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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Tired of faking orgasms. How do I have one with my boyfriend for real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have been in 2 serious relationships. I have never had an orgasm although I really enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Is there anything I can do? Don't want to have to fake it anymore.... (39 words)

Why is this bloke winking at me? Is he interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - Is it normal for men to wink at you or are they trying to catch your eye because they fancy you? There is a bloke I see around from time to time and each time he sees me he always winks at me. He's a good looking guy but I wouldn't want to make an idiot of myself by winking ... (108 words)

Can I get my ex back from his pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I really like my ex boyfriend still, but the problem is now he has met someone else and she has fallen pregnant. He says he likes her but gives me signals he likes me too. I still really miss him. I just don't know what to do. I want him back.... (51 words)

I'm interested in a younger girl, but she's into my cousin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - I'm 15 and I really like this girl (13) and my friends keep saying I'm in love but I'm not sure. The problem is she likes my cousin and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about her.... (41 words)

Even when I'm up for it, I'm too tight to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I really want sex but every time I have tried I'm too tight and it hurts too much. It's a real problem as I'm so up for it and now I am too worried to have sex because this embarressing problem may happen again! What can I do to help this problem? ... (52 words)

An old ex from work is straining the relationship between me and the man I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I've been flirting with a man from work for a few weeks and to my delight he asked me out recently. (though we are keeping it secret from people at work) The problem is people at work keep gossiping about me fancying another man who works there and who happens to be one of m... (138 words)

I wouldn't know how to act around a boyfriend!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I'm 15. I really like this boy at school but I don't know whether I should go out with him and I'm nervous because I've never had a boyfriend before. I wouldn't know how to react with although I know I have feelings for him. Please help me!!... (48 words)

His answer to taking things further was No, so why is he giving me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I have a friend. We were intimate 20 years ago to be exact, it was something that happened for a period of time while I was married (but separated) and when it came to a head, my husband finding out and the escalation to almost physical confrontation. We sort of drifted apart, ... (260 words)

Everyone in the family hates me and I'm being bullied!

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - My parents are arguing and fighting and now I am being bullied by my brother. He keeps bullying me and then my dad takes his side becoz he thinks he would live with him and I won't! My mother is an emotional sucker as well and she has no sympathy for me or for anyone whatsoev... (161 words)

He broke it off with me without even trying to fix what was wrong...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and recently engaged and then dumped. He says he doesn't want a relationship as too many things were missing, although he loves me. I have explained to him that I behaved in the way I did to protect myself. I now realise that I want him ... (99 words)

My son won't eat unless the meal includes corn chips...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - My son is 14. He is obsessed with eating cornchips; he had them for breakfast, then with his dinner; with ice-cream; and even for supper. He refuses to eat unless he has cornchips with his food; what do I do? How will this affect his health? Jason a concerned dad... (61 words)

I'm 15 and I think I'm a lesbian...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I am only 15 and I think I am a lesi. I have slept with one guy and it just felt wrong. I keep looking at naked womon on the internet. What should I do?... (35 words)

I didn't ask the girl out. Now I think I've lost her friendship, too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - Needing to find a way to redeem myself I work with a girl who I developed a strong liking for. Despite several opportunities to ask her out I kept clamming up because I kept thinking that she may not feel the same way and didn’t want to spoil the friendship I’d struck up wi... (109 words)

I'm a big tease, what can I do?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 865 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - Hey im 18 and have been with this guy 4 about 4 months i love him alot but i still take other guys phone numbers and find it hard not to flirt with them, i have a problem with leading people on but i dont want to loose my bf because of it what should i do???... (57 words)

I want this guy in a big way and think he likes me too. Tell him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I really like this guy a lot but I want to be honest here. I really want him a lot. How am I going to let him know? I feel so into him. He is so sweet on me and I am so sweet on him. He really makes me comfortable. I really want him to know that I do love him a lot. He is the ... (134 words)

He freaked when I wanted to have a chat about what was up with our relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - I met this great guy about 2 months ago and we starting seeing each other. It was going extremely well, he kept saying he liked me a lot and we got on famously, but then he was a bit distant as well sometimes. Because of the mixed signals, I decided to have a (relaxed... (128 words)

My husband is never wrong! Ever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I've been married for 12 years and have a 9 yr. old son. I am thinking about divorcing my husband. We don't communicate, and he pays no attention to his son. He states in the 12 yrs. of our marriage he has NEVER been wrong about anything. How can I get through to him??... (56 words)

One day after I lost my virginity to him, he's spreading rumours about me. I feel awful...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am only 16 years old and I just lost my virginity to this guy I am really into. Our relationship has been very on and off for the past year and we aren't even really dating right now. Some of our mutual friends are calling me a slut now, and he is pretty much dis... (205 words)

All I wanted was for my girlfriend to spend the night... but it led to a 'permanent break'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a little over two years and 3 months. We don't fight often but every now and then we do get really heated I will say something like "I can't do this anymore" or "Do you want to break up?" A couple night ago we weren't arguing; I just wanted h... (185 words)