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Sometimes we talk for hours, but sometimes he blows me off completely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I'm getting incredibly mixed signals from a guy I like! I met him 2 months ago, and we've carried on chatting since. Thing is, I don't know where I stand with him. Our last telephone call lasted 8 hours (on his phone bill), in which we found out a lot about each other, shared ... (141 words

My relationship feels hopeless, like I'm falling out of love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I am 19 years old and many people have told me that is young for a serious relationship.(been with my boyfriend for 3 years) I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I am falling out of love with him and this isn't what I want. He treats me great and has done more for me ... (149 words

How do I choose which man I love the best?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I am having a troubled decision to make. I moved about 1.5 years to new job whilst with boyfriend of 3 years. I then met a guy at new job and really fancied him, made stupid excuse to current bf that it wasnt working and been seeing new guy for nearly a year. I have still ke... (117 words

The boy I like has a baby and a relationship with someone else, but I think he wants me too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I have liked this boy since 10th grade and now were're in 12th. He has a baby by another girl, but their relationship is off and on. In reality, I know they are going to be together cause of the baby. Now my mind is telling me to let go, but my heart is telling me to stay. ... (75 words

Why is my fiance talking about his ex to me, just a fortnight before our wedding?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I am supposed to get married in two weeks, however my fiance still talks about his ex and the other night he even started talking about how good the sex used to be and how great it felt.. Is he purposely trying to hurt me? Or is he just not over his ex? This is really ... (60 words

He won't be back home until Christmas. Am I stupid to wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - Hi everyone, I'im a 21yr old female who is a bit confused, so here it goes. At the start of summer I got to make friends with this really great guy. We had great times together until about 3 weeks ago things got a bit more steamy. We loved meeting up and had great times toge... (196 words

I love him, but he only thinks to ring me when he wants to meet up!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - Hi, I am 19 years old and I've been in an on off relationship with this boy for 5 years. I love him to bits and I think he loves me too in his own way, but the problem is that after we meet up he doesn't ring or text until he feels like meeting up again. I just want a real rel... (102 words

My bf and his ex still keep in contact several times a week!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He was with his previous gf for almost two. He broke up with her due to her insane jealousy. They still however email, text and talk on the phone 2-3 times weekly. I am incredibly bothered by it, but he tells me he loves... (120 words

Why is my MSN guy so hot and cold when we chat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - Hi, I really fancy a boy off msn. We usually always flirt, I have met him a few times too. He says that the next time he goes clubbing, he wants me to come so we can get together. However, sometimes hes really nice with me and we get on really well, others he chats really s... (116 words

I click with my friend on so many levels, but he just isn't physically attractive...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I have a really good friend who has liked me for the past 6 months. I think he is an amazing guy and I love spending time with him. Our personalities click the only thing is, well on the physical scale he's is not what I look for. Should I just get past this, or stay as ... (75 words

As soon as he admitted he had a crush on me, I knew I loved him too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6734 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I am 23 and recently divorced I have known the guy I am dating now since I was 18. I never had any feelings for him before. Eight months ago he told me he always had a crush on me, and that he loves me! When he told me I suddenly felt myself falling for him, now we are inse... (96 words

Dad discovered stuff on my laptop and now he doesn't trust me with guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I made one mistake and now everything is screwed up. I went away for a while and left my laptop at home and my father just decides to look through my computer and found conversations between me and my ex-boyfriend. They weren't really sexual we were just talking about how we ... (219 words

I love when he goes down on me, but I just don't come!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

19 October 2005 (? - Hello, This a sexual question. why is it that everytime my feller goes down on me I can never let my self come to an orgasm. It feels all weird, I start shaking, then it starts hurting a bit!. It's really enjoyable at first but then I have to tell him to stop. Any ideas on w... (68 words

While I was away, my boyfriend redecorated my house... and left me with the bills!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I have just come back from holiday. My boyfriend looked after my house while I was away, and he decorated parts of my house and bought new furniture, as a surprise, but I have to pay the bill. It made me feel angry. What should I say to him? I don't want to hurt his feelings ... (63 words

He won't let me go out and have fun with my friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I am thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend but.... I am 17 and my fiance' is 24, I do care about him but he is too possesive over me. I just want to grow up and go out with the girls and spend time with my friends but it will destroy him if we broke up. Also I ... (163 words

We have communications problems. He won't discuss things, then wonders why I don't want to talk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - My boyfriend never listens to anybody but himself! and he is not interested in doing anything for me unless it is in his interest as well! I used to go out of my way for him, not anymore. Every time I talk to him about it, he doesn't want to row, but then wonders why I don't wa... (92 words

I feel awful for dumping him, even though he already has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I've liked this guy for 3 years and he's apparently liked me for that long too.... We snogged 2 months ago and he was really sweet asked for my number and asked me out etc. but then he disappeared. I found out a few weeks ago the reason why he hadn't been in touch is because he ... (198 words

I want my girl and I to be together, but we're different faiths!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

19 October 2005 (M - How do I sustain a relationship with my girl who is a Christian? I am a Muslim. She says I have to be Christian to marry her and this is not possible. I have conceded by saying she can practice her religion.... (42 words

My unpleasant romantic history prevents me feeling anything for my wonderful guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - I met my b/f when he was married just one month - he pursued me and I eventually gave in. It was only to be "fun with no strings/ties" but feelings grew. He left his wife late last got a bedsit and is now divorced. I suffer from depression/stress/anxiety, which I am now h... (398 words

Did some swinging two years ago and met him again recently. Now I think I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - My partner and I meet a couple 2 years ago (swinging). The guy (37 at the time) and I(18 at the time) had a fling (I really enjoyed it). We lost contact from 2003 until Jan 2005 when the guy and I got in contact again. We met up, him and her and me, had fun but she did not ... (96 words

When my girlfriend gives me oral sex, I just can't get off!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

19 October 2005 (M - When my girlfriend gives me a blowjob, I can never get off. All the times I get right to the point that I would normally get off but it won't happen. What could be the problem? I love it when she does it, it feels good. It just wont finish it. Is it that my penis is too ... (68 words

How can I persuade him to give us another chance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

19 October 2005 (F - Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect he still loves me. We were ... (125 words

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