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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I love him, but I don't trust him any more after he cheated with a much-older woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 3yrs cheated on me with a much older women. I've tried to get over it and move on as I have stayed with him, taking his word that he will never do it again. I can't seem to forget no matter how much I try. It haunts me but I love him so much. My insecurity even ... (89 words)

My boyfriend is dumping me, just to experience dating other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have been going out with this guy since 5 years, starting from college, and have been on long distance for more than 2 years. We try to see each other as often as we can. Went on a vacation with him in Jun/Jul and saw him over the weekend 2 weeks ago. He asked for a break end ... (279 words)

I want some attention from my boyfriend too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - How can I get my boyfriend of more than two years to share his focused attention between me and his 6 yr. old son?... (24 words)

Met my online guy in person and he was lovely, but now we're separated by his job...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Have I been used? I recently met a guy online. It was the first time I had ever been in a chat room, so I thought it was really lucky that we hit it off so well. We spent every night talking for hours online. It was pretty intense at times too!! After a few weeks he said he... (245 words)

Before we were married, my wife had sex with my friend. It feels weird to all of us but her!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - When we were younger and single, my wife and I had a very on and off relationship. During one of the "off" times, she had sex twice with my best friend. Time has passed and my friend and I have both gotten married but since that time, our friendship has never been the s... (158 words)

On again... off again... on again. Should I stay with my guy or let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy in November of last year. We told each other that we loved each other in February. For 6 months we had the perfect relationship. But then I went away for 2 weeks and when I came back he wasn't the same. He started treating me differently because he was ... (177 words)

He lives with his parents and he won't give me a firm date for his moving out of their place and in with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 838 days ago

31 October 2005 (F)

- Believe him, or is he just trying to shut me up? I am engaged to a man who is currently living with his parents. I have my own place, and we want to live together like we had in the past. He says he really really wants to come back here, but then he's so concerned about ... (155 words)

My fiance seems disappointed in his choices in life, but I can't get him to talk about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - My fiancé is hurting inside and won't let me in! Hello all, Me and my fiancé have been together and living together for a year and a half now, and I have always known that he finds it hard to open up and talk about things but I think he is really hurting inside. His ch... (401 words)

I found out my daughter's bisexual when I looked at her email!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - I am concerned about my daughter. She is 18 at Xmas and has been very friendly with a girl a year younger. They are good friends and I have let my daughter stay overnight at her place on many many occasions. Her friend has also stayed here as well. My daughter left th... (300 words)

We're both unhappy and we fight. He doesn't want to divorce, so what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - 2 months ago my husband moved out saying he felt trapped and isolated. Since then I have been giving him space, and he has now moved back into the spare room but he says he doesn't love me like he should. He doesn't know why this is. Over the past year we have had a lot of ... (160 words)

Sex with my ex. Why do I keep falling into the same old trap?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Ex-advice please.. My ex and I split mutually about 5 mnths ago.We still keep in contact, speak every so often..and when we see each other more than often we end up sleeping together.We know its not the wise thing to do but we can't help it.We get on well still and both fli... (258 words)

I keep picturing my fairytale future, even though I know it won't happen...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

31 October 2005 (F)

- I can't stop obsessing about the future. I'm twenty four and in a live-in relationship with a man the same age. Our relationship is very good; we've known each other for ten years and been together for three. This is the first time I've ever felt like I'd like to spend the rest ... (586 words)

My boyfriend won't give up smoking, no matter what I threaten...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I try to get my boyfriend to quit smoking and I also threatened to leave this relationship, but he seems to not care about the fact that I'm willing to sacrifice anything for him. He wouldn't even give it up to make me happy. We fight about this all the time and I'm fed up a... (74 words)

I pushed to find out the truth. Now I wonder: did I really want to know why she broke it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - My 20 Year old girlfriend Of 2 Years has ended it with me last week. Things had not been right for quite a while, but I didn't think it would really come to this. What makes it worse is that she has started seeing somebody else. I only found this out because I pushed and push... (88 words)

My child's father doesn't want to know about the pregnancy. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I am 6 weeks pregnant. The child's father doesn't want to know and is married. I have 3 difficult teenagers and am a lone parent running my own business. My life is hectic and full and I am 40. I have absolutely no family other than my 3 children. Do I keep it or not? I can't ... (145 words)

I'm engaged but have always loved my ex. Now my ex wants to give us another try...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Hey me and my boy friend had a lovely time for almost two an a half years, but when the qestion came of marriage, he explained his familial reasons which were stopping him of doing that. He confessed that he loved me very much, but he is helpless...he even said that I should g... (226 words)

Am I always going to be alone...forever? Are there any guys out there for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have just turned 39 and I'm freaking out at the prospect of being loveless forever! Note that I say loveless and not " alone " , as I have no problem being by myself.I have never had a serious b.friend, even though I have always wanted a serious relationship. I go out to ... (263 words)

Can't understand why I'm accused of coming on too strongly with girls...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Cupid, I've never really had a problem meeting girls and gaining their interest. My problem is not getting to into them, after meeting them. I want to talk with them so I can learn about them. This goes both with the girls I've met in person and on the net. Lately I've be... (150 words)

We only have sex when he wants it, never when I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, please help, I have been in a relationship for 2 years. He says that I am paranoid all the time, but our relationship has changed on his part, he doesn't want to have sex with me, only when he wants it. He's not interested in me anymore. He says he loves me and t... (78 words)

Does the neighbour girl mean what she said about having no boyfriend? Should I have a go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Hello, Ok this does sound stupid but it really makes me mad right. I am 16 male live in England. My next door neighbour is 30yr old women has a middle sister of I think 27 and a younger sister of 24. Now!!! I really fancy the younger one 24 years old. We always ta... (193 words)

I don't miss my ex. I don't even much like him... but I miss the contact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have a very weird problem. My ex and I were strictly in no contact for several months and then he transferred to my school. I see him at least once if not twice a day (some days I've seen him 3-4). Things go back and forth from being painfully awkward to okay. He clams u... (389 words)

I want the girl I'm interested in to take me seriously...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - I have been at university for a month and met a girl in my flat that I'm really attracted to. She has a boyfriend at another university, who she has been with for 3 years. I try to talk to her as much as possible but although we can talk and laugh, she always thinks I'm being ... (112 words)

The spark is fading. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 925 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Should the end of the courtship and children spell the end to excitement and passion in a relationship? What if one half thinks like Mom now and not as your lover? Any cures for my cold fish?... (40 words)