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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband thinks I should shut up and stand by him, but when is he standing up for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 693 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my husband now for 5 years. We have only been married 1 month and 3 weeks. In our relationship we have had a lot of quarrels but have overcome them, but here lately it’s getting really difficult to get through them. We don't talk unless he wants mo... (337 words)

I think I fancy the teacher. What's worse is she's female, like me!

This question has 66 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm only 13 and I feel really bad because I seem to fancy my teacher and she is a woman. I go to a girls' school and rumours fly fast so I don't dare say anything to my friends because I would feel extremely embarassed and I could be overheard. When I see her I don't seem to ... (75 words)

I felt it was destiny that we got together, but then he told me he just couldn't leave his relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I have felt a strong connection with a colleague at work for a few years now. We have always been friends and we are so much alike and share similar interests. We can make each other laugh and we can talk for hours non-stop.... About a month ago our feelings for each other d... (467 words)

Slept with a co-worker who now says it was a mistake. He treats me like a leper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - A married co-worker came on to me at work and we started fooling around and after a week I cheated on my husband by sleeping with him. The next day he said he was freaked out about it and now he can barely look at me. He initiated this situation and this isn't the first time ... (82 words)

Is my online guy just teasing, or does he really mean he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm 13... I have been chatting to this guy I really like. My friends think that he is completely wrong for me and has no feelings for me. But whenever we chat, we always say things lik "I luv u!" and "Hi hun" and when we chat on MSN we always send hearts and kisses to each oth... (75 words)

Would I know if my partner has had sex with other guys before me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

14 October 2005 (M) - I have been in a committed gay relationship for the past 4 months. I am just wondering if there is any way I can know if my partner has had anal sex before? Does there have to be any bleeding the first time round? ... (44 words)

Should I date a widower, or wait for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I know this guy for a while and his fiance died last Novemeber, she was an acquaintance of mine also. It was a sad time all around as she was only 40. However, my dilemma now is that we have created a thing between us ( not too sure if its what I really want) and he has aske... (116 words)

He's a really a wonderful guy, but he feels uneasy because my baby isn't his...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I am 17 years old I had my daughter when I was 16. The father of my daughter went away to America when he found out I was pregnant. He never came back to see me or my baby. When my daughter was 3 months old I met an old friend, the last time I seen him was when I turned h... (193 words)

Hate my new school, because I just don't fit in. Can't I go back to my old one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 941 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I've recently moved schools, and I've been at my new one for a week over 1 term and I hate it! I now go to a selective school and they're all soo snooty and I don't really fit in. All I want is to go back to my old school but my father won't let me. It's because I had a crush ... (187 words)

Ever since my partner cheated, I snipe at him without realising...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years now and since he cheated on me we just do not get on. We seem to clash. We have a 3 year old son together. I just don't know what to do anymore. He says it's always me biting his head off over silly things, but most of the time I don't kn... (98 words)

No explanation, and he blanks me when I see him. What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - Hi I was seeing a man 10 years my junior for 2 and 1/2 years. We were amazingly in love, couldn't bear to be apart but he started wanting to be "free", i.e see other women, so we split up but remained very close friends, still constantly in each other's company. He always ... (177 words)

My partner won't really say what's wrong between us; she just wants to leave

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (M) - I’ve been married to a lovely woman for 2 years. We were lovers, partners, best friends and soul mates. I love her dearly we really have had a fantastic relationship. We haven’t been getting on for a few weeks, or should I say she hasn’t been getting on with me. She has had ... (457 words)

Is the great sex worth her controlling behaviour?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm 27 years old. I have just started a new relationship with a 37 year old women. At first I thought she was great, but now I am finding her very dominating towards me. She dosen't feel comfortable with any type of public affection (holding hands), not even when we are just at ... (121 words)

What's winking about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

14 October 2005 (F)

- What does winking mean? I got winked at by a really cute guy and I kind of liked him back, but then I found out the next day he was married!! Another guy I know is married and he winks at me all the time, sometimes slowly and when no one else is winking. I'm really con... (72 words)

Can I reform my abusive and violent guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I've been dating a man for 1 and a half. I love him dearly and he claims to do the same. However he is very abusive mentally and sometimes physically. I recently called the police and he is currently in jail for asulting me. He took no accountability for it at all, mea... (242 words)

Can't understand why my friend and his wife bother to stay together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 854 days ago

14 October 2005 (F)

- Why would a guy stay in a bad marriage? My friend is married to a woman who has two grown kids from previous marriage. Both her kids are herion addicts and have stolen money from him. He and his wife have nothing in common and she is ten years older than him. They are always ... (83 words)

His ex keeps staring at me when we're at the gym. It makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 854 days ago

14 October 2005 (F)

- I work out at the rec centre and the gym is right above the pool. There are huge windows so the people in the pool area are able to see the people working out in the gym, which is upstairs. The problem is that my ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend swims in the pool, and whenev... (161 words)

After work, we hung out and really connected... or so I thought...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (?) - I work in the salon of a store and this guy that I hung out with twice works in the clothing part of the store. We hung out one night and we made out and he told me I was so gorgeous, and all this stuff how he wanted me so bad. We hung out until like 4 AM that night. The ne... (196 words)

He took advantage of our arrangement by sleeping with another girl AND me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I dated my boyfriend a little over a year, but ended it because I didn't want to commit to him. Later, we decided to become "friends with benefits", if you get my drift. Then he started seeing another girl at the same time. I only recently discovered to my horror that he was ... (146 words)

Why do I keep comparing my looks to his ex's looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for nine months now. We have both been in previous relationships that have lasted more then a year. His was a while ago and he still sees his ex. I have seen pictures of her and I don't think that she's prettier then me but I can't help but ... (122 words)

Everything I try to discuss with my boyfriend turns into an argument. Is it the age difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I am a 31 year old female. My boyfriend is 44, once divorced. We have been dating for 2 years. He is a wonderful man, I didn't know people like him still existed. He treats me with the most respect, very kind and understanding and great with my son. The only problem that I ... (202 words)