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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is extra-large and we're wondering... what's the average penis size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - What is the average penis size? My boyfriend has a very large package and we were wondering what was average? This is so awkward but also when he goes all the way in I have a sharp pain but it also feels good. Why is this and is there any harm in this? ... (55 words)

I'm sick with longing for him, but he doesn't know how I feel. Or does he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I am married but about to separate. My marriage breakup started before I met someone else at work, but this person at work has taken over my thoughts almost 100% of the time too soon really, but we cannot help these things. He is nothing like the sort of man I am usually ... (582 words)

I think my new guy treats me really well, but my folks will hate the 22 years age difference!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 October 2005 (F)

- I am 20 and my last boyfriend of two years was 47. Things didn't work out with him because he always put me down. Now I am seeing someone who is 42 who treats me really well. I want to tell my parents but I'm worried they will go up the wall like they did last time. I tend ... (119 words)

Met someone online who told me she loves me. It seems odd to me. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I am a bisexual. I met this girl on MSN and I've hardly ever talked to her. Today she said 'hi' and 'whats up' and then asked what my sexuality was. I told her and then she was asking all of these different questions. She then said that she loved me and that she wanted to go ... (151 words)

He tells me he was "missing" me and that's why he texted that other girl...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. This year we started university and while I stayed at home, he went away. We see each other most weekends. I went up this weekend however and I know it's wrong but I couldn't resist looking in his phone (though now I deeply ... (135 words)

My soul mate is married to someone else!

This question has 116 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - Help! I've been searching for a while and I've finally found my 'soul mate'. She's perfect! Only problem is...she's married. I know I can't tell her, (I shouldn't have told anyone really but there you go), but it's affecting my life pretty badly. I'm not eating much nor slee... (104 words)

I'm not sure I want to be one big circle of friends with my boyfriends ex and her husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - My current boyfrind of 1.5 years is still Very close with his ex. They lived together for 5 years, and the following year after she broke it off, they tried to work things out. They ended up not being able to continue the relationship (her choice) and soon after he moved 1000 ... (228 words)

My boyfriend isn't his ex's child's real father, so why does he spend all his Saturdays with the kid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - Ok I have a real problem. My partner of 4 months went out with a women who was pregnant when they got together - the child views my bf as his dad, and my bf regards the child as his son. I have never met the child. When he sees him every other Saturday, his ex always goes out... (238 words)

My gf broke up over my anger management issues. I want to prove it won't happen again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is leaving me. I have an agression/anger problem that's been going on for years. Finally on the meal for her birthday last night I ripped the waiter to bits had a row with her sister because my main courtse turned up cold (in front of all her and all my famil... (224 words)

We're having another go at counselling, but he's still looking at porn on the web!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 4 years. Three years ago and two years ago I found porn in the house. L told him one more time and I'd throw him out as this really repulses me. We went to marriage counselling and discussed this but I got too emotional, he didn't ... (160 words)

My knicker fetish... Is it a problem?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I think I have a knicker fetish problem. When I am at my girlfriend's house alone I keep sneaking into her mum's room and going through her panty drawer. I get off on the sexy feel and smell of her knickers. I like to put her silky ones on and stroll about freely. On several ... (163 words)

My partner is masturbating to online porn. I'm disgusted and he blames me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have just found out my partner is masturbating over the net. This disgusts me and I feel very sick by this. My partner says I'm not giving him enough in the bedroom. Now I feel I can't give him anything as I'm so hurt. What can I do?... (49 words)

Devastated that my ex would be dating someone new! Do I take him back, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - Hi I am 19 and in my first year at uni. Before I left I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years even though I still love him. Though I miss him I thought that a long distance relationship wouldn't work and that he would't be able to get on with his own life if he was constant... (158 words)

All the women on TV have great figures! I'm starting to feel like my boyfriend will be attracted to someone else...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I do suffer from insecurity and I guess low self-esteem and I try all the time to work on this. What I do find so difficult is simply watching TV with my partner. Everytime we get a movie to watch, there are always women with fab figures, hardly clothed at all! There are neve... (207 words)

I know he just wants me for sex, but when I see him I turn to jelly...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is sex and I try hard to forget a... (85 words)

Should I act on my newly-discovered feelings for my friend Rick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I am a 21 year old woman, and have been married for 8 months. My partner and I have been together for 4 years and have a 2 year old son. About 12 months ago we started to spend time with a new circle of friends, Michelle and Rick. I started to have feelings towards Rick, bu... (364 words)

Just discovered that my girlfriend cheated 18 months ago and I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. We have dated for almost 4 years and she just admitted to me that she cheated on me about 1 and a half years ago. I can't sleep at night and I am always thinking about it and getting frustrated about it. What should I do?... (54 words)

My guy didn't seem to care until I started dating his friend. Now they both want me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been in love with this guy for a long time but he expresses no interest in me, so I began to go out with his friend who likes me. Now the guy that I am in love with begins to sweet talk me and take notice of me. I don't want to hurt his friend's feelings because I like ... (69 words)

Four months' wait to see each other is a long time...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I've recently met a girl, she's a friend of a friend. Well we got to talking online and I'm really beginning to like her. We talk for hours every day, getting to know each and every little detail about each other. We both agree that things are going well and that we both are... (167 words)

After 5 years together neither of us feels the thrill any more. Time to move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I'm in a relationship for 5 years, now. It feels like an old married couple. Nothing exciting is happening anymore. Maybe it is both of us feeling the same thing, and don't want to hurt each other by moving on. What to do? stay work it out or it is time to move on? MS... (55 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years just can't say those three little words...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years and lived with him for two. He is 29 and I'm 28. He has been in two previous long term relationships, one for 5 years and one for 3, in each relationship he was never able to say "I love you" and to this day has yet to say it to ... (196 words)

Ouch! Uncomfortable when my girlfriend is on top!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - When my girlfriend is on top she makes me feel like my penis is being bent the wrong way. What can we do to help?... (25 words)

I think when my boyfriend's upset that he tries deliberately to hurt me. Was I wrong to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - Today I finished with my Bf of 2 years. I love him, he definitely loves me, he was inconsolable when he left. In the last 3 months, when we argue, he goes out, sometimes 3-4 in morning and doesnt come back to the next day. He goes round friends houses. This weekend the friend w... (189 words)