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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I fell for her fast, but I hear that she doesn't like guys coming onto her too quickly...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago at her 21st birthday and fell for her. I can't explain it, as I only met her that day, never seen her before. Then last weekend I went out to where she lives (I'm boarding at her cousin's house) with people I board with on their family holiday,... (241 words)

What if the nasty texts I sent to my ex actually went through?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I have really stuffed up. My ex boyfriend is currently travelling round Asia. I have a lot of unresolved feelings with him and a lot of things I haven't felt that I could say to him. I lost my virginity to him when I was 19 and a year later we had a bad break up. I am now 23. ... (361 words)

How do I prove to my boyfriend that I'm innocent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I need help and advice. Me (16) and my boyfriend (16) dated for about eight months. Everything was going great. But he called me one day and said that one of his friends told him I cheated on him when I didn't. We broke up and now he wants me to prove that I'm innocent or he ... (79 words)

Infatuated with a guy at work, but he just wants to play silly games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I am 20 years old and am completely infatuated with this guy I work with who is only 18. The problem is that I can't get his attention in a way other than him teasing me. He makes fun of the way I talk, the way I say certain words, he makes fun of my name and gave me this dumb ... (95 words)

Why won't my boyfriend introduce me to his family? It's been three years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 824 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and we have lived together for 2 years. I met him through work (I now work elsewhere) and trained him in his job. He is 6 years younger than me (I am 35) and the physical side of relationship is fine, he is affectionate and loving, ... (373 words)

Do I stay and marry my partner simply because I'm pregnant and because we get along...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I am a 28 year old female who has been in a relationship for about 4 1/2 years. My fiance and I have had our problems and were trying to work through them. We started planning our wedding when - oops - I became pregnant. Now the issue is even before I became pregnant I was ... (168 words)

My partner works hard, but he's emotionally distant to me and our kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Dr. Cupid, I desperately need your help. The father of my children( ages 21 mo. and 4) Is the nicest most considerate person you have ever met. The problem is just that, The nicest YOU have ever met. He is to busy pleasing others that forgets to attend to his family. He refus... (540 words)

Am I wrong because I enjoy my own company?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Is there something wrong for a guy if he doesn't want reassurance from others, not even girls? I end up being to much on my own and people find this disrespectful and offensive. I don't think that i have to prove anything to anyone and i am at peace with myself. This upsets m... (110 words)

I cheated, and my boyfriend can't handle it. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I'm 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for One year and three months about six months into the relationship I cheated on him with a male friend of mine. About a month later I told him and he still hasn't got over it and is becoming more controlling about what I do. ... (60 words)

My boyfriend's ex lured him back, after he swore he'd never see her again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - My name is Joanna. I have been in a realsionship together with my boyfriend for five months now. We have so many problems because of his ex girlfriend. They were together for five years. When I first got together with this man, He said that he did not want to spend his time ... (336 words)

After he told me his was visiting a mate, I discovered he's going out with someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months and it has all been going really well. We have a great time together and get on like a house on fire. The problem is we met online and haven't really got to the stage where we are exactly exclusive although neither of us has been ... (337 words)

What do his looks and invitations mean? Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm curious about the "signals" guys make. I live in a mixed-sex boarding house, next to a guy I have a huge crush on. We greet each other every time we bump into each other, and have small talk when we get the chance. By the end of the first semester, ... (253 words)

Does the girl in math class like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Im 12 years old and in 7th grade. I like this pretty girl in my school. She sometimes wanna be my partner in math class, and she talks to me a lot. But I don't know if she really likes me... (44 words)

I discovered my brother in my crop top and skirt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I am 19 and my brother is 16. I came home from work just now to find him wearing my crop top and denim skirt. What do I do about it?? Claire xxx... (43 words)

We started and ended it before my separation. Now he won't admit to anything stronger than friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, a couple of yrs ago, I began working with someone who I was attracted to, but we resisted doing anything for a year as our siuations were very complicated, he lives with the mother of his two children and claims to only be there because of the children. My partner ... (401 words)

I'm second-class in my own family and it's ruined my self-esteem...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've got a problem that has always been there but not bothered me until now. Well my parents have always favoured my brothers over me and over time it became second nature that I would take a backseat. It's only small things, like they would go to watc... (377 words)

Women want me to read their signals, and I'm hopeless at it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - I'll get right to my problem - I can't for the life of me figure out how to tell when a girl is interested, let alone figure out what I should do when she is. My last relationship was quite weird as the girl basically initiated it (I was giving a tour of the area, and by the... (219 words)

My husband trusts me not to play around... so why does that bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I told my husband that my GED teacher said if we are in his area to let him know and he would come have a drink with us. (my husband plays in a band). My husband made a comment like "why would it be with me too?" I said it is the proper thing to do. You don't just go out ... (182 words)

Afraid to ruin the friendship we have, I still want to tell her I'm interested...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid Hi. My name is Scott, I am 26 years old, and live in Ontario Canada. I have a problem, and have been trying to get as much advice as possible, before making a decision. I have been friends with this girl I work with for about 5 or 6 months now. We have had a lot o... (251 words)

How can other people stay friends with their exes? Mine just looks uncomfortable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 944 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - My ex-boyfriend dumped me a while ago with tears, saying this might be a big mistake, etc. He was honestly such a wonderful boyfriend and I was so in love with him...even though we were young I really thought I had found something real. The farther away it gets from the time, ... (789 words)

I explained how I feel about his looking at porn, but he still insists he enjoys it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I am middle aged woman dating a seven year older man for almost 2 years. I recently saw him looking at pornography on the internet when I walked into the room. I was shocked and I tried to explain to him that I felt when you are in a loving, monogomous relationship, that this ... (96 words)

I'm not really sure I want to marry my fiancee. I feel like my ardour has cooled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Should I break it off with my fiancee? My fiancee and I have been dating for nearly 2 years, and have been engaged for about 5 months. For the longest time I was completely infatuated with her. Could not see my life without her. But for the last few months, I have slowly b... (673 words)

I'm good-looking, so why are only the unattractive guys hitting on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Lately I have noticed that whenever I venture to a club or bar the only males who seem to be attracted to me or hit on me are unnatractive. I am a good-looking girl and apparently too nice. How do I attract the man for me, instead of Herman Munster?... (50 words)

We broke off the relationship 2 years ago, and my boyfriend is worried isn't going to go bad again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 944 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Two years ago, my boyfriend and I were engaged and because we were young and needed to discuss important topics, we broke it off. Should I be patient if my boyfriend is not ready to get commit again because he is terrified that it will not work out again.... (49 words)

I'm feeling low and lost, so I masturbate... I can't stop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - I need help, I can't stop masturbating every day, sometimes a few times daily. I'm single and hate it. I've been depressed and I can feel myself slipping back down again as I've just lost my job and so I have nothing. I feel so low and stuck in a rut. I masturbate to fe... (68 words)