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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Want my partner to come back to me, but hate having to take him away from a place he loves!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 931 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - Here goes, Hello. I'm in a gay relationship and I see myself spending the rest of my life with my male partner. He went overseas only for ONE YEAR to work, and get experience, has a pretty "high position" and i stayed running my own succesful business, so both of us are pretty ... (413 words)

I don't want to rush things, so how can I learn to relax and let our relationship go at its own pace?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 937 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl and in a relationship for 13 months now with a guy of 22. We had an initial rocky 6 months but since then it's been going really well as we seem to be able to avoid fights as we know each other better. We are much happier these days. My probl... (246 words)

It can't ever work out, but I'm in love with a married, older woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I'm 17 and I have fallen in love with a 22 year old married woman with a 2 year old kid I used to work with. She has also fallen in love with me. We have seen each other quite a lot since I left my previous job. My heart constantly aches and so does hers, we don't know what ... (112 words)

Should I forgive my fiance when he continues to lie to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my fiance for over five years. I found out that he had a one night stand and have forgiven him for it. However I don't trust him. He lies to me all the time. Mainly about stupid things, but it feels like I'm being an idiot forgiving someone who cheated on me ... (73 words)

I'm having trouble dealing with the death of my uncle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi there, I'm 14 and in August my uncle passed away. :-( He was only 43 which made matters worse. I can't seem to move on. I go out with my friends shopping etc every now and again, and they always make me feel a bit happier but when I'm alone I can't stop thinking abo... (98 words)

He lies to me and I feel like crying when we're together. I just want to break up with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

17 October 2005 (?)

- Hey everyone, OK so I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and he's lied to me a lot, although the other day he crossed the line. I'd found out he'd been sending pictures of his genitals to other people via texts. When I asked him about it he denied it, but after a bit... (130 words)

It's always me that does the asking. Does that mean he doesn't like hanging out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - How can you tell if someone who’s shy and slightly introverted really likes you or not? If I’m the one always asking him to hang out and he says yes, but has only asked me to hang out once or twice, is that tell tail sign that he doesn’t? We’ve had the best sex multiple ... (99 words)

Dead keen to dead stop. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy about four days ago, and he asked for my number. We met up for a drink the day after, and that night he seemed dead keen on me, but now it is like he doesn't want to see me and I really like him. I am soo confused. Please can you help me.... (57 words)

Obsessed with my girlfriend's sexual history. Should I look at the hidden computer files?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

17 October 2005 (M)

- I have had problems with my girlfriend's sexual past before and sometimes I think I am getting over it. However, last night I was using her computer and I noticed that there were some hidden files that I could not access. Judging from the file names and paths it has to do with ... (149 words)

My wife is allowing our domestic responsibilities to stand in for a loving relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - My wife and I have been married now for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and a daughter who is almost a year old. Starting back when we were expecting our daughter, I noticed us to somewhat drift apart. At the time it was easy to dismiss it as being part of the emotions of ... (547 words)

Should I break up with the guy who cheated, just to make a point?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months cheated on me, and I can't move on or forget what happened, but I don't want this to end, I don't know what to do. Should I leave or stay?... (35 words)

Is my boyfriend overreacting? The abuse happened 12 years ago...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I was sexually abused when I was 6 and I always tell the guy I'm seeing about it so they can understand things I have a problem with or make me feel uncomfortable in the bedroom. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and we're in love. What happened when I ... (168 words)

Being raped when I was 15 has affected my life with my fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi I was raped when I was 15 and now I am 18, but while I was 16 I started using men. I am not proud of that. I used to get them to fall in love with me then I would cheat on them. But now that I have a fiance and he's great, he understands what happend to me, I don't enjoy se... (113 words)

In love with my best friend's mate... and we're both in other relationships!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend's(A) best friend(B),who is also one of my g/friend's (C) boyfriend. I'm so confused, this happened quite unexpedtedly. My heart keeps on telling me we should be together, but my head's saying its impossible. I know he feels the same way about me, ... (584 words)

My husband thinks I should be "over" his cheating. But I'm not. Is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - My husband and I are having some difficulties in our marriage. He thinks that a seperation's an option. He had a relationship with someone much younger 5 months ago and feels I should be over it by now. His reason for the relationship is that she looked up to him and he ... (122 words)

My girlfriend is gorgeous, she makes me happy and we have so much in common. There's just that age gap...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I have been seeing a girl from work for a few months now and there is a bit of an age difference, like I'm 31 and shes 18. At first I thought I was attracted to her just cause she's got a smokin' body,and that's good stuff since I've never had a girl with a body that I never ... (202 words)

He says nothing can happen between us, but I can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, In the summer I became really close to my guy neighbor. We've know each other since elementary and our parents are very close friends. But one time it just happened that we made out, and then a month later we lost our virginity together. The thing was that when we... (198 words)

I'd love to meet a man who appreciates all my good qualities, but it's always about sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I'm So Confused!! I'm 26 and I've had a few serious relationships. I'm no stranger to dating. But I don't understand why most of the guys I'm interested in only seem to be interested in having sex. I would like to be appreciated for more than just a roll in the hay. I'm a g... (104 words)

We drifted apart little by little, then we had one almighty fight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi, My partner and I have been together for 4 years. For the last year things have been hectic, new jobs, new house and the death of a very close family member on his side. We have both noticed that we have been growing apart and haven't been putting any effort in to the rela... (216 words)

My partner puts his family and his money before us, so I left. Now I want him back, so badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My question I think is a bit complex. I have been married for 26 years, and 10 years ago my partner had an affair with a woman he worked with. We have 6 children and they were young at the time of the affair. Throughout our married life I have paid for almost ... (413 words)

Is he just shy, or am I coming on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - About a week ago, I hooked up with a guy I met. All we did was make out, and by the way things went, I'm pretty sure he is a virgin. This was the first time we met. The next night we watched a movie together, but all we did was talk. We were both thinking about hanging out ... (132 words)

This girl stares at everyone, but her long looks at me are getting me interested...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I'm Chris, a 17 yr old college student. I have a sorta weird problem with this girl at my college. She's called Natalie and she's same age as me (17). She's as tall as me, about 6ft, but since she started she has kept staring at me for some reason. So I asked my fr... (249 words)

My partner doesn't like sex around the time of my period. It makes me feel like I'm unloved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - My partner and I have different views about having sex just before a period or just after. This makes me very nervous as my period is very hard to keep track of and he makes me feel dirty and unloved because of this. Sometimes I am at my highest peak at these times and I feel w... (68 words)