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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

No reason for his dumping me. How do you get over something like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I am so utterly broken. My boyfriend of 8 months, who I loved (and still do) more than just about anything, called me 3 weeks back on my first day at uni and broke up with me. No reasons or anything. How do I begin to get over him? I'm an emotional wreck trying to make fri... (59 words)

I'm hung up on a boy in my old school, in a different state...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I really liked this boy at my school but then I moved to different state. One of my friends told me (over the phone) that he asked about me and I'm completly hung up on him. When I hear his name my stomach even does a flip. I also like a guy at my new school but miss the other ... (115 words)

He says he's confused and might make me unhappy, but won't our love help work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - Got back with bf after 2 month rocky patch, on again, off again, on again, off again etc.. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me but he says he's still confused! I told him to think about it for a week but I'm already head over heels back believing in our relationship... (137 words)

Is there a woman for me, who'd love me even though sex is out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid...I am 54 years old and still a virgin, mostly because of some stupid fear of not being adequate in sex. I have only really loved once and that was when I was 21 years old and I totally screwed that relationship up even though I had multiple chances. Now I have dev... (199 words)

Do you think it's just his work that makes him hesitant about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I was going out with my bf for 3 years when we broke up. We're best friends and very attracted to each other which is why I couldn't understand why he wouldn't give us a second chance! He kept saying he loved me but just didn't know anymore! We're back together now but... (157 words)

My online guy says he won't use a condom when we meet because he's too big!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

23 October 2005 (F)

- I'm 17 and this guy is 25, we haven't met but have talked about meeting. I'm a virgin, and we have talked about having sex alot and had cyber sex. He says that he has a 9" penis when erect, (I don't know whether he's telling the truth), and he says that he doesn't have sex... (173 words)

My guy in the Army is 17 and I'm 14. We want to meet up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - My friend introduced me to this gorgeous lad a couple of weeks back and ever since we haven't stopped texting each other or been of the phone. The problem is he's in the army and I will hardly see him. We both agree that it shouldn't be anything serious and he says I can stil... (151 words)

I don't feel like I have anything about me that would attract women. And my penis is bent like a banana!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - I'm a 28 year old male living in London. I would love to be in a relationship but I don't have any confidence at all. I'm going bold, losing my looks, and the big thing is that my penis is the shape of a banana (it's bending to one side)..yes my mojo is broken. So my question ... (91 words)

He's too big for me! Or maybe I'm too small for him..?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I have recently started seeing the most amazing guy; however he has a pretty wide penis. It's a lot bigger than I'm used to. We tried to have sex the other night it didn't really fit properly and it was painful. I did not have this problem with my previous boyfriend our sex ... (78 words)

I want to stop being so controlling and jealous with my boyfriend. How do I do it?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I am a very controlling individual. I cant help but call my boyfriend because I am worried that he is messing around. I am also very jealous and I want his world to revolve around me 24/7. I hate being this way, and I want to change. Is there any way I could change the way i ... (74 words)

What - if anything - should I tell my boyfriend about his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - My boyfiend split up with his ex when she left the country for her career, about 4 years ago. Him and I have now been together for over two and a half years. All is going brilliantly. Recently I found out that she was paralysed in a horrible accident and may never walk ... (87 words)

Why would I come to "hate" my friend, if we started dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I'd like some straight talking advice please! Sorry it's long... I met a man 2 years ago , we went on a date ended up kissing...but then since that date we've not really mentioned the kissing and have become really good friends. Recently he's been very flirty with me send... (385 words)

We only dated for a few months, but I can't get over my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - I can't move on from my ex. We had only been seeing each other for a few months but it was very intense. It just felt right, he was very keen and was already making plans for the future, we had such a great connection together, and shared so many fun times. Then one day, ... (176 words)

I want him desperately. He's straight, single... and isn't interested!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - Please help me, I think my heart is breaking. I've known a certain person for around 8 months, and I've grown more and more attached to him. He's been there for me during some hard times I've had, and I've been gradually falling in complete love with him. There is a 4 y... (178 words)

My fiancee says she doesn't know what she wants, but she's still making plans for our future together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - I've been with my fiance for 2 years now. I love her dearly but the love and affection doesn't seem to be returned. She is very spiritual and her life revolves around being a spiritualist. She would rather read a book than talk about her problems. When I do get her to talk ... (136 words)

I'm with a new guy, but my ex now says he wants me back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - My ex bf and I are close. We broke up on good terms. I met a new guy closer to me and he's nice but my ex called me and told me he wants to get back together. I still have strong feelings for him. What should I do?... (49 words)

Who should have the condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - This probably sounds stupid, but who is supposed to carry a condom: the female or the male?... (18 words)