okay, but never showed u... (268 words)

I want to give up smoking drugs, but when I try to discuss that with my bf, it turns into a fight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Ok... I need some serious help and this isn't about love or sex. I have been in a long term relationship with the man that I know I will marry. Unfortunatly we both were big in smoking, and i don't mean cigerattes. Now I want to stop because I got a possession charge and have... (198 words)

My bf turns everything around to being my fault! I'm unhappy, but he's great with my kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing a guy that I met off of the internet about 4 weeks ago. As soon as I met him I took off any dating profiles that I had online because I knew I wasn't looking to meet anybody else. In the first two weeks we was together it all started by him going through ... (587 words)

My partner doesn't offer me any security in the relationship, and treats me like a piece of furniture...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Do I stay or do I go? I have been with my partner for almost 5 years, he is divorced with a daughter, I have not been married and have no children. The house belongs to my partner, he pays the mortgage but I paid half the purchase costs (and half the cost to sell his o... (550 words)

I don't understand why my ex is so nervous and weird around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My ex and I were each other's first serious relationship. We broke up 9 months ago, he dumped me. After about 7 months of no contact, we are in a situation where we see each other everyday. His behavior is weird and he gets very nervous when he sees me. A mutual friend of... (290 words)

Our time off work never overlaps and my boyfriend and I barely see each other...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I just started new jobs. His work hours are from 2:15 - 11:00PM at night and I work 10 hour shifts at a busy office. I find time during my breaks to call him... and now I feel like I am very needy girlfriend. Recently, I'm noticing his not all too keen when we ... (129 words)

He's always had a temper and now he yells every day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend seems to have lost interest in me. He doesn't seem to be intrested in my sexually at all. If I want to do something with him I have to practically beg him. Other than that we don't do anything. He has always had a temper, but lately it seems like it is getting ... (138 words)

In love with my cousin... and my uncle and aunt hate me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my cousin and I don't know what to do. My cousin already knows and my family and I are gonna move in the same neighborhood next year and his parents hate me, which is my uncle and aunt. Is it forbidden to love your cousin as a regular guy like a boyfriend? And ... (69 words)

My partner's pregnant 'fling' is threatening to keep the baby from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with this girl as soon as he met her in March. She got pregnant that same month. They both said it was protected and the condom broke. They claimed it was an accident, but now that she found out he was in a serious relationship she has been giving us ... (159 words)

My instructor is always staring at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Hallo, I need help because I don't know how to interpret my teacher's behavior! During class, he's constantly staring at me, even if I hide behind my neighbor, he finds a way to look at me. I already asked him several times, if it was me who should answer his question... (198 words)