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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How do we stop from growing apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I've been with my gf for 15 months but we have started to grow apart. I love her and she loves me. We really want to stay together but don't know what to do, as this is out 1st serious relationship. Help... (42 words)

My co-worker is always brushing against me. Is it friendship, or flirting... or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Hi Everyone!! I Need HELP!! but my problem is a bit unusual....some might think it even as being funny...but its bugging me really bad....let me explain. I am a 31 year old male but everyone says I look much younger and I really do look youger. The problem is there is ... (280 words)

Is my foreskin OK?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Hi, I am 14 years old and i am concerned about the fact that my foreskin does not overlap my penis' head...is there something wrong with my foreskin or am I just being paranoid... (34 words)

We're living together and I keep house for him. Is this all there is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Been living with this man for 2 years. His mom came to live with us and I quit my job to take care of her. There never was a hot romance. Just two people who came together out of a need for each other. Problem is I miss being treated like a woman. I clean, cook and help him do ... (112 words)

Love my relationship, love to be touched, but I have no sexual drive any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a man I love to pieces, he makes me feel so alive, loved and amazing. I believe him when he says I make him feel the same. We spend a lot of time together doing romantic coupley things, but when it comes to sex I just have no sex drive at... (213 words)

I broke up with my girlfriend, but I regret it and want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - First off, sorry that this question is long but I don't know how else to shorten it. I ended the relationship between me and my girlfiend of 2 years in February 2005. We started going out late 2002. She was all I wanted in a girlfriend, affectionate, kind, caring etc. S... (376 words)

First-time sex. What should I be expecting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I know this sounds like a stupid question but, when you first have sex, does it hurt at all? And when you get pregnant, how painful is it and what are the chances that it won't all the go the way you expect it to? Thanks!... (46 words)

There's no violence in our house, just lots of shouting. It's making me depressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I always feel like every thing is my fault. My family aren't rich but we are very close to losing the house and all the nice things we have. My mother has four kids, me including. My dad still lives in our house, but rarely comes home and when he does, he's always on the co... (506 words)

I want to settle down... or leave and have some passion in my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Me and my partner (7 years) moved 3 months ago to a new area where we don't know anyone but are enjoying a better quality of life. He is supporting me whilst I go back to do my dream course at college. He's kept the same job but is working from home. I've got the 7 yr itch big... (399 words)

My girlfriend of more than 2 years ran off with her boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I am 37 years old and have been with a lovely 28year old girl for the last 2-1/2 years.We have had our ups and dowmns like most relationships but recently things had being going better than ever. At the beginning of this relationship the girl in question wanted me to marry he... (388 words)

Seeing a married man. Am I just a fling?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I am sort of seeing this guy at the moment who has been married and has three kids. I would like to see more of him and get to know his kids better. Do you see this getting serious or just a fling?... (43 words)

He went from serious to casual when I started falling for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have been dating someone a couple of times a month for the past three months now. He said he wanted a girlfriend and seemed to be serious about it. Now he is saying he is too busy with his work and other responsibilities and would rather just have a casual relationship. ... (79 words)

Could my boyfriend be using me as a financial crutch, or am I supporting him in a time of stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Hi, Really hoping to get some advice from you guys, as I'm feeling pretty confused. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now. When we first met, we fell in love straight away with so much in common. The relationship was a different feeling to anything I had e... (303 words)

My husband is never at home any more. All we do is argue. Sometimes I don't know why I stay...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - My life is not the same anymore. I have been with my partner for quite a few years and we used to go everywhere together and was always together. Then he started to get into fitness started with jogging to begin with,which I didn't mind him doing. Then he joined a gym with his ... (215 words)

Am I seeing a problem where there isn't one? Should I just let things develop at their own pace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have known the guy I have been seeing the last two months for over a year. I was surprised the first time he asked me to dinner but we get along great and have fun together. The problem: He is the first guy I have really liked since my divorce a few years ago. I know there ... (168 words)

I can't figure out whether my co-worker is actually interested, or is using me in some game of her own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I have worked at my current job for 2 years, and have known and worked with this particular woman the entire time. We work in a factory, and she is on my shift. She also has a live-in boyfriend, and the two of them have a two year old daughter. About 4 months ago, this woman ... (727 words)

I know my husband is still in contact with his ex-wife, even after she betrayed him and cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I'm not sure where to start or how to make this brief, but I will try. I met my now husband on line and he moved from TX to NY just to be with me. I'd always had doubts though because he didn't seem to have the capability to say I love you to me due to an ex wife and ex fianc... (591 words)

I made a bad choice when I was drunk and now my girlfriend won't trust me any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I am 24 and around May I found the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I moved in with her after about 3 months of dating. Everything was going great, up until about three weeks ago, when I went out with my friends one night, and I got very drunk and forgot to call ... (213 words)

Why did the guy who seemed so great want to kiss another girl right in front of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 929 days ago

26 October 2005 (F)

- Another love lost? I just got back into dating after the Vincent accident and I met this guy who lives across the street. He sang songs to me and acted like he realy liked me. This went on for about a week. It seemed like he was "the one." As if I know who the right guy is. A... (218 words)

The attention he's getting from other girls gives him a real ego problem..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have known this guy for 5 years now. We have been off and on through school. I'm in college now, and he is still a senior but we still like each other. Not too long ago, before he told me he liked me again, he had sex with his ex girlfriend of the past. I was so upset and ... (199 words)

I think I come too soon and I need some HELP...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Whenever I have sex I COME within 2-5min (first time was 20min after that it was 2-5min). :( I know this sucks real bad and I want to know what I can do to longer my time while having sex with my GF. I do everything else with her and she is pleased with all of that. I don't ... (96 words)

Sometimes I freeze up with nothing to say to my crush! Hints? Suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to my crush (Timber) on the Internet for about four months now. He's sweet, funny, and absolutely everything I ever thought he would be. We talk almost every day for long amounts of time-just finding out about each other. Our conversa... (164 words)

I want to make a move, but I need to know how to find out if she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I am interested in this girl and she seems very enthusiastic about me too. We talk on a more-than-friend term, and I plan to make a move but I am not sure she's got a boyfriend or not... You would say I haven't known her long enough since I don't know the most important thing ... (125 words)