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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

The household I grew up in makes me embarrassed to have normal sexual feelings!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I am a 24 years old male and want to know if there is a relationship between sex and depression. I have realized over the time that I get depressive feelings when I think about sex and this is linked somehow with my mother's feelings about sex as well. She has suffered from ... (309 words)

My ex got my hopes up, then dumped me by text! Should I forgive and forget, like my friends say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - One night, my friends were hanging out watching movies. My ex jokingly put his arm around me and another one of our friends calling himself a "pimp." It was funny so we all laughed. But then he took his arm off of the other girl and kept his other arm around me. Then throughout ... (218 words)

Attracted to the girl-next-door, but she's only 15...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 821 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - Confused male. I am nearly 20 and recently I have found myself having feelings for my next door neighbour, but she is 15. I don't know what to do about it. Can anyone help? I mean it's only 4 years difference. Does this matter?... (46 words)

I'm 6 years older than the guy I think I'm interested in. Problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, he is 17. I really do like him. We like all the same kind of stuff and I am attracted to him and I kinda get the feeling he likes me too. Is it wrong? I think people would have a problem with it. Is it weird? I know it could never be anything serious. I don't want it ... (126 words)

I pushed for commitment, and ended up pushing him away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I had a long distant relationship with a man I fell in love with and he loves me. He broke up with me because he has things in his life to fix and he is scared of commitment. I've been pushing that. I know now not to do that. How do I get this man back that completes me, and ... (81 words)

Am I paranoid, or is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - Hey, I've been with my gf for just under a year. The problem I have, is that there is another guy who I think my gf is cheating with. He is always in her room, with his clothes off and they have internet profiles in which if someone puts something like ''Perfect Partne... (80 words)

I moved on from my married man... to another married man. Why do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with a married man about 6 months ago. Since then, I have become close to someone who told me he recently ended a relationship with another woman and had no contact with her. However, I just found out that he has been emailing her back and ... (111 words)

Help me to overcome the nervousness I get when I'm chatting with girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I am a 22 year old man and am single. I am very nervous when I am chatting with a girl and always feel that they are not interested in me at all. I have been to pubs, clubs and so on. I wondar if someone tell me a few techniques to know girls' body language.... (56 words)

Advice needed about coming off the Pill...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 947 days ago

8 October 2005 (F)

- I'd like a bit of advice from any women who've been on the Pill before please. I came off it last month and now my period is 2 weeks late. I've had sore boobs and mood swings (the symptoms I get before my period) but I still haven't come on. Anyone who has come off the Pi... (96 words)

My boyfriend cheats on his girlfriend with me, but he won't make a choice between us!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - My ex has been cheating on his girlfriend of 2 1/2 years with me. This has been going on for 1 1/2 years. He says he doesn't love her and since she lives 2 hours away their relationship isn't going to chang. However he always has the same response when I ask him about us ... (99 words)

Is it time for my girlfriend and me to break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I've been with my gf for 1 year now. I don't feel as though I love her anymore. We don't spend time with each other. We don't trust each other but yet I don't want to lose her. I feel as though I don't love her anymore, but I couldnt bear to lose her. She says she loves me, and ... (80 words)

I climax too soon. Can anyone offer advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I'm a 27 year old male whom seems to come too soon. Could it be psychological or health problems? I have tried a spray to help me not come as fast. It did help me not to come but the side effect was that I didn't get hard enough. Please send me any advise!!! thank you so much!... (63 words)

Our four years together have been full of ups and downs. Now I'm not sure I should move in with him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I am in a very confusing situation. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. Him and I have had our share of ups and downs. Right now, I'm not sure if I should continue this relationship. Here is where the story begins... Til this day, I believe it was destiny that bro... (1559 words)

My son's father comes and goes... but mostly goes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I am having the hardest time getting over my son's father. We split up over 3 years ago and he has come back to me after his ex did what he did to me. Now it's been a little over 1 year ago he came back in my life and it's been up and down and now it's been 5-6 months since ... (261 words)

First time sex with my boyfriend. Should we go to a hotel, or do it at home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I've been seeing my bf for some time and we both would like to have intercourse with each other for the first time (we are both over 20 and are going to be protected, of course) but should we rent a room in a hotel or have it at one of our houses? I don't know where to go about ... (64 words)

Do I have to fondle my boyfriend, if I let him touch me intimately?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - If my bf (I hate to be so graphic) fingers me, would I have to touch him in return? Wouldn't he expect that if I were to let him touch me?... (31 words)

A new attraction is helping me overcome my recent heartbreak... but I feel guilty about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I've kind of met a new girl. I didn't plan on being with anyone so soon because me and my ex broke up only a few weeks ago and it was hard for me. Now this new girl has come into my life and I'm starting to feel happy once again. We're both just coming out of bad break ups and ... (123 words)

I've lost the excess weight, but I'm still worried that my body will turn off my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but there have come times when we've come close to it--my problem is that I used to weigh 200 pounds and through diet and exercise went down to 130. The bad side is that I was left with a sagging tummy and breasts with no volume. I know I ... (226 words)

He's so into me that I'm worried that I don't feel as strongly as he does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - What does it mean that it's better for the guy to like you more than you like him? Isn't love supposed to go both ways? Or is it meant that girls shouldn't have the burden of being in love or loving a guy who treats them indifferently? As of now, I feel fine with my bf, but ... (267 words)

My bad relationship in the past makes me wary of my current boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - How do I know if a guy is sincere? I have been going out with my bf for just about 3 months and I feel confused because he is 24 and I'm 20 and he has had a lot of experience with women and I've only had one bf before him (actually an ex-fiancee)and my ex-fiancee began by being ... (188 words)

What's the definition of compatibility in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - How do you know if you are truly compatible with someone else?... (12 words)

I don't want to end his friendships, but must he be so chummy with his ex-girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - Hi there, I was wondering if you could help me figure something out? I have a bf who I have been seeing for about 4 months now and it just so happens he is good friends with his two exes. This makes me feel uncomfortable and as though they are a threat or that he could cheat on ... (484 words)

My guy left me to be with his pregnant ex. Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I have been with this guy for 7 years off and on and we have 2 kids together. We separated about a year ago and he started seeing this girl he had cheated on me with before. This girl became pregnant, and me and him got back together. For 9 months he has denied this child to... (121 words)

My boyfriend needs very specific conditions to reach orgasm...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend cannot come unless it is through anal sex. If we have vaginal sex he will not come. And even this takes a long time before he gets to that point. Well, recently he expressed to me that this has never happenned to him before. So I started to wonder is it me? Is it ... (161 words)

He's only "thinking" about going out with me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - This boy I like he says he likes me and his girlfriend just dumped him not too long ago. We flirt a lot. Lately he has been avoiding me. It's been going on for about a month. I asked him out and he is always saying 'I'm thinkin about it'. What should I do???... (56 words)